No one knows about the fall in the home of the elderly who lives alone, why don t the children conta

With the development of science and technology and the progress of medical standards, the aging degree of society is gradually increasing. The pressure brought by social competition makes many people busy with work, and neglect the diet and daily life of the elderly at home, and neglect to give more care to the elderly.

On August 4, 2020, an elderly man fell at home, resulting in four days without a drop of water, which made many people feel heartache. This old man lives in Bengbu City, Anhui Province, and has lived alone in his old house for a long time, and his children rarely come to see him. After he accidentally fell at home, the old man could not contact his children because he did not have a mobile phone, he could not even move on his own, he could not ask for help from people outside through the window or the door, and the frail old man could only lie on the ground like this, waiting and hoping that someone would find him sooner.

The old man waited for two days, hoping that his children would come to his house to find him, but after waiting for four days, the old man did not wait for his children to arrive. The old man felt that his body was getting weaker and weaker, so he had to find a way on his own. Later, he kept knocking on the ground with a basin, and the residents downstairs heard the sound and felt abnormal and called the police, only to find that the old man was trapped in the room alone.

After contacting the children of the elderly, they all said that they could not rush over for a while. So after obtaining the consent of the old man's children, the firefighters immediately carried out an emergency break down the door to rescue the old man. After learning that the old man had not been flooded for four days, the firefighters immediately went to buy water and food.

After the old man drank the water and eased for a while, he couldn't help crying bitterly when he recalled his experience in the past few days. The rice left in the pot at the old man's house had worms, and the water in the kettle had evaporated to the point that there was not a drop left, and the people around him felt very sad when they saw this scene. One of the old man's daughters rushed to the scene after the incident, and the police gave criticism and education, and the old man's daughter also said that she would come back to see the old man more often in the future.

Netizens condemned one after another, no matter how busy they are at work, they can't not care about an elderly person living alone for so long. As children, we should not only do our best to provide a comfortable life for the elderly, but also pay attention to the psychological needs of the elderly who need companionship, so that the elderly can spend a peaceful old age.

Because his children were too busy to take care of and visit his father.

Nowadays, there are many young people who are very nervous about work and may rarely be able to go back to see their parents, but their parents are old and live alone, so they still have to call a ** every day to contact them, otherwise it will be too irresponsible for the elderly.

I think this is because the children lack filial piety, and the children are busy with work in real life, so this situation occurs.

Today's children are too busy, they are busy earning money every day, busy running around for their own things, they have forgotten their parents, their parents are old, and they need someone to take time to care.

Beijing** reported that the woman died in Yanjiao, and in the ** report, we can learn the time and place of death of the deceased! Not only that, ** announced the deceased's real name, ID number and household registration, which shows that the woman should have died a normal death, not a homicide! Judging from the ID number, this woman is 68 years old, 68 years old and lives alone, it is very likely that she has no children, or that her children have settled abroad!

An old man, desolate in his old age, makes people sigh!

**Announced the contact**, the purpose is to hope that Wang Yunlan's relatives can be contacted**! After all, only by contacting the woman's children, relatives, etc., can someone take care of the woman's funeral! The elderly who live alone are a very large group, and Wang Yunlan was found long after her death, which makes people infinitely emotional!

From this point of view, it is really important to have children under Chenghuan in later years! This incident reminds people of the TV series "The World", thinking that if Bingkun hadn't stayed by his parents' side, I'm afraid his parents' evening scene would be very bleak.

Netizens are hotly discussed. After this incident was spread on the Internet, netizens said that the greatest happiness in life may not be that their children have a lot of money and go away from home, but that they have children and grandchildren around them to live a lively life! Netizens expressed their very much hope that Wang Yunlan's family can contact **after seeing the report**!

After all, Wang Yunlan's aftermath urgently needs someone to bear it! How lonely and sad Wang Yunlan should have been when she died, and handling her aftermath may also be a consolation for her!

Living alone. Nowadays, there are many elderly people who live alone at home for various reasons! In this case, the children should contact the elderly every day!

If it is inconvenient to contact, you should also entrust the staff of a neighbor or the street office to take care of it! In this way, accidents can be solved and dealt with in time! In case of tragedy!

is like this woman in Yanjiao, Beijing, the possibility of her death is probably a sudden illness! If someone could have found out in time, they might have been able to save her life.

Beijing** reported that the woman died in Yanjiao, what do you think about this?

The most fundamental reason why the children live in the same city is that the children do not care enough about the elderly.

The children work hard outside the home to earn money to support the family. Life is stressful, and it is not easy for anyone, but it is necessary to take care of the elderly.

When I saw the news, I was also shocked, this old man who lived alone fell to the ground for four days and no one found it, and finally was rescued by knocking on the pot, and his children did not abandon him, but were busy with work and neglected to take care of the elderly.

It may also be that the children's work is too busy and they live too far away from the elderly, and they do not have the leisure time to take care of the elderly, causing the elderly to fall.

I think it's because this old man's children are busy, so he rarely has the opportunity to see his parents, so he didn't find out until he fell down four days later.

Empty nesters generally refer to middle-aged and elderly people after their children leave home. With the deepening of the aging of society, there are more and more empty nesters, which has become a social problem that cannot be ignored. When children leave home due to work, study, marriage and other reasons, the psychological disorder symptoms caused by middle-aged and elderly couples who stay alone in the "empty nest" are called family "empty nest" syndrome.

Although some children want to take care of their parents by their side, their financial strength and housing conditions do not allow them, so they can only let their parents live on their own and work hard outside. What can be done is to take the time to call my parents **, and go to buy some things to visit during the holidays, but not many times. I hope that the children can try to adjust the two parties, and don't wait until they want to fulfill their filial piety and find out that it is too late.

Raising children can prevent old age. Because the children of the elderly living alone in this incident may not greet and take care of the elderly in time because they are busy with work and far away from home. But when they are at home, they must be able to talk and chat with the elderly and help with household chores.

No, because even if he raises a son, he has his own life, and today's young people don't want to live with the elderly at all.

Raising children is not the same to prevent aging. Nowadays, the pace of life is fast, life is stressful, young people are struggling in the city, and the elderly can only live alone in the village, and it is difficult for young people to find out and arrive in time if something happens to the elderly. Therefore, it is not accurate to raise children to prevent old age.

There is no doubt that of course it is, but the premise is that when we educate our children, we must put their moral education and filial piety in the first place, so that they can become warm-hearted and caring people.

OK. Because most of the children can fulfill the responsibility of providing for the elderly, only a few can not fulfill the obligation to take care of their parents in time, and it is only an exception for the elderly who live alone to fall down for 4 days without children.

This kind of thinking is long outdated. It is not a question of raising children and daughters, but how parents raise their children to be kind, filial adults. If you have a good moral character, you will naturally treat your parents well.