Isn t it bad to be too kind? 20

Kindness is a good quality that should be preserved. But kindness must also have scale, measure, boundaries, and edges.

People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. A person who is too kind is stupid. Kindness also has its own edge, so that others should not be too presumptuous.

Kindness without boundaries becomes a good bully. When your act of kindness is taken for granted, everyone will call you to do something, and if you refuse, you will become everyone's enemy and be unanimously ostracized.

Kindness is not stupidly being nice to everyone, and it is not sacrificing oneself to please others. Kindness is a kind of character, it is to have a transparent heart, to do things clearly, to be a down-to-earth person, not humble or arrogant, and there is no need to be submissive.

Excessive kindness becomes good use. You are always kind to people, tolerant and generous in everything, silently doing many things, even if you are wronged, you swallow your anger. It is easy to give the impression of no principle, no personality.

In the workplace, you are always indisputable, not strong, just bury your head in the work, and it is very likely to become a stepping stone for others. When you still have use value, you may also receive smiling faces and sweet words; And once you wake up and realize that you are being used, you will probably have to face a different face. Whoever is good to me, I will be good to whom!

This kind of kindness has weight, so that it will not let itself be thankless and low to the dust.

Kind people must learn to be ruthless. Kind people, don't act as a good old man everywhere and mud, sometimes, you have to learn to be a ruthless person, and you must have the ruthlessness to reject people thousands of miles away.

Isn't it bad to be too kind? I don't think that's the case, as the saying goes, evil is rewarded with evil, good is rewarded with good, kind people, do good things, calm and steadfast, there will be no sense of guilt.

Kindness is not without a bottom line. Goodness also requires the discernment of right from wrong, not the unprincipled Virgin. Kindness is for oneself, not for the sake of attracting the attention of those around you. Do what you think is worthwhile and stick to your principles.

Blindly pay without asking for anything in return, but in the end, what you get is that others are indifferent, complaining, and disgusting to you!

The other party is easy to get an inch.

As the so-called Shengmi Endou Mi hatred, some people are not only grateful to their benefactors, but resentful of you, the biggest reason is that you are too good to them.

There is a group of people who are accustomed to getting an inch, and they take the help of others for granted. Although helping others comes from our own kindness, we must be aware that not everyone is worthy of help, and we are ungrateful.

The person who will take revenge is not worth helping at all, after all, they don't understand the painstaking efforts of others at all, they will only take it coldly and selfishly, even if you pay more, they will only write it lightly, and even use it as your way to please him.

Hit the other person's self-confidence.

An individual's position in interpersonal interactions depends largely on his self-confidence, and the stronger his self-confidence, the higher his status in the eyes of others.

In real life, there is such a type of person, they have an independent temperament, have a strong sense of self-esteem, even if they are in a trough, they do not want to show a frustrated side in front of outsiders, but as long as they can get through the difficulties themselves, they will never take the initiative to ask for help, in this case, if you rashly help him, it is likely to hurt the other party's self-esteem.

A person with strong self-esteem will never be able to stand the pitiful eyes of others, and the best way to treat them is to pretend that he doesn't know anything and continue to associate with them with the same attitude as before, only in this way can he save his face and no longer feel ashamed.

Don't act rashly when someone hasn't explicitly asked you to help, and don't disrupt someone's rhythm, because you never know what their plan is.

There are also those who are overly dependent on your help, and if you stop helping them, they will hate you so much that they will turn you into enemies.

All in all, being kind and helpful to others is indeed one of the traditional virtues, but before taking the initiative to lend a hand, it is important to analyze your own abilities and the needs of the other party, if you are not sure to help the other party completely, then do not act easily, this is also for your own safety.

Kindness is the virtue of being a person, but kindness also depends on the object, the occasion, and the principle, that is to say, your kindness must be a little sharp, and to some people, some people, can not be too kind, otherwise, you will put yourself in a very embarrassing situation and be easily hurt.

1. In most people's impressions, kindness is tolerance and tolerance, and if you show your edge, you will be considered unkind, but in fact, kindness can be completely sharp. The reason why I say this is because kindness and tolerance are conditionally beautiful, forbearance has a bottom line, and kindness itself is principled.

Second, if you don't refuse to help, others will take it for granted; If you give in without a bottom line, others will have to make inch; If you give without reservation, others will take it endlessly. If you are a good person for a long time, others will think you are cowardly; There are too many smiling faces, and they are used to being sick. There are not so many things that are taken for granted, and there are not so many things that should be taken for granted.

I'm willing to get used to you, and you have to know the general thing.

3. People's kindness must have a ruler, and people's tolerance must be measured. It is good to be kind to others, to be humble and courteous. But without the softness of the boundary, it will only allow the claimant to gain an inch; Unprincipled concessions will only allow the bully to do whatever he wants.

Your kindness must be a little sharp. If you are accustomed to silence, to wronging yourself, and not to rejecting everyone, you will forget that you can have an attitude, a bottom line, and a life of your own without being disturbed.

Fourth, but we know that in fact, for most kind people, they are willing to be with others and get along well. And they don't want to do things that hurt each other, even those who have hurt her, they will want to help each other. Even those who have been hurt, the problems and difficulties they encounter, they will take the initiative to care for and love each other, and believe that through the actions of these kind people.

Yes, I will continue to be kind.

A good heart is the most basic moral code we call human. In this world, not everyone is ungrateful, and not everyone is indifferent. In this world, except for a few malice, the rest are all kindness, and some people may not be grateful for your kindness and wisdom, but will only make more progress.

But the kindness of your heart is commendable to the world and to others.

Kindness is actually very simple, maybe it's just your unintentional help, it solves the things that most people urgently need to solve and some can't do anything, because of people's gregariousness and unique human emotions, so there will be people who need help anytime and anywhere, maybe a few simple words of comfort, or maybe something that can be solved with help, so your kindness is not useless. We should be kind people, but our kindness needs to be selective.

Some people take the kindness of others as weak, unscrupulous bullying; Treat other people's kindness as garbage, and hurt with bad intentions!

Kindness is given to the right person, the achievement of others, and the happiness of oneself; Kindness is given to the wrong person, and it is calculated by others, and it hurts oneself!

In this world, not everyone knows gratitude, it is a snake, destined to hurt people; It's a wolf, doomed to be insidious!

If you are too kind, you will agree to whatever others say, and your contribution will seem cheap.

There is nothing wrong with kindness per se, it is those who have bad intentions who are wrong.

Don't be kind to everyone, some people don't deserve it;

Don't help everyone, there are people he doesn't deserve.

Sincerity is hard to find, don't be humble, kindness is expensive, don't waste it, angular kindness is true kindness;

Kindness with a bottom line is great wisdom!

If you think about it, kindness is for yourself, not for others. Therefore, I will continue to be kind to the Liang clan.