Why do women dress up in front of men, and men do the same in front of women?

On any occasion, as long as there is a woman present, the man must pretend not to want it; When there are men, women will pretend to be no, no. I think this is a normal kind of people's mind, opposites attract, wanting to leave the best side for each other. To sum up, people who love to dress up are affected by the following two factors:

1. Psychological aspects. This phenomenon can be understood as a hint of psychological factors, both men and women want to show themselves in front of each other, leave the best side to everyone, let each other have a trace of beauty, just to satisfy their vanity, to save face, to prove how good they are.

2. Simple like. may be because they simply like each other, and they want to win the attention of the opposite sex, attract each other, and make the other party also have a good impression of themselves. Usually men show how majestic they are by dressing up, which can bring a sense of security to women.

Women will also pretend to be pitiful in order to be loved. If you like each other and want to attract each other, you must understand the other party's preferences before pretending, otherwise it is easy to pretend to be wrong, which is counterproductive, and the person you like will be farther away from you.

It's like a peacock opening the screen, one is for courtship, and the other is to protect himself.

But I think this kind of pretending will be very fake, very contrived, unnecessary, isn't it good to be the most authentic self? Why pretend, it doesn't taste good to wear a mask every day. Free, natural, not pretentious, and not pretentious is the best state.

In addition, quietly tell people who love to pretend that sometimes they will be cut if they pretend to be big, and looking for teeth all over the ground will make them bruised all over their bodies.

As the saying goes, details determine success or failure, a person does a good job in the details, then success will come naturally, if the details are not done well, it is likely to face failure in the future in the relationship, in fact, there is no success and failure, but if you want to see a person clearly, then you might as well look at the details at this time. For a woman, whether he is really serious or pretending to be serious, as a man looks at these details clearly. Look at the scale of her getting along with the opposite sex around her, whether the woman is serious or pretending, in fact, it depends on the scale of his relationship with the opposite sex around you, this is the most obvious at a glance.

Serious women will have a safe distance when they come into contact with the opposite sex, and even if the relationship is good, they will not cross this distance. But unserious women, when they are in a relationship with men, they seem to be very familiar with all men, and their relationship with them is very unusual, in short, you can't see clearly and confusingly. To see if she is interested in her best friend's man, to see if a woman is really menstrual or pretended, then to see if he is interested in her best friend's man.

We often say that fire, theft and girlfriends, some women become girlfriends because they have the same interests and hobbies and have common topics, so the relationship between the two is also exceptionally good, but in the men, the men they like are also very similar. Serious women never think about their best friends' men, and unserious women always want to take their best friends' boyfriends for themselves, so as to prove that they are more attractive than their best friends.

You can ignore them, and if you go too far, look at him with that disgusting gaze, and try to ignore them.

I've got you covered. Your husband is a Mengsao type. He is actually very hot in his heart, and he is honest in front of you because he doesn't know if your heart is hot, and if you give him a hint, he will also be very enthusiastic about you...

If you guessed correctly, your husband's birthday should be in April-July, right?

This doesn't mean anything, this kind of boy, this kind of girl may be the kind of very small child, it's very unreal. Real mature men and women don't do that, and if they were, they wouldn't be around me, because I hate pretending.

In fact, a boy should have a good impression of a girl, not that he wants a girl to take care of him, but that he wants a girl to pay attention to him, but because a girl has a boyfriend, he can only hide it in his heart, and he may also have a slight inferiority complex.

Just don't do something to let others.

I think it's a childish thing.

Think about the problem comprehensively.

Either it's a way to resist you, and he doesn't like you or the boy. Another possibility is that she likes the boy more than she likes you. (Or maybe he doesn't have a crush on you), he's not your girlfriend yet, he has a choice, you let her go as soon as possible, he doesn't like you very much.

If she feels that you understand her, understand her, support her, she will be willing to associate with you, and of course you have common topics that can make you talk more.

An important condition is missing''Pretty girl".

In fact, there is no need, if it is too much, it will make the boy feel that he will be a strict wife in the future, and moderation is good.

There must be some restraint in performing in front of the people you like.,I want to make a good impression on girls.。

This is a psychological effect, and many men will make some pretending actions in order to leave a good impression in front of women.

Because men have a better face and want to have a good impression in front of women, then they will pretend in front of women.

When men say women's clothing, they usually mean that men think that a woman's behavior or performance is not in line with their expectations, or that the woman is deliberately pretentious and pretentious in some way. We can think about this phenomenon from the following aspects:

1.Understand the reasoning behind it: Men say women's clothes may be because men feel that women's behavior is unreal, unnatural, and even sometimes confusing to men.

When encountering this situation, we can try to understand why men have such an opinion, whether it is because they do not understand what women really think, or because women do have problems with how they perform in some areas.

2.Distinguish between real and contrived: Women may show a certain amount of reserve, shyness, and other behaviors in social situations, but this is not necessarily pretending.

Women may show caution in the face of unfamiliar environments and strangers, which is also a form of self-preservation. Therefore, when judging whether a woman is pretending, it is necessary to comprehensively consider whether her behavior is in line with her personality characteristics and the situation at the time.

3.Communication and understanding: When men feel that women are dressing, they can express their opinions through communication, and women can also explain their actions.

Through communication, both parties can reach a better understanding, the man can understand what the woman really thinks, and the woman can also understand that her actions may cause distress to the man.

4.Respect and inclusion: Everyone has their own values and rules of conduct, and in interpersonal interactions, we need to respect the differences that have not been recognized.

If a woman's actions do not cause harm to others, then we should respect her choice and be tolerant of the man's opinion.

In short, how to look at the issue of men saying that women dress, we need to analyze rationally, understand the reasons behind it, and reach a consensus through communication and understanding. In the same year, we should respect and tolerate each other's differences, understand each other, and grow together.

Not only men have to pretend, but women can also pretend! And the people who pretend to belong to the people who don't believe in the world, people who don't believe in others, because they are afraid, afraid that they will be hurt if they show their true side, so they use various masks to protect themselves.