I am about to leave the table, how to choose my love and career?

I'm also a recent graduate Give up your love People have to bow their heads in the face of reality I broke up with my boyfriend No way it's not that I don't like him It's not that I'm ruthless I can't solve his job His livelihood depends on his parents On the contrary, if I go home My parents can solve my work problem If we are together without the help of our parents, food and clothing will be a problem How far can love go My choice He also acquiesced In this way, the three-year love ended without a problem It's not that there are no regrets But there is nothing to be done I'm sad to break up with him But together I know that sooner or later we will hate each other Seal and save love before it tastes bad At least it's a memory Pain is a necessary process Let's walk through it bravely It's past the sea and the sky Experience is for reference only.

Aren't Jiangxi and Guangdong next to each other! With your girlfriend, if you can find a better job, giving up your parents' arrangement doesn't make you more ambitious, and if you don't obey your parents' kind arrangement, it shouldn't be considered a betrayal of your family and your parents' face, right? It only shows that you have grown up and have your own judgment and ideas.

If you follow your parents' arrangements and return to Jiangxi, your job is very secure, and you can communicate with your girlfriend and come to Jiangxi! After all, if there is a person who is stable, even if he doesn't come, he won't necessarily lose his love, can't true love even pass this distance?!!

Career is important, and only when you succeed in your career can you have the ability to protect your love, otherwise you will be dreamy. Without financial resources, without ability, love will also die......

I agree with the statement upstairs I also think you should go back and work in a public institution, now it's hard to find a job outside, I gave up working hard and went to my boyfriend, but I didn't find a suitable one for a long time, the more I was at this time, the more I felt the powerlessness of love But if you are sure that you can find a good job with your girlfriend, you don't have to go back But I hope you don't regret it in the future

Why can't love be with your career, can't you go to work in the field first, and then help your girlfriend find a job when it is stable, can't you just take her over, if you just throw away love as long as your career, then you will be sad in the future.

I want a career, and when I earn money, I will come back and marry her.

Do you think you can leave your family and parents now??? If you can, you can choose love, and if you don't have a job, you can find it again. In the same way, do you think you can take care of her, and can you bear all the pressure to be with her?

Will her parents approve of it??? Have you ever thought about this???

Discuss with your girlfriend, see her wishes, and decide your choice. But don't regret your choice! ~

When you are young, you can fight your career to a high level, get married and have children, and after giving birth, you can still have the same old money to eat when you find a job, and you don't have to start over.

It's always good to have your own money. It's better to be a little woman with money.

Give yourself a deadline, and you won't be affected by anything within this deadline, so you have to do your work well, and if you can stick to it, just go back, it's good.

Women should be independent, no matter what you do, no matter what the situation, you should be self-reliant first, I suggest that you still have to work first, and then talk about feelings.

You can only follow the feeling, don't have any purpose of love, because that will be more unsatisfactory, beautiful love who doesn't want to chase it, just some are looking for it, some are still wandering and watching, and some have been completely defeated and defeated.

When your love comes or the person in your heart appears, seize the opportunity and don't give up, even if you encounter setbacks, you have to face them bravely, no one wants to leave their youth blank. When love comes, it comes when you don't know it, and when you want to get it, it won't come, and even if it does, it may not be sweet.

To put it simply, don't run away when love comes, and don't worry when the arrow of Eros doesn't hit you. Good luck.

Love is something you can't come by.

When you don't meet someone, you can't feel the happiness and pain that comes from loving someone, so you're at a loss.

But even if there is no love, there are still relatives and friends, communicate with them more, be happy!!

What should come will come.

I feel the same way, I'm the same person as you. I think everyone will have their own guardian angel, and love is actually a perfect spiritual union for two people. Relax, there will be someone who loves you the most and knows how to love you the most.

Take your time! When love comes, you get it.

You will also understand what love is.

Love is not a fairy tale, and it will also have some friction and unhappiness.

True love is a work of art that takes time to polish.

What doesn't stand the test is a failed work.

Don't fall in love because of loneliness, learn to wait, wait for the arrival of his who belongs to you.

Everyone has their own angel, let it be!

Love is when two people are together forever.

As a woman, if I were to think about it differently, I would choose to separate from her for a while. Whether it's for the purpose of really wanting to break up or still wanting to make amends. If she is inclined to you, then she will make a choice to contact you after considering herself; If the weight in her heart is heavier than yours, then do you know how much you need to waste your precious love on someone who doesn't deserve it?

Cherish fate, everyone should understand. If she doesn't understand, then it's up to you to teach her a lesson. When it is the last gift you give her love.

The third time, the last time.

There is a bottom line for everything, give yourself a bottom line, and if you break it, there is nothing to be nostalgic about.

Give up, such a person is not worthy of your love.

I used to believe in love between students, but the counselor said that love without real life pressure is pseudo-love, maybe most people have this situation, regardless of boys and girls, as long as someone is good to them, they think they have found their other half, I think so, and I still think so, so my solution to the problem is not to spark with the opposite sex. I want to ask you a question, if your "valet" leaves for a while and another man appears, he is better for you, can you say that you must not fall in love with this person?

Then just tell him that your night was just helping each other with their physical needs! There is no emotion, and you have to tell him for sure that you and your boyfriend have a stable relationship, if he really loves you, please ask him not to disturb your life again, I believe that if he really loves you, he will give up on you, bless you!

Generally speaking, this kind of thing is really difficult to do, depending on which one you like more, which one is rich, which one is handsome, and which one loves you more It's not your fault alone Don't blame yourself too much.

Love is above, prosperity is above

Under loneliness

Well, I think it's so hard to choose, do you still keep in touch with your boyfriend a lot? Do you miss him? When you're alone, who do you think about more?

Are you separated from each other, and have you gone out to meet?? If you've ever been out, do you think you have any special feelings for him?? Sometimes, if you are too familiar with a person, you won't care about him anymore Because you're used to his presence Maybe you and your boyfriend should go out to talk, maybe he doesn't feel good about you Some people say that a woman's love for a man lasts for a maximum of 10 years, and you can at most be a little earlier Although, when you have a boyfriend, you have a relationship with someone else, but there is a certain reason for this, and you can't be blamed for it all Also, you have to talk to the guy and think about whether you are really in love with him. And not because he's good to you And sometimes, it's one thing for a man to chase you, but it's another thing to chase you, and you have to make sure that you don't know him How to choose, I can't say much, it's still up to you, I don't have experience myself.

The first point to note is that you are an immaterial girl, which is rare in today's society, and then I will help you analyze your problem.

I would like to start by asking you a few questions:

1. Before you met your so-called Prince Charming, did you feel that you and your boyfriend had differences in interests, hobbies, aspirations, and language communication, and there was no common topic.

2. Is it okay for your so-called dream lover to be just very good in writing, appearance, words and deeds, and good behavior?

3. Why do you think that your boyfriend is not very good in family, work, and education until now, is it because of that person's advantages that make you think of your boyfriend's only shortcomings?

4. If you meet a better person in the future, who is better than the lover of your dreams, will you still be tempted?

5. If you reach the age of 80, will you still have feelings for your lover, or in other words, do you feel or have feelings for him?

6. Everyone will go crazy for love once, and it is self-inflicted to hurt yourself, but don't hurt the person who loves you.

In fact, at the beginning, you have already stated that you have fallen in love with that person, why do you still ask us, do you want to find the courage and reason to break up, you can choose the latter among the three years of relationship and perfect love, but who to choose between the person who loves you and the person you love, it is to use your own youth to verify the results. There is nothing wrong with you choosing anyone, because love is selfish, I want you to leave your boyfriend, but I want you to tell your boyfriend with a white lie, because I just don't want you to hurt your boyfriend, and I don't want him to lose faith in love in the future.

If you are experiencing misfortune, remember: the past, hide it in the deepest part of your heart, don't touch it, and don't tell anyone about it. Although you once loved someone so hopelessly and desperately, and you hated someone so unforgettablely, one day it will all be clear.

No one is irreplaceable, and the sorrow of loss will one day be filled by someone else or slowly fade and disappear. The wound is the shame given by others and the illusion of one's own persistence, so don't get along with yourself, and don't think that never forgetting and giving up on love can prove how strong your love is! When the person you loved had other happiness and forgot about you, all your sadness and self-harm became meaningless.

I hope that everyone who has lost their love can be happy again, at least, they should be kind to themselves Perhaps, when we are old, we will find that what we can't forget when we are young may not be that person, but the ...... of the years we once loved

It's very simple, kill to pay for your life, and pay off your debts.

First of all, you should get to know the person you meet later, don't get carried away by the feeling of love, he can do this to you and to other women.

Secondly, do you understand if your boyfriend really loves you?

Once this is clear, you can try to confess.

。In fact, if it were me, I would choose my current boyfriend, after all, living a life, having a plan for the future, the two of them can be together very peacefully, and the family supports, which is the most important thing.

Hope it helps

You can also try to tell your girlfriend about it, after all, the bystanders are clear.

Taking a wrong step will be a lifetime of regret, it will be difficult to turn back in the future, even if we are together again, there is no previous feeling, I am just confused and separated from the woman who has been with me for 6 years, I only came to my senses yesterday, it turns out that the woman I have always loved the most is the woman who shares the hardships with me.

Think carefully! Who you are with feels the most real, the most relaxed, the most uninhibited, your own feelings are the most real, don't see everything in front of you and think it is the most real!

I hope you don't be the second me!

Follow your feelings, emotional matters depend on how you choose, no one can help you.

What a romance story.

Since you don't have feelings for your boyfriend, it is recommended that you tell him as soon as you don't love him, the better, if you can't bear to tell him like this, you will be petty, find fault with him, think he is poor, or whatever, let him take the initiative to leave you, so that he may feel very hurt, but in turn it may make him cheer up faster.

As for your Prince Charming, be careful, if he just plays, you won't even have the last support for yourself. So be sure to test how deep his love for you really is. You can be hot with him for a while, and then cold for a while, to see if he is in a hurry to find you, and how long it lasts.

I don't know if you have any plans in mind, but I just want to say, people, it's good to live a good life, and you don't have to worry about too many other complicated things.

Think clearly.

Maybe that guy isn't what you think he is.

Don't make a mistake and hate it for eternity.

What you like is his talent and handsomeness, right?

It's hard to say who to choose, who is good and who is bad.

It depends on who works harder.

Sometimes it doesn't have to be with whom you love.

Don't regret your choice, otherwise it will hurt all three.