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Of all the dorms I've lived in so far, I have one roommate in my current dorm who is really unhygienic. From her bed to her bookcase to her desk, it was very, dirty, messy, and smelled so strange that it was unbearable.
Let's start with her bed, she really doesn't make a bed at the beginning of each semester, because what was left last semester, it's how, it's a whole vacation, she won't wash it when she comes, she won't clean it up, she just sleeps like this, and she won't dislike her bed for being dirty, anyway, everything is black. Then this girl's bed is hung all year round, the bed curtain is impermeable and impermeable, anyway, you can't see what is inside, whether it is clean or dirty, only she knows.
Then there is the fact that everything on her desk is littered, and all her textbooks have to be picked up every day to find her textbooks. Everything you eat and use is left out casually, and every time you look for something, you have to make a lot of noise to find it. The clothes that have been worn and the clothes that have not been worn are all put together, and I don't know which one I wore or which one I didn't wear.
What's even more unbelievable is her shoes, I really can't see her wash her shoes for a semester, and then she likes to exercise, and the shoes that come back from exercise every day are really, not to mention people, dogs are going to be smoked to death, and the smell is really outrageous, but no matter what you say, she's like that, and you can't do anything about her. If you don't say it, it's really unbearable, so I wish you a clean roommate, I can't do it.
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The small society of the university is always mixed, many school students come from the north and south of the motherland, like our school, the dormitory of 12 people in a room, the school, even the dormitory is mixed, vertical and horizontal arrangement has come from the motherland from all over the world, Nanchang, Hunan, Northeast, Datong, some of the northerners have a different living habits from us, just like the Northeast and Datong classmates, in terms of health conditions, it is indeed a bit out of place with us.
First of all, Shanxi's classmates like to be quiet and don't like to move.,The general hobby is to soak in the library or you occasionally go to the Internet café to play games.,But a big drawback is,He always refuses to take a bath in the summer on the grounds of not sweating.,Given the weather in Datong, it's not incomprehensible.,But neng understands that it doesn't mean that it can be tolerated.,Many times no one goes back to him to do it.,But he's also big-hearted.,Never lost his temper because of these things.,But habits don't change.。
The Northeast buddy likes to play basketball, wash his hair and change his clothes after playing, and he doesn't wash his dirty clothes, and he washes them together every time, but I really haven't seen him wash his clothes a few times, and I haven't seen a few baths, just so he lives in my lower bunk, and every time the sour smell of sweat makes me a little tormented, but it's not red, and I really say it bluntly to my face, and it's still the kind of thief who takes a shower once in a while.
The hygiene of these two roommates is really poor, and it doesn't make sense, so no one mentioned these things when I asked for them, but I still can't let go of these two things, there is always a big foul smell in the bedroom, and I often have to use incense and those scented pastes to dilute the smell, so I remember these two roommates very well.
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In a dormitory, we will inevitably meet people we hate and like, in the face of the person we like, we should not completely dig out our hearts and lungs to her, and do not only get along with her alone (this is very important), which is not conducive to our interpersonal communication (if you have a rift, then your situation in the dormitory is very embarrassing), no matter how good your current relationship is, do not talk bad about others with her, or you inadvertently complain, it may become a handle for her to attack you in the future.
Although Qiaoshou is a little pessimistic, it is true! Of course, you may really make a good friend, but the heart of defense is indispensable, in the face of annoying people, we should not show it, after all, this is not good for us, don't find stumbling blocks for yourself because of your characteristics, don't miss a certain person when dividing things in a dormitory, there is a saying "rather fall into a group, not leave one behind", if you really miss a certain one, the other party may hold a grudge! We don't need to make trouble for ourselves.
If you really want to give it to her, you can choose to give it to her when you two are alone! Learn to express your opinion When faced with the problem of choosing in the dormitory, try to choose an option (if you really don't know what to choose, it's okay to hesitate occasionally) Don't keep your eyes dodging and keep saying, "Oh, I don't know the way, whatever, I choose what you choose, how can I choose?" And so on some vague options.
In the long run, people will have the impression that you are an unassertive person, and they will gradually ignore your feelings.
We can be generous about the options we want (even if it's really hard to choose), so that when we are really faced with an important choice, it will also increase our decisiveness. Previous articleA sister commented that her roommate was too loud at night, she was embarrassed to say, I think I can gently remind her, it is possible that she did not realize that she was too loud to make noise to the other party, and she was distressed here, it is better to express her thoughts directly!
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When we go to college, we will experience the life of accommodation, and most of the roommates who live with you are from all over the world, and everyone's habits are different, of course, the quality is also high. There are many people who have gone to college and hate the life of the dormitory, because some people love to play games and are noisy, or some people do not pay attention to hygiene, etc., so how do we get along with our roommates when we encounter hygiene problems?
1. Communication. First of all, you should find a suitable time to meet your roommate in a quiet place, whether it is a playground or a path in the schoolyard, and talk to your roommate about her hygiene. Of course, you can't blame others as soon as you open your mouth, it will make your roommate feel very embarrassed, you should talk for a while before throwing out this question, and communicate with your roommate patiently, I believe that she will also realize her mistakes and pay attention to her hygiene in the rest of her life.
2. Take care of yourself.
Of course, we don't rule out stubborn roommates, even if we talk to her a lot of big truths, she can't listen to them, and she still has a self-doing attitude. At this time, we must not have a conflict with her, after all, we will still live in the same bedroom in the future, we should pay attention to the hygiene of Zheng Ji, as for the hygiene around her space, you don't have to worry about it, and you can clean the toilet yourself, don't complain too much, it is actually a blessing to suffer.
3. Counselors.
If she is particularly unhygienic and has ruined your hygiene, we need to find a counselor to solve the problem and have the counselor come forward to solve the problem. The worst thing is to ask the counselor to change the dormitory for you, so that you don't have to live with unhygienic roommates, which solves a big annoyance.
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There is a problem of sedan burning in many dormitories, so I will briefly talk about the solution I have solved. First of all, I don't get angry, I take the initiative to clean the dormitory every day, and share some hidden dangers to physical health because of lack of hygiene, as well as the views of the opposite sex on these behaviors, etc., in short, take words and deeds, use the initiative to infect the passive, and slowly he himself will be embarrassed, more or less do some work to change himself. In short, don't make a conflict with this issue and affect the relationship between roommates.
Everyone should help each other and change each other when they go out.
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7:08 College roommate is always very unspeakable Wei Zhao is a student, what should Xiang guess what to do with this can slowly induce the guide of the doctor author to buy a healthy student to live in the store, he will attract you You will also attract him, so that he will gradually follow you to learn well.
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Reason with him, after all, it's a dormitory and not his home.
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The first point is that there are two ways to solve the problem of people who do not agree with you and you do not want to get along with them for a long time.
Method 1, you stay away from these people, this method is the easiest, but it is a bit difficult for roommates who live in a dormitory-type faction!
Method 2, try to pay more attention to the advantages of your roommates, don't worry too much about their shortcomings, of course, this is difficult, but if you want to get along with your roommates and have a good dormitory relationship, on the one hand, look at the strengths of a person, on the other hand, you can communicate with them more, you can tell your roommates that you are okay to discuss anything, but please be quiet, this is the way to remind. There are many other ways of communication that you have to figure out for yourself.
The second point is not to listen to the so-called truth of too many people, the so-called "I think this is right" and similar remarks, you must have your own unique thinking, just like I told you at the beginning, you are an adult, even if you are not an adult, you are about to become an adult. You should have your own independent thinking, and you will not be guided by your roommates or others to think and discuss a thing that does not conform to your three views, etc.
Since you are an adult, you will do everything by yourself, and you will bear the consequences. As the saying goes, "the bell must be tied to the bell", and the problem caused by who has to be solved by that person in the end.
Third, if you feel that your thinking skills are not good enough to solve problems, read more books and go to the library more often, so that you don't hear the comments of your annoying roommates, and second, improve your reading and other skills.
Fourth, when you go to university, you should go outside more to improve your communication skills and knowledge. If you have time and opportunity, you will have the opportunity to make friends in the community, travel to see the scenery, go to the places you like, meet the people you like, make friends with the people you like, and talk to people who have the same three views as you. It's best to stay in the dormitory less, as the strengths and weaknesses of your roommates will have no effect on you.
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If he doesn't pay attention to hygiene, I will quietly remind him to pay attention, and if he still doesn't listen, then I will move out on my own.
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I just ignored him, because I couldn't control what he did. It's better to do your own thing and let him live his own life.
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Originally, the bedroom was clean and clean, but there was only one corner where there were a lot of things piled up and untidy, which felt like a rat poop hurting a pot of porridge! Our dormitory is recognized as a very clean kind of dormitory, every time other dormitory students come over, they will inevitably say a sentence "your dormitory is really clean", in fact, our dormitory also has a roommate who is not so diligent in managing their own hygiene problems, but there is a roommate who loves to be neat and hardworking, and the two of them are neutral, so the roommate's dislike of cleanliness did not cause us much dissatisfaction! Let's talk about my roommate who doesn't like to be clean, she doesn't pay attention to her hygiene in the bedroom, but she dresses up brightly, so she has a lot of things, all kinds of skin care products, cosmetics are all piled up on the table, the table is small, it will look more messy, and I always put it away when I run out of things, so I often find a lump of toilet paper, wet makeup remover and the like on the table for some reason, or a puddle of water ...... on my stoolShe also has a habit of washing her face every day to put the makeup remover cotton or toilet paper to wipe her face on the side of the sink, the previous day's did not throw away and piled up the next day, although we will say don't put the toilet paper and the like by the sink, but she just promised the first second very refreshingly, but the next second should do what or how to do, in addition to the sink also put a lot of her toiletries, to use all the unused are placed there, some bottles have been swallowed up by limescale beyond recognition look disgusting, I don't know what she thinks, it's hard to imagine that she is like this at home?
Why is it that the appearance is so good and the hygiene is a mess, but fortunately, there is a roommate who loves cleanliness to supervise the hygiene of the dormitory, so that our dormitory is always clean and bright!
I think that the hygienic environment of the dormitory needs to be maintained by everyone in the dormitory, and no matter how clean the environment is, the living and learning mood can be better and the efficiency can be improved, so let's turn on the hygiene expert mode.
My roommate doesn't brush his teeth every morning and wakes up early, he has a very strong bad smell on his body, and his washed clothes never dry, and the smell is also very strong.
Of course I'm not happy.,My college roommate is such a person.,I think my whole person is broken.,Most of the people who don't pay attention to hygiene are lazy.,Lazy will not clean the dormitory.,(Personal hygiene has problems, not to mention the dormitory problem)That is, the so-called selfishness! I'm annoyed anyway.
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