What is the psychology of showing that you are worthless when you respect others?

Respecting others does not mean that you want to please others, nor does it mean that you wronged yourself to elevate others, respect those who should be respected, and you will not feel worthless.

I think since you ask this question, it means that you have ambivalence, your inner quality allows you to respect others, but the other self is eager to get some response in the process of respecting others, which also has a certain inferiority complex, in fact, we respect others at the same time, but also affirm yourself, don't see too much of the other party's response, stick to your own quality, sometimes don't care too much about your own feelings, especially the things you think are right, your own values, what you think is right, and the result is fate.

When we respect others, we will of course be respected by others, and of course we will be more valuable. When you talk about respecting others, you seem to be worthless, and I don't know what psychology is. You may feel that you don't respect others, and other people's responses are not so fast, and you don't get a sense of satisfaction.

Another meaning of the sense of value is a sense of superiority (looks, ability, money, cognition, talent, virtue), if the other party surpasses you in all aspects, you will be sad, it is sad for yourself, so you don't want to respect others.

It may be that you want to be noticed, such as doing things without considering your own gains and losses and valuing the feelings of others, so that you feel uncomfortable.

Because you have never been respected or rarely respected, respecting others is your own quality, and it has nothing to do with others, and it has nothing to do with your own value.

I was just told by my husband that I don't respect people. The situation is as follows: I went to the wedding company to get engaged, the boss recommended an employee of what company, to recommend an app to us, this employee is a young man, very enthusiastic to introduce the app, but I was really uncomfortable, because he was sitting next to me, closer to me than my husband, the perfume was very strong, not a good smell, I wanted to vomit at the time, pregnancy hated to smell this smell, so I couldn't help covering my nose and mouth, began a long breath holding, of course I was not happy, I was uncomfortable, my face was not good, and finally my husband asked me:

What happened to you? I said: The perfume on this person is so strong, I feel very uncomfortable, like the kind of strong fragrance used by Africans.

Then I didn't speak....So my husband got angry and pulled down his face at me, and then he kept teaching me that I didn't know how to respect others. I didn't say anything, the Cold War. I don't want to say anything about a man's willingness to ignore his wife's discomfort in order to "take care of other people's feelings".

I just want to say that as an office worker, you shouldn't have used such a strong perfume! Also, when talking to customers, social distancing should be maintained! This will effectively reduce all the taste and even saliva on your own body!

But he brought a chair and was close to me, can I only endure it? I don't think respecting others seems worthless, but when I respect others, I have to be better off.

I think that this mentality of yours is not correct, after all, if you want others to respect you, you must first respect others.

In terms of respecting others, I feel that self-respect is the first thing, and then respect others. That way it won't be uncomfortable. If you don't respect others with self-respect, you will definitely feel uncomfortable.

In my cognition, respecting others does not mean lowering oneself, but when respecting others, respect oneself as well, and it is good to be neither humble nor arrogant.

Look at the way of respect, if you blindly flatter the other person, this phenomenon will occur.

I was very happy, very happy, very satisfied, very happy, and I felt very comfortable.

There will be a sense that you are important, and that is because of the person's philosophy.

Be satisfied, rejoice. Being respected means that he looks up to you, values you, will not look down on you, and regards you as a friend, of course, he is very happy. Naturally, the relationship between the two is better.

At 24 years old, there is still a long way to go. Life is a process of accumulation, such as the experience of interacting with Hui people.

The experience and ability to deal with various problems are accumulated little by little. Only 24 years old is still the starting point of the career, although the salary is low now, but look at your description should be more leisurely, you can use your spare time to learn more. Try to learn everything with a low profile, don't want to climb to the sky step by step, take it step by step, when these accumulate to a certain extent, you will find that many previous problems can be solved.

There is no need to mind how others are, everyone has their own destiny, they live to complete their life mission, no matter what the reality is, these will not be immutable, the most important thing is to have a desire for the future, learn to face and eliminate that negative psychology, never despair about the future. You have to let go, don't be too obsessed with your own shortcomings, and stop moving forward because of this, as long as you work hard, everything will change, you say.

What you want is recognition and boasting (or at least looking up).

A psychologist says that people need.

First of all, I'm sure your life will be more rewarding than you think.

More than 20 years ago, I worked as a warehouse manager like you, and my salary was less than 200 yuan, which was one-tenth of your salary. My colleagues are also some women who chat while wearing sweaters at work, but I have been self-taught, and I have maintained a good relationship with my colleagues, from warehouse manager to finance to salesman to manager, changed jobs several times, and the latest job has a monthly salary of nearly 7,000 yuan. I believe that as long as you make good use of your free time to supplement your knowledge and learn ways to improve your relationships, you will make faster progress than me, because I have wasted a good time studying.

I hope you cherish your time and life, not only to grow yourself, but also to help the people around you make progress together.

Wishing you health, happiness and all the best!

People don't have a sense of value, and after a period of time, they will feel that they are useless, and the sense of value is based on self-confidence, and self-confidence is built by success after doing some actions.

Seeing that everyone else has a car, married and married, they all have goals to work hard, but you are still standing still.

It's because you don't even have a goal, you're confused, you're wasting your time, and it's not a problem to work hard The important thing is whether you are willing to have the spirit of fighting for SA, if you have the spirit of fighting for SA, pick a career you like, work hard for at least three years, and you'll know what I'm talking about.

There is no failure in this world, only premature abandonment.

You're still young.

Bai, there is still a lot of time, whether it is to learn DU technology or start a business, I first have to improve my DAO ability, knowledge, and expand the social circle, I need to answer.

Contacts, accumulate experience, set goals, so as to change the status quo, you can consult successful people in case of difficulties, no matter what method you use to work hard, just keep going you will succeed, even if it is not to your ideal goal or height, but at least much more than the status quo, don't make too many excuses for yourself, no money, no, it's difficult, this will block your way, and then waste time, don't have too many ideas, a will want to sell this will want to learn that, the goal is one, perseverance, more action is the most important, And don't complain when you encounter difficulties, because those have no positive effect on you, be positive and not negative, a good man should be broad-minded, so I believe that you will succeed, at least it will be much better than now, whether it is income, or your own ability and literacy will be greatly improved, (I think like this, even if I don't get anything, when I'm old, I won't regret it, at least I have fought, when you are old, you can tell your son that you used to have a lot of content, don't ask your son how you used to be, You just say very superficially, I'm working part-time, I have everything) don't regret it, remember that it's not much money that people can't afford to lose, it's time (at least that's what I think) I wish you success.

Remember your childhood dreams? As a warehouse manager, the working environment is closed, the content is stable, and it is also with women, so it will be autistic after a long time. You don't have a sense of worth because you don't know what you should do in the first place, a man is a 24-year-old man who doesn't know what to do, I also want to ask your family what you do, what kind of environment you grew up in when you were a child, I personally think that a person's current state and personality are inseparable from his growth experience.

Confusion is normal, and young people will feel confused when they go out of society before they find their goals.

Someone else has a car to get married, it's someone else's business, don't think about it so much. If you feel inferior, buy a few more sets of clothes to dress up, cut your hair shorter, not too handsome, and highlight the spirit of temperament and people's looks.

If you have time to look at the sky, people will be in a better mood when the weather is clear, and listening to your favorite ** can relieve stress.

The relationship between colleagues is actually very simple, usually say hello and say hello, eat supper together after work, or everyone pays for activities and have a meal together.

It's too early to talk about life at the age of 24, and the sense of worthlessness is that you think too much.

This bai society is competing, and there will be this and that in people's hearts.

Zhi kind of contradictions and ideas. It's no wonder who gets it back. If you feel that your work is worthless, you can work overtime to learn to get a better job!

It is possible to get ahead! Society is competing, the big waves are like this, I graduated in 09 college students, and now I work as a security guard! I haven't studied my major well, and I have to find money to mix up my life, I can't do it, I have to face it!

My mood now is different from when I was first admitted to university. Walking on the street without confidence, you say which one is to blame, I can only blame myself, I didn't read seriously at the beginning, and after graduation, I can't stand in the society by relying on this book, and now I only have to work as a security guard temporarily, I want to eat, and then use the rest time to learn something else, and the work is only to take a step at a time.

Find a job that you are interested in and interested in, and you will have a sense of harvest and value. Don't work for the sake of working, work for fun, don't think about how much your current job is, as long as you choose the right path, the money will come back then.

Feel superior and anxious to prove it. It is useless to figure out the logical relationship between respect and being respected. Generally speaking, asking others to respect themselves is already disrespecting others, and those who can respect others will naturally be respected by others.

The first is to bully the weak and fear the hard. The second is that there is no self-respect.

People must know respect, respect themselves and others, just like looking in the mirror, you respect others, and the feedback is also respect, sometimes I don't understand, but professional life can teach him to understand.

It is not called bullying and hardness, but there is no distinction between loyalty and treachery, and there is no level of personnel.

This is how people suffer losses and know what to do.

Yes, this kind of behavior is a typical bullying of the weak and afraid of the hard, and the most basic thing for anyone to get along with should be respect.

understands that others dislike him, and it's not too late to respect others.

This is a dead eye, and the brain does not know how to be flexible.

He's self-centered, and he doesn't know how to read other people's faces, let alone be a man, and he regrets it when he finds out.

The most basic respect should be maintained between people, and people value first impressions, and once they leave a bad impression, it is difficult to change them.

No matter when, it's good to know what you know, and just pay attention to it in future interactions.

To be a principled person, what is worthy of one's core values, in order to know what should be respected.

That's not either, which shows that his conscience has been found.

This kind of person just thinks of himself as high, he has no ability, and he looks down on others, he is just a paper tiger who is strong on the outside and dry in the middle, and the soul of this kind of person is very empty.

This kind of person has psychological problems, the world has to revolve around him, others want to take him as a benchmark, everyone's eyes must always focus on him, in short, only he is qualified to guide the country. When it comes to real skills, he doesn't have them. In life, he is a mediocre ordinary person.

When they failed, he ridiculed and said that people should be content and happy.

People succeeded, he pouted and said, who knows what means were used, maybe one day climb high and fall heavy. He has no ability to outperform others everywhere, and he has to brush up on his presence everywhere. This kind of person is actually very weak, strong and inward-looking, and a negative energy maker.

Stay away from such a person and let him be a god in his own universe.

I haven't received cultivation and personal moral education, and I don't have the consciousness of "respecting" others, this kind of contempt is very self-oriented, I think you can't do it, and it's not very reasonable. The contempt that comes from ignorance can be changed, so that he understands and knows that it can change.

For example, the kind of "contempt" that looks down on what others are wearing, and "looks down" on ordinary jobs such as migrant workers and sanitation workers, when you understand that their work is not easy, you can't just look at the surface of people. After popularizing quality education, if you have respect in your heart, you will basically be much better. It is the strength of the truly capable people who despise.

There is also a kind of they are indeed capable, and they basically can't look down on those who don't do their jobs every day or don't have amazing bones. This is too lazy to look at it, as for why, there are reasons for those who are looked down upon, and there are reasons for those who look down on others. People who are looked down on at this level are also helpless, and the two may still despise each other.

Don't look down on anyone, anyone is a potential stock, you look down on others will only show that you are very unqualified, and it does not reflect how good you are.