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As the saying goes: people live faces, trees live bark, it can be seen that Chinese regard face very important. Trusting relationships, finding connections, and caring for face is a part of Chinese culture from ancient times to the present, and China attaches great importance to human feelings and sophistication, so many people care about face very much.

In my opinion, face is the performance of others to a person, and these manifestations can be the image of money and power superimposed, and can be a proof of one's own strength; one's own strength determines the size of one's own face and determines how others treat oneself; What others do to you is up to you; Therefore, face is earned by oneself, not given by others, and it is not through how valuable the gifts you give appear to be so face-saving!

Du Yuesheng famously said, "There are three bowls of noodles that are the most unpalatable: human noodles, scenes, and feelings."

Therefore, for us Chinese, face can sometimes even affect a person's life.

Sometimes you must not ask: What is face?

In fact, face is just a barrier that people set up for themselves in their hearts. It is the eyes of others that people themselves imagine in their own hearts.

Human beings are essentially social animals, so in the subconscious, people "want to save face" is to be able to be recognized by others. But more is often lost for the sake of that recognition. It can be seen that face is the most useless thing.

Therefore, when a man steals koi fish and gives it to a friend who opens a shop, not to mention that stealing is a crime and even corrupts morality, he can't help but ask himself, is face really that important? Even if your friend opens a store, is that asking you to steal koi fish as gifts? Isn't the old saying still saying, "Thousands of miles to send goose feathers, the gift is light and affectionate"?

The heart is not pure, just a stolen koi, will you give it with peace of mind or will your friends accept it with peace of mind? Even if you think about it, if it were your friend who gave you a luxurious gift in this way, would you happily accept it? Being a man is really the most important, many gifts are small, it doesn't mean anything, as long as you are sincere, it is the best

Some people just take face very seriously. It's right for you to give a pear to a friend who opens a store, but if your friend knows that you stole it, he will definitely pull down his face. So don't take face very seriously, just be realistic.

I think face is still very important for men, but the size of face is earned by oneself, and the face obtained by improper means is not respected. The face gained by using one's own strength is a feeling of pride all the time, and slapping a swollen face and being fat is a manifestation of vanity, and this kind of face is not favored and respected.

I think face is still very important, especially in today's society, everything depends on face to do things, but if you do something illegal because you want to save face, it will outweigh the losses.

I think face is actually not so important sometimes, but there is no way, some people feel that face is very important, and they feel that living is to save face, especially male compatriots, but I feel that stealing is not necessary.

A man's face is really important, a man works hard to earn money to buy a car and a house just to have face with the woman's parents, work well, and earn more to glorify his ancestors.

I think in the eyes of adults, face may be really important, because face is the face of him when he goes out, and it is normal for a friend to open a store and he steal koi to give it to me, because he has to be able to hang on face, but it is not right for him to steal koi.

Some people attach great importance to face, but some people don't care much about it, but I still think that face is necessary, but it must be moderate, otherwise it is easy to make yourself unable to get off the stage.

I think a lot of people really take face too seriously. If you have it, you will send it, and if you don't, you will not send it, is it because you are a friend that you must send it? I don't think a bosom friend will be, because it's not good for you to say that you don't send him.

It's up to the individual, I don't think it's so important, even to steal koi to send, I think it's a bit too much, in fact, you can be polite and affectionate.

Face is not that important, you send something real, you go to steal koi fish to give to your friends, this is a kind of stealing, and your friends will also be ashamed of you.

Once upon a time, in a country with a severe drought, a well-respected soothsayer predicted that rain would eventually fall in seven days. His appointment came true, and everyone was very happy. He made another appointment that a rain of treasures would come, and the prophecy came true again.

Everyone became happy and wealthy. His next prophecy said that after seven days there would be rain, a cursed rain, and anyone who drank it would go mad. So the king ordered a large amount of pure water to be stored to protect it from the cursed rains.

But his people did not have facilities to store water. When the rain came, people drank the water and went crazy. The king is left alone"Normal"But he couldn't govern the mad people.

With nothing to do, he finally drank the cursed water. In order to rule over them, he must understand their delusions. We often find ourselves unconsciously echoing the ideas of most people in order to get along easily with others in this world.

In this world, everything we do, everything we think, is based on a very limited system of common logic. We place a lot of emphasis on consensus. If the majority of people agree that something is true, usually it becomes legitimate.

When we look at a pond, we humans think it's just a pond, but for the fish in the pond, it's their universe. If we take a democratic stance, then the aquatic communities will win because there are far more people in the water than those of us who watch the pond. Most are never always right.

Big-selling fast-food movies with no ideas can make a lot of money, while a good film made independently is watched by only a few people.

This is an inferiority complex mentality, an extreme psychological insecurity, and what is needed in this situation is "love".

I guess there's a slight problem in my heart.

You can go to the psychological counseling department of the hospital to see how it is going.

Are you mentally ill, I suggest that your mind take a look at ** have such a vicious psychology.

I feel like it's a little annoyed, and he feels like you're talking bad about you and you're pretending to be generous and ignoring him, and he's looking like he's a little bit of a person.

You probably think you don't care about him.