How parents can overcome their children s fear of darkness

Children who are afraid of the dark are mostly insecure.

Introduction: If the child has the behavior of being afraid of the dark, the best thing parents can do is to communicate with the child, understand the child and respect the child, parents can first ask the child what he is afraid of, no matter how outrageous the child says, parents should not laugh at the child, otherwise it may make the child more afraid, and the child will feel embarrassed. When parents know that their children are afraid of the dark, they understand their children's feelings, let them know what they are afraid of, and help them realize that it is a very normal thing to be afraid, which is very understandable for parents, what children are afraid of, in fact, can not be afraid, but there is still no way to understand, so to a certain extent, we must give more support to children, overcome children's fear of the dark, and also confirm the safety of the sleep environment to reassure children, and wait until the child is emotionally stable. Then tell your child some small stories to help him ease his emotions and let him sleep peacefully.

It is very normal for children to be afraid of the dark when they are young, there are almost no children who are not afraid of the dark, and when the children are younger, they will see everything as living things, for example, some children when they are younger, I also like dolls to talk to dolls often, and will see the doll as a living individual, in fact, this will make children full of imagination in the face of darkness, which also causes the reason why children are afraid of the dark. In addition, as the child grows older, he is exposed to a lot of things, and he has a certain understanding of the world, and when facing the darkness, he will be full of imagination and will be afraid of the uncertainty brought by the darkness.

In the process of educating their children, some parents like to use some intimidating ways to educate their children in order to make them obedient, such as crying again, your mother doesn't want you, and if you don't obey, you will be thrown outside. After these words are heard by the child for a long time, the child will have a sense of fear and disbelief in the world.

Finally, it is normal for children to be afraid of the dark, and this situation will slowly alleviate as children grow older, but if parents take some effective solutions during this period, it can also help children reduce some fearful emotions.

Children should be encouraged to learn to be brave and adjust their mental health problems. You can chat with your child, or correct your child's shortcomings, or you can understand your child's thoughts, formulate measures in this regard, improve your child's sleep quality, and let your child resolve this situation through communication.

Parents should accompany their children, often take their children to do some games, take their children to participate in some activities, so that children can get spiritual comfort, so that this problem can be solved.

Tell your child some fairy tales about the dark, you can describe more, what beautiful things will happen in the dark, and slowly the child will not be afraid of the dark, but will have a little longing for the dark, you can also give the child more encouragement, usually take care of the child's emotions, give the child more sense of security, and the child will overcome the fear of the dark.

Introduction: Children will sleep with their parents after birth, but as they grow older. The baby needs to sleep in separate rooms, and if you sleep in separate rooms, the baby sleeps alone, so the lights will be turned off at night.

Some babies will be very afraid of the dark when the lights are turned off, and parents will be very troubled. In the face of the phenomenon that children are afraid of the dark, what should parents do, today I will analyze it for you.

The main reason why children are afraid of the dark is because they suddenly sleep alone, and then turn off the light and it is too dark, he will feel that he is alone, so he will be a little scared. There are also parents who usually scare their children in order to put them to sleep, and after a long time, the children will be psychologically afraid. There are also many children who watch scary TV series during the day, and then when they sleep alone at night, they can't help but think about it, and the more they think about it, the more scared they become.

It may also be because of rain and thunder, and it is very scared to sleep alone, and there is no light.

In such a situation, parents must first communicate with their children to understand what they are afraid of. Parents will only comfort, don't be afraid is useless, don't know what the child is mainly afraid of, you can't solve the fundamental problem. If it is because you watched a scary TV series or cartoon during the day, at this time parents must explain to their children that the TV series are all deceptive, and they must tell their children that the place where they live is very safe, so that children should not be afraid.

You can also tell your child some warm stories before going to bed, so that you can create a very good sleeping atmosphere for your child. When children listen to heartwarming stories, they will not think about some messy things. You can also tell some fun stories, so that you can stay in a good mood and fall asleep.

Parents can also take their children for a walk in the evening, look at the sky, count the stars or look at the moon with their children. If you play in the dark often, your child will forget the horror of the night. Be sure to give your child a full sense of security, so that your child can grow up healthily.

When it is dark, parents can take their children out for a walk, they can tell their children that it is a very normal phenomenon when it is dark, and when they go to bed at night, parents can leave a light for their children, so that children will not be afraid of the dark slowly.

Parents must accompany their children more, must praise their children more, let their children feel safe, and tell their children that darkness is not terrible, what is terrible is people's hearts, as long as they are upright, they will not be intimidated by darkness.

You can tell your child that there is nothing to be afraid of in life, if the child is still very scared, you can buy a night light for the child, and you can often accompany the child in life, so that the child is not afraid of the dark.