What do you do when your family embarrass you?

Just laugh and laugh, I won't explain anything, after all, it's my family, even if I embarrass me, what can I do, they are the people who love me the most, and they are also the people I love the most, and I can tolerate and understand a lot of things. I especially look down on that kind of person, because of the parents' unintentional words, the child will be angry in public, as if he wants to devour his parents alive, in this way, in fact, it is just a manifestation of lack of upbringing, and filial piety comes first!

I remember when I came home in my junior year, I went to see a cousin with my mother. When I was eating and chatting, I talked about how I was studying, whether I talked about my boyfriend, and my mother probably didn't care too much, so she talked about my boyfriend at the time, and said that she was not satisfied at all, and I don't know what I thought, I wanted to be with him, anyway, I wouldn't agree, in short, I said a lot. At that time, I blushed to my neck, because I felt that my mother's words made me very embarrassed, and talking about my private affairs in front of a group of unfamiliar people made me feel particularly disrespectful, but I couldn't refute my mother in front of so many people, so I could only smile awkwardly.

My cousin and aunt also began to persuade me to listen to my mother, in fact, I was already very angry at that time, but I was still kind on the surface, echoing their words, but in my heart I was not happy. On the way home, I was a little angry and asked my mother not to talk about my private affairs in front of so many people in the future, I have grown up and I don't like that feeling. Mom also realized that what she did was wrong and promised that there would be no next time.

In fact, it really embarrass you when your family members become shareholder, and you have to believe that it must be an unintentional move, and there is no intention to harm you, and so on. So, thank you for your tolerance and understanding!

Remain silent or turn away and go outside to calm yourself.

My parents actually understand me better, they may have been more in charge when I was a child, and they didn't interfere with me much when I was older, they thought that I knew what to do when I grew up, and it was not interesting to say more.

But non-interference does not necessarily mean that they have the same three views as me, and the generation gap still exists.

For example, the last time I went home, I didn't bring my clothes to my place of work, and it was more than ten degrees cold. I can only take out my high school uniform and wrap it.

Aside from the appearance, the school uniform is really a good coat, big and comfortable, and you can wear as much as you want.

What is more embarrassing is that I drew a lot of graffiti on my school uniform before I graduated, and wrote words (I was going to stop wearing it and treasure it), and I liked the ancient style very much at that time, and several of my classmates wrote things on the large blank space behind me.

The most obvious sentence: "The upper and poorest blue fall into the yellow spring, and the two places are gone." ”

At that time, I didn't think about anything else at all, I just thought that the artistic conception was very beautiful.

I never thought that my parents thought that the word Huangquan was very unlucky, but they asked me to wash it off, or don't wear it! It was hard to hear at the time. I thought it was unreasonable at the time, how could I say that I could wash away such a beautiful memory, and the words were so ugly.

At that time, I was quite aggrieved.

I didn't listen to her and ran out.

When I came back in the afternoon, there was nothing left, and she didn't say much, I silently changed into another dress, sat down to eat together as usual, and life was back on track.

There is no need for too many disputes between relatives, although the opinions are not unified, she does think about you and will not do anything harmful to you, as long as you remember this clearly.

Some speakers are unintentional, but listeners are intentional, and the water that spills out of what they say is better than not saying it, and it will definitely not hurt people's hearts if they don't say it.

When my family embarrassed me, I would just change the topic, and many things between family members need to understand each other in order to live together forever, so sometimes I can only choose to let everyone skip a topic more peacefully, which can not only alleviate my situation at that time, but also maintain the relationship between family members.

Family affection is continuous, in fact, even if your family may embarrass you, there is no way to do something that hurts your family, you can only choose to be patient, after all, this is your own family, and you have the closest relationship with the person, there is no forgiveness between family members. Since they are all family members, I don't think these things will deliberately embarrass you, sometimes it may just be their unintentionality that becomes embarrassing in your eyes, so sometimes this kind of thing can't be impulsive, and you need to be calm, so it's also the best choice to choose to change the topic at this time. Your family is always there for you, so please don't hurt them with your understanding.

If my family's criticism is justified, I will gladly accept it. But if my family's criticism is unreasonable, then I will only laugh and not speak. Don't worry too much about your family.

I'm still the kind of person who understands my family better. For the sake of my family's requests, I usually choose to accept. Sometimes I would pause and think about why my parents did this to me.

If you think about it, you can understand that they are actually good to me. If you don't have parents, you will embarrass your own children. Although sometimes their demands may seem excessive, after all, the starting point is good.

Don't take their requests too seriously, and sometimes sit and try to cooperate with them.

Most of the times I will calm down and think about it. It's really not easy for my family to treat me, everything they do is for our good, and they don't have any intention of harming me. So most of the time I'll be accommodating and do what they say, even if it's something I don't want to do.

In our daily life, family plays an indispensable role in our lives, leaving one of them will be their own world will lack a color, but it is inevitable that there will be conflicts, so we and our families need a lot of tolerance and understanding, need more companionship, and the unhappiness between the family gritted teeth to pass, do not hold a grudge, so that you can better accompany your family.

If this is when there are many people, try to suppress your emotions as much as possible, and then go home, and the family is discussing these things.

I will do my best to help my family, if my family is not filial, who will help? I just have to do what I can and have a clear conscience.

Everyone will encounter difficulties, need someone to help, when the family encounters difficulties, should take the initiative to help, in the future they have difficulties, the family will continue to help you, heart to heart, heart to heart, a family to get along.

I attach great importance to family affection, whether it is my mother-in-law or my mother's family, as long as the family is in difficulty, I will try to help, the first ten years, my nephew to buy a house with poor money, open to me to borrow, I did not hesitate to go to the silver Qiaowu shortage of money to transfer my more than 200,000 deposits to him, to help him solve his urgent needs, my nephew is very grateful to me, now the house price has risen four times, as long as the family and relatives open to me, I can help, it is not easy to become a family, it is fate, I cherish it.

Between people, treat each other with sincerity, sincere pay has a good return, some people will say, pay may not necessarily have a good return, I believe, sincere pay, how much will influence people, for the family to dedicate more, ask for less, each other with a grateful heart, each other are happy. For the help of the family, if it is within one's own ability, within the scope of the law, of course, to help. I think that's what my dad and his siblings did, and they set a good example for me, and I should learn from them.

My dad has five siblings, and my dad always says that because we are siblings, we should help each other. I think yes, their parents gave them the same life, so that they can become brothers and sisters, it already shows their relationship, in addition to their parents, they are the closest family, if even the closest people are not willing to help, then who will be willing to help them! The only person they can trust should be the person closest to them.

So my family is like this, when someone needs help, everyone will give their own money to help, no matter what they encounter, they should understand that there are their relatives by their side, they are never alone.