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I'm also about to graduate, and everyone has this problem.
Then improve yourself at this stage, take all the certificates that should be examined, take the postgraduate examination, civil servants, try them, improve the ability to improve, and beautify the image.
Because there's no point in doing nothing and thinking about what the future holds.
Since the future is not possible, take every step in front of you, and there will always be a bright day.
I heard a celebrity say something before, probably like this, he said that he never set a general direction for himself, because he said that the future is not a**, he only works hard to do what should be done in one stage, and when the next stage is completed, there will naturally be new goals to complete.
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Hey, at the same time, the end of the world is falling.
It's all the same, the pressure of society, the conditions of our own people, all of which make us lament our fate.
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Passing by, tangled, tangled! It's so tangled that it hurts.
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Do you feel the same way, are you a recent college graduate? My classmates around me have this feeling, and sometimes I feel that I am thinking too much, because everyone has this kind of time when they are confused about the future, it will come anyway, so it is better to relax, face it confidently, and don't think too much.
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I'm the same as you.
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I feel that I still haven't done a good job in life planning, so I have no direction and no goal In fact, many things need to start from small things first, summarize more experience, and then see it step by step. You can read more aspiring books and have more contact with successful people.
To give you a good advice, there is a hint in your career "learn the Tao, enlighten the Tao, preach".
There is a reminder in life: "Reach out to successful people and learn from the success of successful people – turn yourself into a successful person".
Step by step, step by step, the person who can grasp the details is the one who has the last laugh.
Bless each other and believe in yourself
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Friend, I was thinking when I came in. You say that people from 22 to above can come in and see the answers. But I'm only 21 years old, and I'm a person in society... I don't feel anything wrong with going out of society.
I don't know if you've seen Dale Carnegie's The Way to Success.
If only according to the above. First of all, you need to determine what your ultimate goal is. Then go and choose a number of paths that lead to this path. to choose the path that suits you best and is closest to you.
The most important thing in this book is to plan your life. Identify yourself and position yourself.
Don't be nervous about the confusion right now. The important thing is that you now know where you are. It's a good self-awareness too.
Now is the time to identify and position yourself. If you really don't know how to do it. Then I really recommend you to check out this book. It's the same thing I used to be like you.
I feel like this book is really extraordinary. It's as small as the little things in life. Big to national leadership. Shang Hai boiled his head
It's really interesting to see what these bits and pieces are.
I hope you will check out this book
You can also see where your own weaknesses are.
See where you have to play to your strengths.
This book is there together. "The Weakness of Human Nature" and "The Strengths of Human Nature".
This is basically a complete understanding and planning of a person.
Bless you, I hope you can find some way to success.
More joy and happiness to be a boiler above 10,000 people.
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Kindness. I think this is a common problem for people of our age.
From our birth to the present.
Kindergarten, primary school, secondary school... Graduate. You don't have to use your brain, now, where is life? It's up to you to figure it out. It's really hard to handle. Because it's likely to be a life-threatening decision.
I'm glad I have a good job and I'm more stable. Although the salary is not very high, it is enough to support yourself.
How to use your limited youth where it should be used, so that you will not regret it when you are old. I recently found my own answer. I am a teacher.
Just in the second year of work. I just want to teach well. Read more books on education.
Continue to improve your professional abilities. Just be a good teacher. I won't regret wasting my time in the future.
I also want to know more about health regimens and other things. It's better to broaden your horizons. I don't think I'll feel so slim that way.
Huhu, it's just that I'm still lazy now. We haven't taken action yet. But at least the theory already exists.
Hehe. I don't know if the work is not. With more social experience and life experience, I think you will have the answer. The current stage of confusion is normal. Take your time. Your life has just begun. Come on!!!
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I'm 22 years old, but I'm getting more and more confused about life.
often sighs, the so-called life, is this so.
Two years ago, I was full of expectations for life, work, everything.
Two years later, I had an accident at work. Lost everything to me.
When it all started again, I lost my motivation.
I don't have the guts I had before. I hope that this hard-won start can give me a good ending.
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Hello, I'm less than 22 years old in a month, so it's no problem to give you some advice.
Well, young people today have this blind spot, where is my future, what am I going to do in the future?
First of all, I want to say that China is a very long tradition, hungry people, there is a familiar saying, filial piety comes first, parents work hard to make us like this, the first thing to repay is their parents, what can you do, at least to make your parents happy, happy, these happiness are built on the money you care about, you must first have a job, it doesn't matter whether the job is good or bad, at least you can reassure your parents, you don't have to be so old, and you still have to ask your elderly parents for money.
If you are a person with a smart mind and a high degree of education, you can first go to a big company, work in a good unit, and so on, and feel that you have the ability to create a world in a person or with friends, if you are like ordinary people, then first find a stable job, if you have the opportunity, you can climb the ladder, and then get married and have children, and live this life.
In fact, there are too many variables in a person's life, and some of them are beyond the historical data, so don't position yourself too early, which will wear off your sharpness, and finally become a broken jar and a mediocre life.
There is a saying that a very good classmate of mine said, he said that everything will take its course, don't force it too much, it should be yours that you can't run away, it's not yours, you can't pull it, the opportunity is fleeting, the opportunity is to learn to seize the opportunity, it's as simple as that, don't complicate things, that will affect your thinking, and in the end it may lead to your emotional ok!
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22 years old, still a long way to go......
Don't give up easily.
Men will not admit defeat until they reach the end.
At 22 years old, you have eight years left.
In eight years, you spend three years learning technology.
With five years left, there's nothing you can't do.
Remember, there is no absolute impossibility in the world.
Unless you give up on yourself.
God is fair to everyone.
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Hehe, the same mood!!
I graduated from college this year and haven't found a job I want, brother, look at it
I think ah, first find a job (no matter what job) to stabilize We are still young, as long as we are willing to work and are not afraid of other people's gossip, we must have something to do Don't break the law Oh hehe).
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Ticket now! Prepare 2,000 yuan, it's better to have your own computer, and you can go to the Internet café if you don't have it! Then you can make some money of your own!
That's how I lived my college life, but I graduated at the age of 20, and I went straight to college because I didn't go to high school, so... Ha ha!
Now it's 23, and I'm still in ** ticket, and I've earned and lost! I manage it at my own supermarket! If you're fine, just look at the computer**. In fact, as a college student, you should have greater confidence in the future, and the confusion is only short-lived, I think so.
Set yourself a goal! Don't just think about it, no matter how much you think about it, it's a fantasy Take care of the present!
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Find a good job, with a stable job, calm down and think about other things, like I just didn't find a good job, I have been confused, confused, confused, and confused until now, but it is easy to say, now it is really difficult to find a good job, I really don't know how to do it, like us, we speak seriously and responsibly, do not exaggerate our children at all, but can not find a good job.
This society is really the same as the people of this era, and it is not real at all.
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22,23。It's the most critical time, isn't it?
First of all, you have to be clear about what your own personality is like.
Life is inherently helpless, but we just have this helpless life, so we have to create a helpless life in this helpless life, right?
I don't think I'll ever think about useless pressures the way you do.
I'm only 22, and one thing you have to understand in life, career, and relationship is that no matter what you encounter, you firmly believe that you have the ability to do your best.
This is the most typical idea of today's post-80s, everyone is an ordinary person, but your own thoughts and thinking cannot be ordinary, because once you are like that, you will not find a foothold in a very realistic society.
Life forces us to move forward, and we have to face thorns, so we must not only be mentally prepared, but also have a strong determination.
My experience as a student was very ordinary, but you just need to keep this impulsive thought.
I never scored 30 in math in my school grades. But so what?
I won the National Design Award before I even learned Photoshop.
Opened his first company at the age of 19. How old was that? So what? The key is to look at yourself.
So it's useless to just be confused. The most important thing for us in the 80s is to have a good mentality, find a good goal, and strive to achieve everything.
Don't be discouraged when you encounter any problems, this is the most important thing, God will favor those who are willing to work hard, don't give up anything easily, and don't constantly put pressure on yourself, which will only make it more painful. Got it?
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In fact, everyone's opportunities are different.
For your slimness, it is that your opportunity has not yet arrived, so you feel that the future, the future, and the fate are very slim.
However, the opportunity comes, and this is a turning point for man, and all happiness will come to you.
Of course, this is also indispensable for your struggle.
Struggle + Effort + Wisdom = Success.
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I'm 22 years old, and other girls are in love, I want to fall in love but don't dare to fall in love. If you don't have a good job, how can you have a good partner!!
Now I want to endure it, and I don't want to let me eat xx, but I can't bear it for a few years, I will succeed! In this class, students have to shape themselves and perfect themselves. Opportunities are only given to those who are prepared, I may not have been sure before, and I will never let go of the future.
I hope you don't be confused about the future, because at this time only you can make yourself strong, so you must let yourself stand up, think more about the good side, think more about the moment of your happiness in the future, only if you want life to be colorful, you will not fall into black and white.
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Hehe, everyone is the same! I'm 22 years old, I'm graduating soon, and I'm going to work! I'm optimistic about myself!
Hehe, I think first of all, you have to be optimistic about yourself and believe in yourself; Second, you have to have a clear goal and go on with it!!
Mike. Dale said: There are two paths in the woods, I chose one, and I only looked at the other path!
Choose a path you like, stick to it, and you will succeed in ten years!
My goal is to be a professional manager, a professional manager like Welch!
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I'm not your peer, but at the age of 22, I had fantasized and been at a loss like you, and now looking back, how childish and ridiculous my 22 years old was.
The future is in your own hands, the future is in your own hands, and your destiny is in your own hands, it depends on how you grasp it. If you don't grasp it well, you will feel at a loss; If you grasp it correctly, you will feel that the road you have traveled and the road you will walk is most in line with your own destiny, and you will feel that your future is bright and the future is beautiful!
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When we were facing graduation, the pressure really rushed over, and the school was about to leave us as the last protective net in our hearts.
When I was in school, I dreamed of a lot of future blueprints, and I was very ambitious to plan a great path for myself, but when I arrived at that intersection, I found that what I had thought seemed unrealistic, and I lacked the courage to try it myself.
I've worked several jobs, but I've only been working for a few days, and I don't really feel confident in myself because I really understand how little knowledge and skills I have.
If you are confused, please choose a pre-job training or a short-term training, I think this is very practical. You can get technical support in a short period of time, and through this kind of training you understand what you can do, which is not available at university.
I graduated in July, but now I'm also taking a one-year short-term course to refresh my practical skills. I don't think I'll be as confused in a year as I was a few months ago.
If your family conditions do not allow you to continue studying, then you should not hesitate, no matter what work needs you to do, please use your advantages to create happiness for your family!
Bless you!
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Because there is no goal, I feel that there is no rush in life, and there is no motivation Since you say it, it proves that you especially want to change your current life, in fact, you can try to recall, in a certain period of time, we have set a goal for ourselves, and then because of what did not be achieved, and finally we gradually forget Only in this way can you remember how hopeful I was before So, let's start taking action to achieve your ideals I don't know what the outcome will be. But you should remember the saying "God rewards hard work", as long as you are willing to work hard, God will not disappoint you