When were you most lonely?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-04
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Each of us is an independent individual, no one is obliged to be by your side all the time, sooner or later we have to learn to eat alone, sleep alone, go shopping alone, watch movies alone, drink coffee alone, live alone, and grow alone. But we are still emotional animals after all, we want someone to accompany us, someone to talk to, someone to talk to, so when it turns from lively to cold, from two people to one person. We will inevitably have a feeling of loss, we will feel lonely, we will feel lonely.

    When I was most lonely, I didn't want to do anything, I didn't want to cook, because I only had to eat by myself. I have to be lonely every day, I feel very pitiful, I don't have anyone to accompany me, and I like to turn on a very loud sound when watching TV to drive away the lonely atmosphere in the room. I like to watch tragic dramas and cry so much that I can't stop.

    There is no one to tell the thoughts in my heart, no one can comfort the grievances I have received, I take medicine when I am sick, I am so fragile that I dare not fight **, and I dare not let others know that I am sick.

    I feel that all the people around me don't understand me, they don't understand what I say, no one can understand what I think in my heart, it's sad, but I can only cry secretly in the bed alone. When I hear a sad song, I cry so much that I can't help myself, because the lyrics describe this lonely me now, no one cares, no one understands, no one likes it.

    Later, whenever I was lonely, I would go to read books, looking for my friends from books, looking for the confidant who was like-minded with me, books could understand my joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and could purify my malice towards the world. Reading books makes me feel that I am no longer alone, he gives my spirit to rely on, my soul to comfort, I no longer feel lonely, because at least books will accompany me.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In my heart, the loneliest is not more than desireless, no desire, no luxury, such a mood I think should be that everyone is not happy on the emotional road, and when the mood is low, it is inevitable that there will be such a depressed inner narration situation. It could be dissatisfaction with half of reality, it could be the pressure exerted on the circumstances around you, or it could be the helplessness of the world moving so fast that your consciousness is blurred and the world is detached. This kind of emotion can happen at a certain time.

    That's the way it is in real life, if God doesn't have the will to give you someone you can be with for a lifetime, you can't do anything about it. For myself, I think I'd rather be alone in this situation. Sometimes I may envy couples who are intimate and fighting, and I also have the helplessness of lighting a cigarette on the balcony and watching the stars in the middle of the night.

    But I won't hug someone casually, you will find that when you can really meet someone who accompanies you, you will appear like a shadow in a trance, inadvertent place, indefinite time. I will always be waiting for the person who really catches my heart as a single person full of curiosity. Perhaps this may be the so-called lonely life.

    In fact, all love stories are not perfect and lovely, there will still be separation, enduring the pain caused by long-distance relationships, some long and some short, relatively speaking, they may just be lonely in a different way, and it will bring unnecessary discomfort.

    In this world, each of us comes to this world by chance, and will leave in the direction of the inevitable trend. We are lonely in our nature and at our roots, and it is because of loneliness that we seek affection, friendship, and love. Everyone longs to be loved and attention, because each of us is an orphan.

    Of course, instead of living a lonely life, it is better to say that you can take a certain period of time as your own transition period to slowly precipitate yourself, waiting for some lonely people to slowly get closer to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When you are lonely, you are very calm, find a song you like, or sleep with a smile, forget about your real world, and want to make your illusory dreams real. It feels like the end of the world, very close and yet far away, what is happening has nothing to do with you, but it is around you.

    Loneliness is because you are alone, alone, it may be because you don't have friends around you, etc., or it may be that no one understands you. So it makes you feel like the world has something to do with you and it doesn't.

    The loneliest person, I feel calm, calm and terrible, like looking at the earth from above, more real than we see. I don't know what other people do, but that's how I am.

    I'm a Scorpio.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I felt that the only situation that made me feel lonely was a situation of betrayal and separation, and only then could I feel like I had lost everything.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Sometimes, after a busy day. When you put down the pen, you will always feel infinitely empty. So, I wondered what caused people to feel empty and lonely.

    From the other side, what will make people feel fulfilled and happy. Why do people have these two diametrically opposed thoughts and feelings? Is it the environment that influences us, or are we influencing ourselves?

    Under what circumstances do people feel lonely and empty?

    Is it when you're alone? Or is it in a large crowd? Is it on a rainy cloudy day to watch the rain alone by the window and think about life?

    Or on a sunny day, climb high and look far away, and realize the vastness of the world and the insignificance of the individual? Or is it self-uneasiness to recognize the hypocrisy of human nature between pushing the cup and changing the lamp?

    Maybe both!

    The more I grew up, the more I realized that it was difficult to reach a consensus between people, and even more so the resonance of the heart.

    I saw a saying that the search for recognition is a higher need of people. I don't think so, or there would be beggars donating money, and it would be a lot of money. How can there be a sage who eats and drinks and consciously lives freely.

    These are psychological needs that have been met, and survival needs can be pressed if not fatally urgent. What the! You say they're all extreme examples, well, that makes sense.

    But in the middle is often averages, but to a different degree.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you have no relatives and friends, no one to pay attention to, no one to comfort, no one to care, and you have no one to bear when you encounter anything, and you have no one to talk to, you feel very lonely and helpless at this time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I feel lonely during the holidays.

    Because I am in a foreign country, I can only see other people reuniting with my family during the holidays, but I can only live alone.

    So I feel lonely during the holidays.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    People may feel lonely only when they are in their most difficult time. Sometimes you encounter difficulties, sometimes you are sick, and when you are sad and sad, there is no one to rely on. You will feel lonely at this time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Psychologically speaking, that night is generally the loneliest time, and it is also the time when thoughts are the most abundant.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When do you feel lonely? I just don't understand when others don't understand, and sometimes I feel lonely when I don't have a close friend to talk to.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In the dead of night, I feel lonely, a person who really feels the unspeakable loneliness, and at the same time, this loneliness makes me feel really lonely, because there is no one to accompany me.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I often feel that I will be lonely, especially in the dead of night, and that loneliness will arise spontaneously, and I feel that it is lonely and difficult to live alone.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A person will feel lonely in the dead of night, and he will feel lonely when he walks alone, chats alone, eats alone, or watches movies alone.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When you're alone, you feel lonely.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course, in the dead of night, when you are alone in a strange city! If you don't have friends, you're even more lonely.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Normally, when I am on a business trip, when I am alone, when I am lonely, I feel very lonely, and my home is the warmest and happiest time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think when you're alone, in the dead of night or when it's dark outside. This is when people feel the most lonely.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is nothing to do on campus, and if you don't study, you will be lonely; If you fall out of love, you have nothing to talk about, and you will be lonely.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I haven't felt lonely yet, and although I've often been on my own, I've never felt lonely. People think I'm withdrawn. If you have to say lonely, it's going to dinner with a bunch of colleagues.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    People only feel lonely when they are bored, so a full life is the best way to be lonely!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When you are alone, you will feel very lonely, because there is no one to talk to at this time, and you can talk about some difficulties encountered in life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When I am alone in the room, I feel very lonely, I am a person who likes to be lively, and I am very unaccustomed to being around.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I feel the loneliest time when I'm alone and doing nothing and sleeping in my room.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I feel that the loneliest moment is when my friends are hip-hopping around me, but I can't fit in.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The loneliest moment of my life is that I have no one to rely on, and then I don't even have a person to talk to in my heart and quietly lock a person in the room, and then it is very painful.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Do you think loneliness is only one person? No, it's not. Loneliness is the fact that there are many people living together around you, but it is like people from two worlds, incompatible, and lonely to the extreme.

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