Falling in love with someone who can t and shouldn t be loved

You say that you should refrain from it, and you can see that you are not deliberately destroying the happiness of other people's families and acting as a third party. But now that he is married, he is responsible for his family, even if he married the woman for his mother's sake. I think as long as they can stay together and there is no divorce, you should have more control over yourself.

Maybe it's hard to extricate yourself and you don't want to extricate yourself, but I suggest that you wait until they are really not together before you think about it, don't pay too much attention to it at the moment, and remind yourself that people are people with wives!!

Believe in yourself and you can do it!

There is always a huge gap between reality and imagination. All the things we hoped for were not always what we wanted. You and him are not destined to be together

So if you love him a lot, wait for him; Otherwise, resolutely leave him

Imagine for yourself

Now there are a lot of such problems. Don't think that men are all shameful, men are also human beings! There are feelings, too!

I'm a man, but I think men seem to be strong, but they are actually much more fragile than women. It's like a piece that has just been quenched, and the hardness is greater, but at the same time, the brittleness is also greater! There are really a lot of extramarital affairs like this, but it seems that it is still very conservative in my country, and I don't know how Western countries view this problem.

If he divorces tomorrow and marries you the day after tomorrow, you dare to guarantee that everything that happened to you will not happen to another girl again If one day, he comes back and divorces you, saying that he is in love with another girl, how can you be embarrassed?

Then let go and chase and don't let yourself regret it.

Since you know that you can't and shouldn't cut through the mess quickly, you should pay attention when you should take care of it. Most of the men ate the bowl and looked at the pot!

Agree with the above, don't make excuses for yourself, don't think so.

He's married, will he live for his mother and someone he doesn't like for the rest of his life? That's all excuses.

Keep things simple, take a week off and go for a walk, and leave all your worries behind. If you can't abandon him, you treat that man as an older brother or younger brother, thinking that there is only your brother and sister between you and him. It's better to change the working environment).

Everything is an excuse, unless he comes back to you after a divorce.