Be indifferent to the person you like, because the two of us can t be together!

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I'm worried about how he's going to feel, right? You can see that you still love him and care about him, but he has already chosen to leave, hasn't he? He chose the reality that she can't change, recognize this, try to adjust his mood, and start a new life.

    After all, we have loved each other and have had a lot of good memories, can we be ordinary friends? If you really can't stay away from him, it's better than being indifferent to him, he may not care about your actions, you can only be angry and sad yourself, believe that time will dilute everything, and find out that maybe there are better men than him around you, don't be sad and miss your own opportunities. Be kind to yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Maybe it won't, but anyway, he didn't choose you, and he didn't choose you because he wasn't afraid that you would be sad, so you don't care if he was sad or not? It's best if he's sad, if you're not sad, don't you even have a little self-esteem?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If he really likes you, he will be sad.

    Believe me, I really feel sad and helpless when someone I really like is indifferent to me.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you do this, he won't be sad, but you will be sad, but you won't admit it, you're deceiving yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since you have decided to give up, do you care if he is sad or not?

    Live well. He actually split his legs, he is not a good man.

    Leave him, you did the right thing, don't look back He doesn't have you in his heart anymore.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, but he is not kind, so what do you have to do?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    For the distress and tangled problems you encounter.

    1. Whether the relationship with the lover is worth the sacrifices and concessions you make.

    2. Whether the family resistance can be withstanded.

    3. Stick to each other, whether the emotional support can withstand the test.

    4. See if there is the possibility of having the best of both worlds and being able to compromise with each other.

    5. Look at whether you really need a career or a family, there is no perfect thing in the world, and see if your efforts can make you feel worthwhile and have no regrets.

    6. We must leave room for independent existence in society and family, and understand what we need and desire in our hearts.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Giving up is the wisest choice!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You should let go of this feeling.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    [Tacit understanding of love].

    The clear sky is isolated in the night It is constantly expanding without limits No need Feel calm and clear sea Thoughts refracted by the sun Not easy Change when you open your eyes You don't need to refer to too many opinions Believe that you will pass the test and remember this If you want to hear it, you can hear it The truth needs to be discovered by yourself There are too many distractions to put an end to sadness Feel the happiness in your heart and concentrate on the tacit understanding so that you and I no longer feel lonely No one can know better How much I care about you, your smile confides in my love for me The pull of fate touches the miracle with love, so that you and I can face the pain bravely, no matter how much pain there will be, no matter how much conflict.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In the past, it may be that he took the initiative, but everyone will feel annoyed, so you should also take the initiative, a person can't always take the initiative, always accommodating, if there is a problem, you have to ask, to say, if you don't say, how will he know? If he were you and he didn't say anything, you wouldn't know what he wanted, so wouldn't you feel like the distance between you was getting farther and farther apart? So sometimes you have to be bold and proactive.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You try to find him, show your heart, care more about him, and if he still likes you, I believe that he will change his mind about you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If he is still single, try to tell him what is on his mind.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I really tell you that if you fall in love with someone who can't be together, your life will not be ruined, because your life is responsible, not only love, but also family and friendship, and the most important thing is family affection, your parents are still there, how can you give up, how can you say that your life is ruined. As a woman, my own experience is that you don't have to find someone you love, you must find someone who loves you and you know that you love you, and the person you love may not necessarily love you. You have to be clear about your responsibilities, your parents raised you so big, how can you easily say that you are ruined.

    You must know that everyone is born unique, your mother conceived in October and beat you up, you can't be for an irrelevant person, for you, in your birth to the present life path, no one who has no help to say ruined your parents, what should you do? Think about it yourself, you still have responsibilities in life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Haha, there are people like you

    Telling you to distinguish between the possible and the impossible, it doesn't make sense to say that your life is ruined, but it's just a joke.

    What you inherit is your future ruined simply because of the outside.

    Your life is ruined.

    You know? Spiritual vs. Material.

    You're getting it in the wrong direction.

    You judge this life only because of the material.

    Your poor soul is already weak.

    You're struggling. But you have lost your love.

    Because of your indecision.

    Love is fearless and uninteresting

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    How can you think that whether you are ruined in this life or not depends entirely on the change of your mentality, even if you know that it is impossible to be together, why not put it down? There is no grass at the end of the world, why do you have to hang yourself from a tree? It is impossible to be together to mean that there is no fate between you, and if you find someone who suits you, you will still live happily?

    Happiness lies in the joint management and cherishing of the two of you, there are many people in the world who have not married their beloved for various reasons, they don't. Is it still very happy, so people's happiness lies in the change of people's mentality, don't drill the horns, think about the problem from a different angle, it will be of great help to your life!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    How can this be considered ruined, this can only be said to delay part of your life, you are not living for one person.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, it's just that it was really sad at the time, maybe it will take a long time to figure it out, but you have to believe that there is always someone waiting for you in the world, so don't despair, what should you do, and when you want to fall in love and get to know some new people again!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then I ask you, is he the only man or woman in the world, if so, your life will be ruined.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Why do you feel like it's impossible to be together? Since you love each other, you have to face it bravely. You have to try everything to know the result.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on how you think of his place in your life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not ruined, you will find that letting go is also a kind of love, and you may also meet on your road in the future, compared to someone who loves her more deeply than her, and also loves you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    People will meet many people in their lives, no one can live well, he is just a passerby in your life!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's very tiring like that, knowing that it is impossible to be together in the end, and if you are separated sooner or later, you just don't want to give up and want to work hard.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Now that you know the result, why don't you let it go early, such an ending is generally miserable, and only if the other party loves you enough and you can give up all of him for you, you will have a sense of happiness. The earth turns away from everyone, and there is nothing that must be done by anyone. Just give yourself some time and clean up your emotions.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you really love him, move him, make him like you, and get to know him. If you like it, go after it, don't hesitate.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Loving someone doesn't have to be together, seeing her and his happiness is the most important thing.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No, maybe it's still possible.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Love? Love is a deep quagmire. If you step on it, you will only fall deeper and deeper. There is no turning back.

    Meet, meet, know, fall in love, fall in love, depend on each other.

    Love Hexalogy.

    If you love him, why care about the outcome?

    Even if you can't be together, seeing him happy, he's happy, is it still the matter? Still have any worries?

    Good for him? Afraid of delays?

    When it is broken, it should be broken. Don't procrastinate like this, just treat it as a sweet memory to the other party, not a procrastinating and reluctant ending.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    When you can smile and remember your past.

    You should remember the wonderful memories you made together.

    However, if you can't let go of the past, you should learn to forget.

    Until you can no longer be stabbed by the past.

    You can't forget it, and you don't want to remember it! What to do?

    Then hide it deep in your heart! Let the good things of the past become memories!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I agree with what I said upstairs, instead of thinking about how to forget, it is better to treasure your beautiful memories. Call time to take away your wounds and leave behind the most memorable

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Don't try to forget something or someone, it's counterproductive—not only can't you forget it, but you keep remembering it and adding to your troubles. Don't push yourself too hard and don't put too much pressure on yourself. People should always look forward, the road they have walked, the people they have loved, they will not come back after the past, and coming back is no longer the original scenery, the original mood, why should they be so persistent?

    Let go of your baggage, relax your mind, and live happily in the present minute, maybe in the near future you will meet more beautiful scenery and better lovers at the next intersection of life. People are always wonderful, when you have loved someone with your heart but have to break up with him, you will feel that life has lost all its color all at once, and even have the idea of ending your life, but when you stubbornly survive, you will find that in fact, the so-called unforgettable love turned out to be just a beautiful and illusory dream. Don't worry too much about everything, let the past pass, forget the bad completely, let the good be buried in the depths of memory, don't think too much, live every day of the present full and happy, and face the people and things in the future happily.

    Time will tell, and maybe one day you will discover what a wise choice it was to leave him. Time will tell, maybe one day you just want to think about him again, but you can't remember anything! You may even wonder if the story of the past belongs to you.

    It's really about fate between people. Since you propose to break up, no matter what the reason, it can only mean that your fate can only go so far. In that case, why can't you let go?

    To be a man, you should always be able to afford to put down G! No matter to people or things, if you just can afford to take it but can't let it go, it is not a good thing for yourself or others, I hope you can understand the truth. Finally, I wish you health, happiness, happiness and luck, and I believe that you will be able to adjust your mentality and live, work and study well.

    I also believe that the god of luck will come knocking on your door at any time.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Be brave enough to tell her that you might have a chance, and that it's okay if you get rejected, because you've tried.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It should be that there is a crack in the relationship, and it has not been repaired in time, which has led to a deeper and deeper misunderstanding, try to take the initiative to care about him, and then look at his attitude You will know.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This is tired of it, it is estimated that it will not be loved anymore, and no matter how hard you try, it may be in vain.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I've just experienced a relationship like this, at the beginning it was all kinds of care, and slowly after a long time, it won't be the same as before, and now we broke up, but the reason for the breakup is funny, he said I don't love him anymore, and I think he doesn't love me anymore, hehe.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This is because he can't see hope, he is already desperate, so he will turn around and leave!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's annoying to find that you're not as good as she thought.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Think about what the reason is, is there a misunderstanding.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It is possible to have both, but most are the first.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    She left you not for a new relationship, but rationally and helplessly chose a normal way of life in the eyes of the world Her escape is precisely because you have had unforgettable feelings But our feelings are not tolerated by the world after all She has to shoulder It may not be less than you Every pull is not easy We still have family and friends of family In fact, everyone knows that the last is just a helpless letting go The bitterness in your heart Outsiders can understand but may not be able to feel Everything has to be cheered up by yourself Time can ** everything.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Maybe the seven-year relationship is not love, just a habit or a family relationship, if she really decides, I hope you don't feel too sad, and maybe you or she can better look at your relationship after letting go.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Brother, look away! Maybe you don't fit at all! Let it go! I understand how you feel, a man has to be able to afford to put it down. Someday you'll meet a better one, don't have to be sad anymore....

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Wipe! Don't love him anymore! Break off boyfriend and girlfriend relations with him!

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