I m a 21 year old girl, what should I do

Updated on society 2024-06-02
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The Internet will give people a beautiful illusion, because once "distance produces beauty" into reality, there will be a big and small difference, wasn't it the same for you and your boyfriend at the beginning? It must have been because he felt good that he went from the north to the south, right? "No one is perfect" everyone has shortcomings, you yourself said that he is very good to you, he loves to eat cool, it means that he loves you very much, you should communicate with him once, tell him that he loves you and trust you, you also said that you were very difficult when you were first together, and you have survived are you really willing to give up?

    In fact, you should be very glad that you met someone who loves you on the Internet, and you must have seen a lot of reports of girls being deceived by netizens on the Internet, right? Your current boyfriend is a guy who treats you sincerely, can you guarantee that the next one will be so good? Don't covet a momentary sense of security and lose a lifetime of security....If it were me, since I had the courage to go from the north to the south for love, I would have more courage to face any greater resistance in the future, you are still young and you can have many choices, but I hope that no matter which one you choose, you will not regret it in the future, and I hope my analysis can help you, after all, it is not easy to manage a relationship, don't give up easily....

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    21 is not small. Something. You can't grow alone.

    Emotional matters. Don't think it's always sweet. Treat it with a normal heart.

    You have to understand. No matter how sweet your relationship is. After getting married.

    It's bland to live with whomever you want. Who to choose You have to figure out for yourself. The network is untrustworthy.

    But since you've been in a relationship with that person for 2 years. No man is willing to waste so much time just to play with a woman. What's more, men love freshness very much.

    You'd better be cautious, some people will never get it back after they have passed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I want to tell you, you are really wrong, the difficult times have come, the days are better and the things have happened, you should think about it, can the Sichuan you know now give you happiness? In the end, when the bamboo basket is empty, you will know how good this husband is now, he cares about you too much, you just have a good talk and friendship, young love is like this.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    As you said, you have grown up, you have become a lot more realistic, and you follow your heart.

    I've also lost, so I know that he did that because he cared about you but you went against his will, so there is a distance between the two of you, and there is less impulse at the beginning, "people are not arrogant boys" follow the heart.

    It's a bit of a feeling of teaching bad guys, so everything has to be decided by yourself, and there is no sense in doing more in your heart, leaving some good memories, greeting each other when you want to, don't do too much, right?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Have you ever heard of "Cloudy Day"?Men don't have to be speechless, women don't need to be pitiful, it's just that in those years, the two of you have no fate, you can't have life if you have love, but life doesn't have to have love, you have been with him for more than two years, I think love has become family affection...I think he really loves you, and he is very insecure, otherwise he wouldn't be so afraid of losing you, remember that a woman is really going to leave when she cries, and a man is really in love when she cries, so I think it's better to cherish him....

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm better than you. 22 years old. I feel that the boyfriends and girlfriends I met from the Internet can't go long, and they go very well.

    Because he (she) can know you from the Internet can also know him (her), if you have to make a decision, I want you to grasp the reality, the network is virtual, and the reality should not invest too much. You know. Work first.

    Take care of your family. Then find someone at work who loves you and can take care of you. Will live.

    There aren't many good men now. If you're a good girl, there's going to be a good boy.

    Good men don't like you to be beautiful. It doesn't pay attention to your family background. It also doesn't pay attention to your academic qualifications.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The rest of your life is something you have to fight for. That's how you can be happy.

    It's frustrating to understand the reality of life.

    Think about it. Do you love him or not? in making a decision. After all, my life is not a joke.

    If you don't love him. Don't hurt him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe fate is over, and people's feelings seem to be like burning candles, and at the end of the day, only a residue will be left...Since you like it, you can try to date with Sichuan, maybe it's the person you really need to find. Bless you!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Cherish what you have now, what is a sense of security, when you really lose the people around you, you will feel that there are so many Internet deceptions, it is not easy to find him now, don't be too greedy!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How to look at the problem seriously for the first time.

    I feel like two people are together, no matter how they met.

    It's a way after all.

    It's been more than 2 years, and the feelings should be very deep, maybe when he achieves certain results.

    Ignoring your feelings, but the car turned around and was on the right path.

    That person is not wrong at the time.

    Do you really want to love that Sichuan again, talk about it for 1 or 2 years, and blow it, isn't it a waste of time? You can guarantee that you and Sichuan's real ability to be happy to the old advice to cherish what is in front of you Although I am younger than you, but I think this is also the opinion of most people. Handwritten.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Now together, maybe together, not together, remember my saying: if you miss it, you may never come. I think it's better for you to grasp the reality.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Sichuan boy, have you seen it, maybe it's just the appearance, you better seize the present, don't think about anything else.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm a junior in high school, and although I'm not very old, I've been troubled by love. I think the Internet is unreal, when you really come into contact with another boy you will find his shortcomings, you may feel that it is not as good as before, and then it will be too late to regret it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Go back and ask your parents for forgiveness, and then live with your parents, so that there is more security, and family affection is more important than anything else!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everything on the Internet is nothing, everything is real, and he cries for you to change for you. I love you very much, men on the Internet are full of rhetoric, and there are many examples of this on TV. Be careful.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Now that you're together, don't worry about it, if you leave him, maybe you'll regret it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's better for your own future, don't torture your feelings like this.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Please don't believe in online dating, girls should know how to cherish themselves, all I can say is this.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You're changing, he's changing, and it's easy to share hardships and joys.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Cherish the present、The network is not real!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Think more about your parents......

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Maybe you're curious.

    Maybe you've listened to the people next to you talk a lot.

    Yearning. In short, you are still very ignorant. That is, this is normal.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The biggest psychological problem is extreme confusion, low self-esteem and arrogance exist at the same time, and it is easy to cause mood swings for some small things.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Look at what's going on. It's generally some rational things in love. Family troubles should be minimal.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I'm 29 years old this year, and I'm in love with a 19-year-old girl, do you think I should continue? Why not continue?

    1: In the vast sea of people, meeting is fate. Some people have been looking for half their lives, but they have not been able to meet the person they love, since you have met them, and you care whether the other party is 19 or 20 years old!

    Not a minor. There is no so-called age distinction in love, and besides, although some people are not very old, they are very mature in their hearts, so why hesitate about a number?

    2: Love is a very wonderful thing, sometimes unconsciously, inexplicably comes, so many people just like this person, can't say what is good about the other party, maybe there are many shortcomings, but just like, just because of this love is both expected and distressing. Life for decades, whether it is long or not, whether it is short or not, why care about those worldly and other people's gossip.

    Since love continues, don't wait until you lose it, you will regret it, you must know how many people envy you when you meet the person you love!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    How can others answer this question well?,Should it continue to be worth continuing or not, only you can judge it in your daily life?,Does 19-year-old people feel particularly young, ignorant and immature, so they must not be together?,Not necessarily?。 I'm 94 years old, my boyfriend is 97, three years younger than me, to be honest, I also thought about the landlord at the beginning, but the result is, he is very mature and stable and good-tempered, and I am willful, of course, I love him very much in my heart, and I have been very tolerant of me along the way, and his family also knows that I will buy a house next year and plan to get married at the end of the year, so age can be a problem or not a problem, depending on how you treat it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's not terrible to fall out of love, it's a pity to be separated from someone who doesn't love you, and it's not a bad thing to let go of the past.

    Feelings are giving, sustenance, concern and possession, and there is no bastard logic that you can ignore if you are a man.

    If you can pull yourself out of the shackles of gender and look at it carefully, you will find that your current pain, confusion and unwillingness are all caused by the destruction of the old relationship, and it is time to stop the loss.

    That woman is not suitable for you and does not love you, you don't need to fight for her anymore, focus back on yourself, take good care of yourself, and think about the future plan is more important.

    Accept your negative emotions first, express your emotions bravely, and don't suppress them.

    Life is not always lucky, it is even very nonsense, many efforts and efforts are difficult to get the corresponding reward, just like this thing you encountered, unwilling, sad, helpless.

    When fate and direction are difficult to control, being happy, loving yourself, and letting yourself live without burden in your heart is the only thing that human beings can do.

    Don't do revenge, don't torture yourself, and don't lie and deceive yourself, which will make you fall back into bad flames. Don't do things that you regret and have to pay, just stop now.

    You are not ashamed to be able to love someone with your heart and have a sincere relationship. On the contrary, you should be proud, because loving someone should be very honest and serious, and this is the reason why love is great.

    If you have a friend who knows well and is sensible, you can talk to him, and positive chatting and encouragement will help you get out.

    At the same time, don't get caught up in emotions, don't sink in, but overcome them. You can take a short vacation to take a break, force yourself to exercise every day, you can go out to travel, you can read the book you have always wanted to read, in short, you can divert your attention, and force yourself to maintain a certain purpose and routine in life, all of which will help you get out as soon as possible.

    I hope you will wake up soon. This experience also gave you a better understanding of some women, but you are also a member of the society who has worked, and you should not always be fixed in the ivory tower.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Do you have a mother complex, it's too abnormal, let's go! Fool.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This kind of thing is, as the saying goes: Zhou Yu beats Huang Gai, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer!

    In another phrase: flies don't stare at seamless eggs!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Answer: If you don't think it's suitable, break up quickly, the longer it drags on, the more troublesome it will be!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    and she asked for money, brand-name leather bags, clothes, shoes, jewelry, all kinds of luxury goods, and expensive ones.

    Then use it with peace of mind, and the money that cannot be used up can also benefit the family.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Let's go, bro wow! Recharge your batteries!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You don't have brains, don't say who plays whom, this is definitely Zhou Yu beating Huang Gai--- one is willing to fight and one is willing to suffer!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Turn on your Lamborghini and blow the air.

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