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I'm a person who doesn't like to communicate with people, and interpersonal relationships have troubled me for many years, and then I found Professor Zeng Shiqiang's lecture on interpersonal relationships in **, and I realized that all problems are controlled by my own heart, and my mentality has changed, and everything is fine, maybe mine can't satisfy you, but it's true.
You can only get it if you can give up your interests.
Obviously take the initiative to suffer a small loss.
We should take the initiative to communicate with others about feelings, listen to each other's ideas more before expressing our own thoughts, and consider them from the perspective of others.
Listen more to others in specific interactions, agree with others, and express your own opinions less.
It is recommended that you listen to Stanley Zhai's lecture Li Sou, as well as Yu Shiwei's lecture on interpersonal relations, and finally I recommend that you listen to Zeng Shiqiang's lecture at Yiwan University.
It will definitely solve your problems and wish you all the best along the way to change your mindset.
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Don't always think about it, these things are generally more distressing the more you think about them.
It's not too early, it's the second year of high school, and you should dedicate yourself to studying.
All I have on my mind is how to improve my grades.
When facing him, be natural and don't think too much.
Kill two birds with one stone.
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A few words for you: treat yourself as someone else, treat yourself as yourself, treat others as someone else, and treat others as yourself!
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In fact, he started to hammer you, just to show friendship. Don't look so concerned, and don't hit you very hard. I'm also often hammered by others. It's fun, haha.
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In high school, you should care about relationships. But it's still about learning.
Interpersonal communication is like mutual, you can't always be self-centered, waiting for others to interact with you, but you should take the initiative and communicate with others enthusiastically, releasing this self-development infectiousness, an active and enthusiastic person is always welcome.
How to deal with interpersonal relationships in high school
1. You must have your own bosom friends, but don't look for them, and don't judge people by their appearance, believing that everyone is an innocent student. Before you know it, you'll find true friends.
2. Be sure to determine your purpose for coming to high school in your first year of high school. It doesn't matter what kind of grades you get into your school, or how much money your parents have laid for you, it doesn't matter, as long as you work hard to write your grades on a blank sheet of paper from now on!
3. Don't complain that the high school you are admitted to is not the point, and don't give up on yourself. Learning is your business, not the school's business!
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