What should I say when I speak at a gathering of Buddhist friends who believe in Buddhism?

You belong to the Buddhist faith people gathering, of course, to talk about some topics about the belief in Buddhism, but just talk casually, start chatting about the Dharma-related topics, as well as the experience of each Buddhist friend, this is much simpler than you normally communicate with customers and strangers outside, the above is just a personal suggestion, I hope my answer will be helpful to you.

First of all, I would like to say that Buddhism is a kind of faith, and believing in Buddhism is a manifestation of self-cultivation and doing good deeds.

When you get together with Buddhist friends, you talk about some things in Buddhism the most, so if you want to talk about some things in Buddhism, it is best to talk about some things in Buddhism, preferably something that you have personally experienced, or something that happened to your relatives and friends around you, so that your speech will be more infectious, but remember that the things you talk about must be positive and beautiful, friends, after hearing it, you will have a positive attitude and have a beautiful pursuit of life.

Since it is a gathering of Buddhist friends who believe in Buddhism, then you should have also studied Buddhism, and the speeches are all about some Buddhist knowledge, or some things about everyone's belief in Buddhism, or what happened in people's homes, to analyze from the point of view of Buddhism, they are all about some things in that aspect, if you don't know, try to talk as little as possible.

You should be able to say something good about the Buddha, or you big guys chant the Buddha to get the essence, remember not to say bad things, the Buddha is the best, and the heart of the person who believes in the Buddha is the best.

We generally pay attention to the effect in everything we do. Like when we do business, we make money and the effect is good; Lost money, bad results. When you do something, it is not good to not get results, and the heart of faith cannot grow.

Is there any effect of taking refuge? If you don't practice, it won't work, but if you practice, it will definitely have an effect, at least your troubles will gradually lighten and your wisdom will gradually increase.

Because of my happiness, when we meet, we can think that some people are really doing good, doing good deeds, accumulating virtue, fixing these, and it brings some good things to people, is it false, so we will talk about these.

Talk about topics related to Buddhism. This is the way people have a mentality, they like to talk about topics they like. Coincide with.

When you gather with Buddhist friends who believe in Buddhism, you should talk about Buddhism and learn about Buddhism.

It mainly talks about the experience of chanting scriptures and the perception of understanding the law.

Feelings about some sutras.

It's a good idea to speak some everyday language about Buddhism.

Listen and watch more, don't talk too much, you should go for the first time.

There are the following:

1. Resist alcohol with softness.

At the wine table, I believe that friends have found quite a lot of "tried-and-tested" refusers, even if you say that you are trying to persuade you to drink, people just raise their glasses with smiles and do not drink, and they are full of words.

2. It is necessary to persuade alcohol moderately.

Some people always like to use the wine field as a battlefield, trying their best to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is not true if they don't drink the amount. In this way, it is okay for people who drink a lot of alcohol to deal with it, but it is very difficult for people who drink a lot of alcohol, and sometimes it is difficult to persuade people to drink excessively, which will destroy the original atmosphere. Moderate alcohol persuasion should be achieved, especially for managers.

3. Be humorous in your language.

In fact, at the wine table can show a person's talent, common sense, cultivation and communicative demeanor, sometimes a witty and humorous language will leave a deep impression on others, so that people invisibly have a good impression of you. So managers should know when to say what to say, and the language should be appropriate.

Other considerations.

First, it is necessary to distinguish between regional workplace culture and wine culture, which is the premise.

Second: It is key to be in the right order and movement when toasting.

If a group of strangers are sitting together, you don't know who is the most honored guest, and everyone will consciously toast in order.

Third: Pay attention to the art of speaking and the rules when toasting, which is the highlight.

Fourth: The general routine of the toast is to adhere to the general principle of "being humble and elevating the leader".

Talk about education, talk about school, talk about grades, at this age, most of them have children, the younger ones talk about milk powder, the older ones talk about going to school, and the older ones talk about which high school to take the exam, or even college, if they are of the same age, then talk about the future. Liven up the wine table. 2) Learn to shush the cold and ask for warmth

Keep a clear head, it is indispensable to ask for warmth after drinking, a cup of yogurt, a cup of hot water, and a piece of heat all seem to you to care. 3) Learn to be respectful: Don't interject when others are talking.

When others make a toast, you should stare at the other person's eyes and listen carefully, even if you empathize with one of the sentences, do not insert a sentence in the middle, unless the person who is speaking is asking you and wants you to agree, then you can simply respond, but it should be simple and clear, and do not dominate. When others toast, they can't whisper to others, which seems very rude. 4) Learn to drink:

Drink a little red wine every day, or bayberry shochu. Don't drink too much alcohol each time, take small white sips, take 1 or 2 sips of red wine, and drink a little red wine every day, or bayberry shochu. 5) Toast with rhetoric:

When toasting, there should be words, and do not directly let the other person drink; If you are toasting the leader, you can say "thank the leader for your cultivation".

6) Learn to be humorous: Sprinkle the table can show a person's talent, common sense, cultivation and communicative demeanor, sometimes a witty and humorous language, will leave a deep impression on the guests, so that people invisibly have a good impression of you. Therefore, it is important to know when to say what to say, and it is important to use the right language and be witty and humorous.

7) Don't whisper: Most banquets have a lot of guests, so try to talk about topics that most people can participate in and get the majority of people to agree with. Because of the different personal interests and hobbies, the knowledge is different, so try not to be too biased, to avoid self-respect, the world and the north and the sea, the gods are boundless, and the phenomenon of digression occurs, and everyone is ignored.

In particular, try not to whisper to others, giving others a sense of mystery and affecting the effect of drinking. 8) Remind yourself not to lose your temper: pay attention to not lose your words after drinking, don't say big things, don't lose your temper, don't spit and fly, don't throw your fingers around, drink soup and pop, don't fart and burp, can't hold back to go to the toilet, no one stops you 6) Learn to be humorous:

Spiritual practice means correcting one's wrong behavior. If you have thought wrong, said or done wrong in the past or now, and you want to correct it, that is practice. Wrong and good, by what judgment, the good is right, and the evil is wrong.

What is good and what is evil, and how to divide it? According to the division of the Buddha's scriptures.

Generally speaking, when learning Buddhism for the first time, one must first understand what a Buddha is and what Buddhism is. Then we will learn how to practice and how to do it.

If you don't have the opportunity to encounter good knowledge, it's better to recite the Buddha first.

Buddhism has three major disciplines

1 Precepts 2 Meditation 3 Wisdom

The most basic thing is: the precepts

The more commonly used precepts are: the five precepts

Keeping the five precepts is the most basic practice

Go to the Master and let the Master guide you to enlightenment, and then you can talk about practice. Patriarch Dharma said that it is not beneficial to practice without seeing sex.

If you look at the Sutra, you will understand what cultivation is.

Cultivation is personal, and it has nothing to do with what to worship, of course, the practitioner will also worship the Bodhisattva Buddha or something, but the purpose is different, the practitioner's worship is out of respect, if you worship for what to ask for, then it has nothing to do with the practice, for the family, do a good job, be a good person, and be indifferent, it is practice.

Worshipping a bodhisattva is just one type of practice. True practice is the practice of the Buddha's principles.

Believing in Buddhism does not have a god of wealth, you are confused.

Pay attention to whether your heart is pure, pure, and upright.

After entering the initiation, taking the samaya vows, and taking refuge in the Vajra Guru, you can learn the Dharma and hold the mudra. Otherwise, it's best not to make mudras. In addition, the mantra should not be recited casually, so as not to be damaged according to a certain path.

In any case, whether it is an esoteric teaching, it is best to recite it after solemnly seeking the Dharma from a real monk.

The factions are different, the mudras are naturally different, I don't know which faction you are studying?

I agree with what my friend upstairs said: People can't seek Buddha but learn Buddhism...

People are not gods, nor Buddhas, living in the world should do what people should do, believing in Buddhism is a spiritual level of sustenance and belonging, if you encounter some problems that cannot be solved, you can resolve them through Buddhism, but to build on the basis of living a good life, for a person's growth, having faith is good, can reduce the confusion on the road to growth. But Buddhism is a broad and profound philosophy, and to believe in Buddhism you must first have wisdom, and only when you have enough wisdom can you start to try to learn and experience all kinds of different truths. If you are content to participate in certain rituals, it is a side door ...

Knowing that blessings and blessings are always there, with fate, I wish sincere friends a lifetime of health and happiness...

The Buddha's country is destroyed by others, there is no way, the Buddha's explanation is karma, that is, you have to follow the objective laws to do things, the Buddha is just a spiritual teacher, and he has not promised to help you get this and that.

Instead of seeking Buddha, it is better to work steadfastly. In addition, if you really believe in Buddhism, men and women take Guanyin and Buddha, and they will be destined according to their birthdays.

Because you are seeking the Buddha and not studying the Buddha

Plants are said to be ruthless beings in Buddhism and can be eaten. The equality of all beings refers to sentient beings.

The Buddha also eats meat, and cultivating high-level internal skills will naturally repel meat. Mortals are ignorant and think that if the Buddha does not eat it, he cannot eat it.

I'm also a vegetarian and I'm also distressed by this issue

To be born to kill, to be born to be killed.

It's killing for survival, so why bother.

Where there is life, there is killing.