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Playful children are smart
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Children are like this, fifteen months, a little more than a year old, it is the time to be curious about everything, to be moderately guided, not necessarily to oppose what he does, if the adult blindly opposes it is only counterproductive, because he does not understand, and he has that kind of rebellious mentality, so he has to be guided, from what he does to teach him.
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Don't fight, that's my advice.
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Timid people need exercise, the way is to take him outdoors when parents have time to get in touch with people. Teach your children to be patient, scolding will only backfire. Remember not to spoil your child too much.
Be patient and guide in a good direction. More praise, less criticism; Talk more, command less; Be more reasonable, less complaining. Only small trees that have survived wind and rain can grow stronger.
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For what he did right, praise.
Ignore what he did wrong.
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I didn't get beaten when I was a child, and at that time, my parents were educating me by persuading me to educate me, and I felt that it was wrong to beat and scold children, and often beating and scolding children would make children rebellious
Clause. 1. There will be rebellion.
When a child makes a mistake, parents do not use persuasion and education to talk to him patiently, but use violence to solve it, which will cause a psychological shadow to the child, and he will have a rebellious psychology in his heart after a long time.
will reject the education of parents and be unwilling to communicate with parents, anyway, in exchange for a beating. Therefore, they will hide their hearts, and over time, they may hurt themselves when facing problems.
Some children will beat their heads hard when they can't solve a problem, but this is actually related to the way their parents usually educate them. What's more, children will inflict this violent tendency on others.
When problems arise again, they will not be solved peacefully, but by force, and even hurt others.
Clause. 2. Willing to please others.
Children who grow up under the scare of their parents are prone to be willing to look at other people's faces to please others, and they will follow what others say they are not sure of their inner thoughts, speak carefully, and they will lower their posture.
Because of the fear that others will not like her, the fear of not playing with him, and the desire to please others everywhere, such children do not have their own independent character when they grow up, and they are easy to follow the crowd, and instinctively retreat backwards when they encounter difficulties, so it is difficult for them to succeed.
Thirdly, the child will become very timid.
Children who have lived in the scare of their parents for a long time will become very cowardly and timid, because when facing the parents of the **, they dare not show their hearts, and will only hide behind their backs and secretly observe the faces of their parents to please their parents.
When such a child grows up, he will also become unbrave to take on problems and responsibilities, evade and shirk responsibility, thinking that everything has nothing to do with him, because he has the impression that as long as he bears such a mistake, then he will accept a violent beating.
Clause. Fourth, children will lose trust in their parents.
If parents often carry out threats and intimidation education in the family, when the children are still young, they do not know that what the parents say is false and are all to scare them.
But when the children are older, they begin to have their own consciousness and judgment, they will know that their parents are cheating on themselves, then they will become more and more distrustful of their parents, and they will not want to say it to their parents when they are really in trouble and danger.
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Naughty is essentially a child's nature, the more naughty it is, the stronger the child's desire to explore and seek knowledge, and the child who is too honest looks very boring when he grows up and does not like to talk. In the case of ensuring safety, it is generally not recommended to prevent naughty children excessively, but should love and cultivate children's naughty energy.
1. Naughty children have a positive and sunny side. Active and energetic, these are the characteristics of smart, healthy and quick-thinking children, and they are also the characteristics that many parents want their children to have. The most naughty child, he is naughty and disobedient, which makes parents have a headache.
2. Naughty children like to be naughty and mischievous, but their self-esteem is particularly strong. They are not the type to go against the grain, and they are also very rebellious. If they make mistakes, the teacher's blind reprimand and scolding can only backfire.
He's getting more and more against you! At this time, if you put him aside, ignore him, remain silent, and don't show anger, the child will become nervous, he will repeat what just happened, and he will have a process of self-reflection. Then after calming down for a while, you can talk to him again.
3. For naughty children, we still have to give him care and encouragement. When he didn't do anything wrong, talk to him about some favorite topics, take the opportunity to grab clues, and praise him. A caring smile, a caring word, and some friendly touches will make them feel the love of the teacher.
4. At the same time, as a parent, for active children, we should pay attention to the combination of insight and movement. On holidays, we take them out for a walk, let them have fun and release their enthusiasm. At home, you can do more quiet activities, such as puzzles, drawing, handicrafts, listening to stories, reading books, etc.
Guide children's interests through the combination of movement and static, and change children's bad habits.
5. Children who are particularly active should pay special attention to their diet. Let them snack less and eat more vitamin-rich fresh fruits and vegetables. Eat more foods rich in zinc and iron, such as eggs and peanuts.
Fatty fish such as salmon and tuna. Namachi needs to treat every naughty child with wisdom, love and patience! I hope they can grow up healthy and grow into towering trees.
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1. Naughty children have their positive and sunny side. Active, energetic, this is a characteristic of smart, healthy, quick-thinking children, and it is also a trait that many parents want their children to have. Most naughty children, he is naughty and disobedient, which makes parents very troubled.
2. Naughty child, he likes to flirt with ants, but his self-esteem is very strong. They are not submissive, and they are particularly rebellious. If they make mistakes, the teacher's mere reprimand and scolding will only be counterproductive.
He's going to you more and more! At this time, if you put it aside, ignore him, keep silent, and don't make an angry appearance, the child's heart will become nervous, he will repeat what happened just now, and he will have a reflection on himself. Then after a period of calm, you talk to him again.
3. For naughty children, but we still can't help but give him a love and encouragement, when he is normal and not committed, talk to him about some favorite topics, seize the opportunity to seize the clues, and praise him. A loving smile, a word of concern, and a few affectionate touches will make them feel the love of their teacher.
4. At the same time, as a parent, for active children, we should pay attention to the combination of movement and static, take them outdoors for a walk on holidays, let them play to their heart's content, and release their hot loose objects. Usually at home, they can do more quiet activities, puzzle drawing, handicrafts, listening to stories, reading books. Guide children's interests through the combination of movement and static, and change children's bad habits.
5. For children who are particularly active, special attention should be paid to diet. Let them snack less and eat more vitamin-rich, fresh fruits and vegetables. Eat more foods rich in zinc and iron, such as eggs, peanuts, etc.
Fish that contain fatty acids, such as salmon, tuna, etc. We need to treat every naughty child with wisdom, love, and patience! I hope they can all grow up healthy and grow into towering trees!
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A typical example of a naughty depiction can be an expression of anger or a naughty one.
There was a naughty classmate in our class named Liu Xia, and he was very naughty.
Once, he went to school to buy five-dime spicy seeds, Huang Kunpeng asked him, he said the file: "Okay", so he picked up one, Huang Kunpeng was about to take it, but Liu Xia licked it with his tongue and shrunk it, saying: "Here you are" Huang Kunpeng was almost angry.
Another time, Liu Xia was reading, and he felt that every meaning was there, so he put Li Qiushuang's hair into his stationery box and clamped his hair. During class, the teacher asked Li Qiushuang to be stupid, Li Qiushuang stood up, his hair was pulled and he screamed in pain, Wu Tong and Liu Xia laughed. The teacher asked Liu Xia to stand, but the teacher turned around to write, and Liu Xia made a grimace at his classmates, and the classmates laughed.
The teacher was even more angry and asked Liu Xia to stand outside the door, Liu Xia was not convinced, made a grimace at the teacher, and pointed a gun at the teacher with his hand, just as the principal passed by and brought him into the principal's office. Ding Lingling finished class three times, Liu Xia came out, and his classmates laughed at him, saying that he was comfortable now? I saw Liu Xia take out a fountain pen from his hand.
It turned out that when the principal said him, he pretended to listen very carefully, and quietly stole the pen in his hand, and he said what to do with the principal? My classmates shook their heads and said you were so naughty.
I wish he wasn't so naughty and was a good boy.
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