My boyfriend and I broke up for almost 5 months, and I still miss him, how can I save our relationsh

Let's be honest: if you're separated because of a fight, I think you'll be back if you just talk to her. But if he breaks up in a particularly calm situation, it proves that he has already thought about it and has thought it clearly. If he still loves you, he'll come back.

You also have to think clearly, whether he is really suitable for you, whether he will really take care of you and take care of you. Even if you don't come back, you'll meet someone better!

Adjust yourself and be happier. Otherwise, if you are hurt, you must learn to be kind to yourself, especially at this time.

I think my first friend was right! It's been 5 months, and if he can't let you go, he should have come back to you a long time ago. Now it is likely that he has already started another relationship.

Stubborn, face-loving men do have! However, there are many examples around me who choose new love. However, if you still love him, if he is an emotional, single-minded person.

I hope you give it a try, and if you can get back together, you're really lucky. Bless you

I understand your current mood very well, in fact, you always miss him and don't necessarily love him very much, maybe it's the psychology is doing weird, as the saying goes, the more you can't get it, the more precious you feel, this sentence is not wrong at all, if one day your boyfriend really changes his mind, you may not think he is a treasure!

Let him go when you break up, cherish your past memories and find your happiness again.

Save? If it's just your unilateral intention, it's not necessary, and it's been 5 months since you broke up, I think. Unlikely.

Keep choosing to give up and don't look back.

Let it go, and go to him again, only to hurt yourself more.

Perhaps, he's with another woman now.

Scattered, scattered. It's awkward to redeem it.

First of all, I have to talk about why you broke up.

First of all, you should give each other time to think calmly and clean up your mood; Reflect on the problem and make noises to find ways to deal with it; Sincere apologies and communication. Impulsiveness and sensibility can turn some small problems in the relationship into big contradictions, or even break ups. But when you wake up, you will start to regret it.

And if you want to save this relationship again, you must allow yourself to change, reflect on the problem seriously, and avoid repeating the mistakes of the past.

1. Give each other time to think calmly

When couples break up, they will definitely say a lot of hurtful things and act irrationally because of negative emotions such as anger, grievances, and disappointments. So after the breakup, even if you have already begun to have some regrets, don't act impulsively again, thinking that the pure high attendant will immediately go back to find her boyfriend to get back together. If the boy is still angry at this time, it may be hopeless to get back together.

So you should give each other time to think calmly, relieve your emotions well, and wait until you can sit down and think about the relationship before thinking about anything else.

2. Seriously reflect on the problem

If you want to recover, the most important thing is to be able to reflect on the problem and solve the problem. Otherwise, this will always be a thorn in each other's hearts, which cannot be dissipated. Therefore, first of all, we should break down prejudice and stubbornness, admit our mistakes, and analyze the real reasons for each other's quarrels.

And learn to empathize and consider your boyfriend's emotions and positions. And in thinking, look for a more suitable way for two people to get along. Feelings need to be run-in, and it is impossible to completely change them through one party, and more importantly, to find a boundary that can be accepted and agreed with by each other.

Sannian apologized and communicated with each other early and sincerely

When you have cleared your mind, you should take the initiative to apologize, admit your inappropriate behavior, and seek forgiveness from the other party. Secondly, it is necessary to express your love sincerely. In fact, the stalemate between each other is only one step away.

Maybe your initiative to apologize can make the other party feel guilty, and also admit your own problems, then the follow-up communication can be smoother.

You can call the other party electrocution, you can take the initiative to say to the other party that you regret it, or you can take the other party to some places where the two of you have been before, so that the other party will be particularly moved, and finally reconcile.

You can take the initiative to buy gifts for each other, or you can take the initiative to say some nice things to each other in your life, or you can say some love words to each other, so that the two can get a good redemption and buy some gifts for each other.

You can apologize to the other party, and the two people should communicate well, so that you can really solve the problem.

Your boyfriend broke up with you, and you'll regret it. At this time, you need to think about how to get your boyfriend back after a breakup. Don't stalk him, of course, but learn the trick of saving your boyfriend and change your mind to contact him.

1. Don't keep it right away, change your previous attitude first.

When the other partner is about to break up with you, as many girls are used to, they immediately cry and beg you. So the text messages have been sending, and the mobile phone has been broadcasting. But women forget that men and women are different, and that women often make decisions on impulse, while men often make decisions after careful consideration.

If you trade pleading and self-esteem for the other person's love, your relationship will change forever even if the other person returns. So, what you should do at this time is to change your previous attitude. Think about how you can change yourself, how you can adjust his negative impression of you and prove that you are really great and not what he thought you were.

As soon as he changes his negative opinion of you, he will start paying attention to you and start paying attention to your changes.

2. Good communication.

Good communication is the best way to solve difficulties. Love without communication can't last long. A person's inner thoughts can only be understood by others when he says them.

I'm a firm believer that everyone in a relationship doesn't like to guess what's going on in the other person's heart. When everyone is angry, they can't think rationally and independently, they do something paranoid. If you calm down, the most important thing is to turn your head away, communicate calmly with the other person, explain the reasons and consequences of the matter, and do not leave the other person with a misunderstanding.

3. Understand why he lost interest.

Think about why. Time may have passed, you may be going through a tough time, or you may not be a good fit for him. He may have lost interest in you because one of you has changed.

You may have experienced a temporary change because of a difficult situation, or you have changed. Sometimes people are separated. If a relationship ends because one or both of you have changed, the best thing to do for both of you is to move on.

4. Respect his choice.

When a man takes the initiative to break up with you, calmly accept the facts and respect his choice, which means that he really wants to leave you. At this time, if you are entangled and unwilling to accept this fact, it will make him decide to leave you and feel that his judgment is correct. But if you calmly accept the facts and respect his choice, he will be a little hesitant and even suspect that his decision is wrong.

If you want to get your boyfriend back, you can invite the other party to travel, you can also invite the other party to go to the movies, you can also ask the gang to go shopping, if you have free time, you can also prepare some surprises for the other party, and you can also apologize to the other party directly, so you can save your boyfriend.

You can find your boyfriend and tell the other party that what you did wrong in the past will be corrected in the future, but in fact, you still can't let go of him in your heart.

On WeChat, you can ask how your boyfriend is doing now, whether he has started a new life, you can express how much you miss him, and you can tell your boyfriend that you have changed a lot of shortcomings.

Today I will answer to you about still missing my boyfriend a month after the breakup, should I save this relationship again? Look at the other party and think it's worthless. After all, getting back together is not an easy task.

It takes a lot of time and effort. Look at the possibility of you getting back together. If the relationship is no longer possible, trying to get back together is just hurting yourself twice, but if it is still possible, even very likely, if it is not reversed, it may be regretted for the rest of your life.

If it's because the other person has mood swings, it means that it's not impossible for you to be between you.

Broke up, are you still thinking about ta, do you want to get back together? And he has signs of emotional swings towards you. You can't help but feel nostalgic for the past.

When you see contact with the opposite sex, you will get angry and jealous. There is also a grudge against you and always sues you unconsciously. Seeing that you are doing well will make you anxious.

But does the fact that you have the possibility of getting back together mean that you will definitely be able to get back together? Wrong, he has feelings for you, which means that he has not completely let go of you and still has feelings for you, so the possibility of getting back together between you is much greater than not having feelings at all, but the focus is still on the way to redeem it. I have helped many people to reunite and succeed in the unlikely circumstances, but many people who have a great success rate have directly turned recombination into something that is no longer possible because of their own wrong behavior.

It is equal to loving and being loved.

People who are not loved at the beginning can use various skills and methods to get the love of each other, and at the beginning the loved person will lose the love of the other party because they do not cherish it, believe in pampering, pride and other factors. Anything can be overthrown or destroyed, and in the process of recovery, whether the headwind is overthrown, or whether it is fought well, depends mainly on the instability of the heart. This situation of the subject is a typical case of unstable mentality, counterattack leading to compound failure.

The other party shows nostalgia for the past, which is actually the effect of exercise, but as soon as he sees the effect, he fights back, and the previous short-term job will fail. There are skills in exercise, and the Avengers can't grasp the essence. Then all in vain.

Many people think that disconnection is untouchable, and as long as you don't contact again, you can wait until the other party comes to you to get back together. Or, as long as there is no contact for a while, the other party can agree to settle after a while. What's the difference between this and pie in the sky?

It shouldn't be held because the two of you have already broken up, and your boyfriend doesn't like you at all and won't break up with you if he likes you.

This relationship should be saved, after all, the breakup time is still relatively short, and the relationship between the two people is still there, so it is very good for both of you to save this relationship.

Of course it should, if you really can't let go of this emotion, you should still be brave enough to give it a try.

I can't forget my boyfriend after breaking up with him, and I want to get him back, what should I do? Who proposed the breakup. Why ask this question, because men tend to think more rationally, and if it is a man who proposes to break up, then the possibility of redemption is extremely small, so there is no need to bother to do it.

If it's you, then there's a possibility of redemption, keep looking. How's your ex-boyfriend. How does your ex-boyfriend treat you, is it the type that loves you, if not, then there is no need to redeem it, after all, men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and finding someone who loves you is the key to life; If yes, then read on.

<> if your ex-boyfriend has a new relationship. As the saying goes, after a breakup, it's better not to bother, respect others, and respect yourself. If the answer to both of the above ideas is yes, then it depends on whether the ex-boyfriend has found a new love, as the saying goes, it is better to demolish ten temples than to break up a marriage, then if this man has his own new love, you don't have to bother to disturb other people's lives, which will only make people disgusted and show their own frivolity at the same time.

If the answer is no, then you can try.

After the breakup, you can't forget the past, at this time, everyone will be eager to redeem each other, but do not know how to effectively and quickly recover, from the previous redemption experience to introduce you to a few practical recovery steps, I hope you will not take a detour, and reunite with the heart as soon as possible. The first step to recovery: adjust your mentality I know that everyone wants to quickly get back their ex, most people will blindly act and contact each other, but at this time it is not very good to receive feedback from the other party, because your mentality is anxiety (want to get back together quickly), fear (fear of losing the other party), if you contact the other party at this time, it will pass on this bad feeling to the other party and bring pressure to the other party, then the other party can only escape or refuse.

For example, after the following guy was broken up by his ex-girlfriend, he took the initiative to ask for reunion many times, but in exchange for the indifference of his ex-girlfriend, the depression and anxiety when he first received guidance, and shouted every day to contact each other.

Try to make yourself better and see each other.

Who wouldn't want to have the perfect love? So some people feel very sorry after breaking up with their ex. At this time, whether you choose to get back together with the other party or not, you need to take the right way to deal with it.

Specifically, you should analyze and judge from three aspects: the state of interaction between each other, the emotional foundation between two people, and whether the conditions between each other are suitable.

1. Analyze whether two people can get back together from the state of interaction between each other.

For two people who have broken up, whether they can get back together depends first on the state of interaction between each other, if the two people can still maintain a normal state of communication, it means that there is still the possibility of reunion between the two people. And if two people can no longer interact normally, then there is absolutely no possibility of reuniting between these two people.

2. Judge whether you can get back together according to the emotional foundation between two people.

Whether love can exist is based on the emotional state between two people, if two people still have a good emotional foundation after breaking up, then there is a certain possibility of continuing the front edge, and it is possible for two people to reunite. And if there is no affection between two people, then everything is impossible to talk about, and it is impossible to get back together.

3. Analyze whether it can be compounded from the perspective of whether the conditions of both parties are suitable.

If two people want to fall in love together, they must have the right conditions in all aspects. For two people who have broken up, if the two people are more suitable in all aspects, then there will be more common language between each other, and it is possible to resolve conflicts through mutual communication and get back together. On the contrary, if the conditions of the two parties are very different, the possibility of getting back together after the breakup will be very low.

It is these factors that ultimately determine whether two people can get back together after a breakup.