How to treat insincere confessions How to refuse without a clear confession?

Confession is actually a pretty serious thing. When you are full of love for a person, you will find that your heart is following the other party, unwilling to stick to the unknown crush all the time, and also want to make this relationship blossom and bear fruit. It is difficult to move people's hearts without sincere confessions.

For some people, they don't confess properly, and some of them, saying that they are confessing, are actually not clear about their inner thoughts at that time, so that they are not sincere at all in their actions. In fact, in my mind, a formal confession is almost one of the most important conditions for the start of a relationship. If I'm in a relationship and I have a crush on the other person, I'll cherish the opportunity to show my sincerity when I want to confess, rather than being perfunctory, unless you don't want to start a genuine relationship.

Some people don't have a sincere attitude towards feelings, let's take the simplest example, some people just want to have someone as a nominal "boyfriend and girlfriend", keep up with the trend of love, and start falling in love, this kind of confession is destined not to be sincere, and I think this kind of confession is actually to the harm of the confessed party and the irresponsibility of the confessing party. Don't say that confession is just a formality, confession should be a very important thing, you don't need a grand scene, or even flowers and candlelight, but the sincerity you show is destined to be essential, and the sincerity and insincerity you show in your confession can be felt by the other party.

If love is compared to a sea, then some people are fishermen. They are used to not using true feelings, but generally casting a net and focusing on cultivation, so there is no sincere confession from generation to generation, and you must resolutely say no.

A confession without sincerity can only prove that this person doesn't like you that much, he may be lonely and lonely, he may think you are easier to chase, and he may see that others have girlfriends and he also wants them, so he flirts with you. This kind of person generally has the idea that you can accept it, and you don't lose anything if you don't accept him, so why should you bother about this kind of thing?

This kind of man just wants to get something for nothing, neither wants to give his feelings, maintains a good relationship, nor can he make a sincere confession, so that the girl can feel his love. He's waiting for the rabbit, he will talk to you casually, just like casually sitting under a tree and dozing off, if you bump into him, he will add food, if you don't bump into him, he will sleep, and he doesn't pay much. <>

Moreover, before falling in love, he treated you so perfunctorily, such a casual person, you think that when you enter love, he will give you such a good treatment. Generally speaking, human beings are cheap, whether it is a man or a woman, they will be more distressed and cherish things that are more difficult to get; For things that are casually available, they will generally compare prices and treat them casually, and they will not be so attentive. So, think about how miserable your treatment will be in the future, if you don't want a love life that you don't know how long it will last after the past, you don't just want to enter this relationship with someone who is not sincere.

Anyway, I hate the kind of people who treat confession as a joke, I need people to take me to heart, and I can't do it without a little. So if I encounter this kind of insincere confession, I will definitely tell him to get out, as far as he goes.

Confession is also a very serious thing, if you feel that he is not willing to confess to himself at all, then don't promise him, sometimes some people will confess to girls because of face or bets or something?

Love that is not clearly expressed may be an illusion, because love for a person wants to be in a hurry to express it, and few people hide it. There are few people who are willing to continue to be ambiguous. So I agree with you.

Like a person is not hidden, will find a way to say it, even if it is a restrained person, in the face of the person you like will discard the cowardice in the heart and become brave, even if it is a passive person, after the heart is moved, it will be proactive, for fear that the other party does not know their own mind, and is preempted by others.

The reason why this happens is because I really like it, because I don't want to be taken by others, even if I may encounter rejection, I am willing to be brave once, and it is more regrettable to never try than to fail after taking the initiative. Although everyone has a different way of expressing love, they want to convey that love in the end, and they dare not face to face, dare not express it directly, so they show it in an obscure way. If a person really likes you, there is always a way to tell you.

It's like a friend of mine, the two of them eat together, watch movies, chat every day, and say some ambiguous things, but the boy never takes the initiative to confess. The girl thought that the boy had taken a liking to him, but it turned out to be a delusion. In fact, it's the kind of girlfriend relationship of the opposite sex.

Therefore, if there is no confessional love, don't be easy to tempt, it may really cause an embarrassing situation.

When you love someone, if you confess to the other person, the other party will understand your heart, and there will be no misunderstanding whether you can love each other in the end. ......And if you don't make a clear statement to your loved one, the other person will have a delusion, which will leave regrets. ......Specifically, if you don't clearly express your love, it will lead to the illusion that the other person doesn't know what you think, the other person doesn't understand your love, and the other person misunderstands your heart.

1. If you don't express your love clearly, the other party won't be able to know your true thoughts.

A person's true thoughts can only be clearly understood by the other person if they are clearly expressed. ......If you don't express the love in your heart clearly, the other party will not be able to know your true thoughts, which may make the other party misunderstand the content of your expression, or even ignore the feelings you express, thus leaving regrets for each other.

2. If you don't express your love clearly, the other party will not be able to understand your love.

Although a person's love for another person can be shown through actions, in the final analysis, it must be shown to the other person through verbal expression. ......Therefore, if you do not clearly express your love for the other person, the other person will have the illusion that you will not be able to understand how deep your love for her is, and you will not be able to respond correctly to ......The consequence of this is that you can't get the love of the other party, and you regret it for life.

3. Not clearly expressing one's feelings will make the other party misunderstand one's own mind.

When two people communicate, only by clearly expressing their thoughts can the other party truly understand their thoughts and clarify their own minds. ......When it comes to love, if you don't make your heart clear to the person you love. The other party may have illusions and misunderstandings about their own minds, which will affect the relationship between two people and make it impossible for two people to love each other ......It would be a great pity for me.

Therefore, if you really like someone, you should clearly confess to them, so that you can win the hearts of the other person and the two people can truly love each other.

If you don't have a clear confession, you can tell the other party directly, although I don't know everything you mean, but no matter what the case may be, I'm not ready to fall in love yet.

Now I'll take a look at how to reject someone:

First, the tone of refusal is best to be very serious.

The tone of rejection should not carry various emotions, which will make the other person feel that there is a joke, or that you are mocking, etc., so it is best to be serious and impartial. A serious tone will also let the other party know what you really think, and you will not be spared.

Second, the form of rejection is best to confront the ta

Some people are soft-hearted and kind-hearted, and when they reject the other party, they can't bear to talk about it in person, so they choose an email or a message to explain. In fact, this method is not advisable, for example, the other party will continue to look for you in the name of not receiving the message email. Therefore, it is best to say it in person, and everyone has direct communication.

Third, the rejection technique is best to be very tactful.

That's the main thing, which is to say no to anything. But whatever you say, it's better to be tactful. After all, although you think everyone is not suitable, rejecting someone who loves you is equivalent to rejecting your fans, and you should take it seriously and tactfully. For example, there are two ways:

1) You're talented, but not my type, I'm sorry.

2) Good Guy Card.

You're a good guy and you're good. I'm sorry.

Remember, the point must be to affirm the other party's advantages first, and then say that it is your own reason so you can't love yourself with the other party, so that the other party will not feel that it is your own problem, so you don't like him.

He hasn't confessed yet, you don't want to refuse, under normal circumstances, you just want to express your meaning, and feel that the relationship between two people still belongs to friends is the best and most reassuring, and this kind of relationship can make two people more harmonious.

You can tactfully refuse to tell him that you are not quietly looking for a partner now, or that your parents do not agree, which means that the two of you will not be able to be together for the time being, and you will not accept his call to seep into the white, and he will understand and spine.

In fact, if you really don't like the other party, then when you refuse, although tactful, you must firmly refuse, don't let the other party feel that there is hope for the other party, this is an attitude for the sake of the other party. Because, the other party may be rejected by you and then meet true love, these are all uncertain, so don't delay or give hope to the other party, is a way to guess and refuse to be dignified and grateful to the other party.

If you don't have a clear confession, you must firmly refuse, don't let the other party feel that there is still hope, this is an attitude for the sake of the other party.

If the other party doesn't make a clear confession, you can't refuse, just pretend not to know.