Worried about adult people of the opposite sex like themselves, how to make the opposite sex like th

Updated on psychology 2024-06-16
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    .In fact, the truth is not necessarily ...... as you thinkYour adjective is "simple", and that's what attracts the other person. Because you are too simple, it stimulates the desire of men to protect, it is they who want to protect you from getting you harmed, and they do not like it.

    These two questions are actually the same. First of all, you don't have to worry about taking special care of you at all (who dares to talk to you in broad daylight - the art teacher talks to you only because you are the only one in the first class (teachers like hard-working students), if you don't like this situation, it is difficult to change others (you try).

    You can try to change yourself, for example, to make yourself more relevant to the people around you. As soon as someone notices, the big grinning person will "negotiate" (- so insidious...... for youThe other party didn't dare. Because generous girls like to spread scandals, once it reaches the ears of the leader, the teacher will be miserable ......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It feels like you may not be the most beautiful, but you look delicate, and you look clean and pure.

    is not good at socializing, which makes people feel like they are just quiet 、、、

    You'll think he's special to the guy you like, but he's not so special to the other girls.

    Beauty, make yourself like a dumpling on a hot day, isn't it hot?

    You can't change others, you can only change yourself, for the art teacher, keep your distance, for his pick-up, just to, oh, well, okay, just take it. He doesn't dare to be rude to you. You shouldn't be afraid of him in the first place, take your own classes, do your own thing, and treat him like a teacher.

    As a man, it's normal to have a love for a girl who looks good, but a normal man will never do anything, so I don't think you can be afraid, they can be nice to you, but they won't do it to you.

    Special care, if you can push it, you can push it, and if you can not agree, you will not agree. Don't go to his private territory alone, teach in public, what can he do to you.

    Relax and have fun.

    Perhaps, you can find a boyfriend. Someone to accompany you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're the overly sensitive type.

    If the teacher thinks you are good, it is normal for him to take special care of you, and you can treat the teacher without special attitude. Our teachers often pull people to talk about homework, and we don't feel abnormal.

    Besides, you are going to face the college entrance examination, and if you pay too much attention to these things, then your studies will definitely be affected.

    I think you're probably the prettier one. In school, you can be honest with people, and you don't have to deliberately avoid anything, and if you work in a company or other place in the future, you will have to suspect the ulterior motives of others.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How to say it. Maybe it's too sensitive.

    We don't know what you look like. No, it is not.

    You don't care too much about what they do to you. Just keep your distance.

    If you feel that their behavior is a bit excessive. Then you have to pay attention to keeping your distance. If it's a friend, a classmate, or something of the same generation. Just a kind refusal.

    Elders and the like. Then keep your distance.

    As for why they treat you well. What they think. It's not very clear. After all, we don't know what kind of people you are in your life circle. Maybe there are fewer of you like that. It's special.

    I also studied art. My second teacher was also more "sexy".

    Ay.. Nothing serious. Depressed to death.

    Fortunately, I have finished the college entrance examination now.

    In a word.. Do whatever you want. Keep your distance.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, there can be no such mentality. Think of yourself as if you were any other student, and then you can bring it up to your teacher.

    Finally, you can talk to the rest of the class, so that everyone can spread the word, let everyone sympathize with you, and there is great power in numbers, and help you solve the problem together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    。。。Try to get along naturally, maybe it's you who squirm like this to make others think you're interesting

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Girls don't pay as much attention to the appearance of the opposite sex as boys, and the most important thing is to have personality charm. First of all, we must be decisive and courageous, and we must be generous. You can be a little domineering, but you must care about girls.

    Also, have a sweet mouth! It can't be too realistic. Romance is necessary.

    Vain girl, who would want to be with a guy who insists that roses are not as affordable as cabbage??

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    With thirty-six tricks If you want to capture the old is basic, you also need an empty city plan, it's best to accept it when you see it, don't make her feel embarrassed, but find a way to make her fall in love with you deeply, so that she can feel your love

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, we must see what preferences and personality she has, and then consider it for ourselves.

    Love is a thing.,You can only mean that you can't say it.。。

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Just concentrate on doing your own thing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The most boring question in the world.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    With thirty-six tricks If you want to capture the old is basic, you also need an empty city plan, it's best to accept it when you see it, don't make her feel embarrassed, but find a way to make her fall in love with you deeply, so that she can feel your love

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Every morning egg milk plan, when it's cold, ask for warmth, prepare an umbrella when it rains, use the ancient way of writing letters, discuss study problems with her, ride her home, eat skewers, invite her to a birthday dinner, and resolutely refuse to admit it when other classmates make fun of you, such a month, confession. Time-tested...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1.Judging the girl's personality 2According to the actual temptation 3

    Make a clear judgment 4 Appropriate and gradual 5 Formulate a clear plan 6 Seize the opportunity to fully implement 7 Complete the finishing work. 8.Continue to heat up 9 to make sure that nothing goes wrong 10

    Succeed with flying colors!! Professional Gender Psychology develops a plan for you! There's a lot of female psychological knowledge in it.

    I want to succeed in adding points to ask!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, we must understand what kind of category the other party belongs to, use wisdom for cuteness, money for beauty, heart for kindness, and comfort packaging for ugliness to eliminate her lack of confidence. Have self-esteem to give her the stairs, compare the gossip to master the four books and five classics, the taste from the light into the stomach, pessimistic to find optimism, boring to find busy, boring to find funny, humor to silence, pungent to gentle, in short, don't hinder the other party, she is happy to accompany her happy and sad to spend with her, after a long time, the sprout of love still depends on wisdom.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's okay to tease her, but don't go too far, care about it when she has something, don't be too attentive, and don't do good things without leaving a name. Well, junior high school students are a bit of a bit of a shitty and masochistic mentality. But the premise is that you have to be handsome and have good grades, otherwise thinking too much will be a floating cloud.

    Children, puppy love is very popular, but it is not bad.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you like her and care about her, you will do it to her unconsciously, such as occasionally seeing her skip breakfast in the morning, buy breakfast, it's too cold, and text him to dress more, you can't help it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, you have to see what kind of personality this girl is, if it's a good student, then you have to have a crush, if it's also a little more open, then you talk about strategy. It's important to be yourself, you have to be very active in helping her when she is in trouble, and tease her when she has nothing to do, so that she may notice you. (FYI).

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Be strict with yourself and be a very good person. You can ask your friends what their shortcomings are and correct them. It's better to care about him than to care about him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Contact him more, but don't do anything stupid, of course it's necessary to care about it, the point is that it's not good if it's too tight, and the rest is just the same as usual, be cheerful.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Send her breakfast every day, make a little romance, and she will always be moved when the days are long.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't like to read, don't read it; If you like to read, the better you read, the more the girl will admire you, but you are junior high school students, and your identity is not suitable for talking about the word "like".

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1.You're handsome.

    2.You are very talented.

    Otherwise you shouldn't overthink it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's better to study hard.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Just care about him as if he were your sister.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you want to reject a person, the first element is politeness, politeness is a strange word, it can not only easily give people warmth, but also can give people warmth while making people unable to approach you, I have used this method many times, and it is more effective. I can tell you what I think is the right way to do it, and you can find the right one for you.

    First; You have to tell him clearly, I'm sorry, I have no intention of falling in love now, my studies are my number one now, we are all working hard because of our studies, we are still young, love is okay and so on.

    Second: When you talk to him, you often mention intentionally or unintentionally that your heart is not with him, that the type you like is not like him, and that you are not suitable.

    Third: This only represents my personal opinion, I think this person is strange, how can the confession be so sudden? Maybe your guess is right, if you want to refuse, you can simply do it, and you won't solve the problem by dragging it all the time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you're a good person, don't miss it. If you really don't feel it at all, then be decisive, don't be ambiguous, it's not good to be with others or yourself. As for the way of refusal, you have to think about it and try not to hurt.

    It can also leave a friendship behind, but be sure to make it clear. Don't say how you are doing, this kind of excuse is not very revealing. You can lie and tell him that you already have someone you like, and you can't afford a second person in your heart, hoping that he will respect you.

    I think he'll be interested.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Since you know that you don't feel that way for him, tell him directly. His mind is a burden to you, if he can stop, then you can still be friends, but if he insists, you will be disgusted, then you can't even be friends. It's up to him to choose.

    Whether to be friends or to be an unrequited person. I was glued around by a boy.。。 And he only met me 4 years ago!

    I do admire his patience and resilience. But not feeling is not feeling. I said it clearly countless times, and he promised to just be friends.

    And as soon as he cares or cares too much, I immediately tell him, and he stops. At least I won't be burdened and scared.

    You can tell him that way.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think you should reject him directly, my classmate also encountered such a situation, and in the end she was moved by the person chasing her, and was with him, but she was annoyed as soon as she was together, and finally broke up. After that, she and he maintained a good friend relationship, and the two of them still looked like a couple, but in the end, the man couldn't stand this, and the two finally reached the point of not contacting. Judging from the situation of my classmates, refuse it fiercely, the long pain is better than the short pain, it is good for you and him.

    Hope you are happy!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's to use silence against sound! You don't say anything, ignore it, don't reply! After a long time, it fades! Rejection is inherently sad! So if you ask for no harm and refuse, this ability is contradictory! Therefore, the way to reduce the damage is to disappear! ~~

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can tell him what you're thinking, and you're going to hurt him in the end, and you don't have to tell him directly, and if you don't tell her, it will affect your learning.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If, he is an introverted boy, tactfully refuse, on the contrary, directly refuse!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's simple, you tell him that if you can get into a university, you'll consider it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    So what if you are him, what to do, empathize and have the answer

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    First of all, you have to be pretty, and then you have to be good.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's best to find what you have in common so that you can have a lot to say and also take the opportunity to show yourself

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You have to like him before you can make him like you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Thinking about others everywhere This is the most effective Pretty is not something we can set Show your charm Hehe Long smile.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The dew damps the sand walls, and the twilight is lonely. The mud is not fragrant, and the fertile grass is greasy.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's really hard to see.

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