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Girl, first ask yourself, what do you love about him?
Are you so infatuated with his charisma that you can't give it up?
If not, then being together is a habit, and married life needs a balance!
If you have so much distrust of your boyfriend before marriage, then you give up and don't get married!
Two people who can get married, first of all, have a premise of love, followed by responsibility and trust!
You don't trust this person, you don't have a sense of security about your future married life, it means that this man is not the best person for you yet!
He doesn't bring you a sense of security from financial to emotional, so much so that you worry about your life!
Before marriage, the person's shortcomings tend to shrink, and (in your eyes) after marriage, the shortcomings are all magnified to the point that they occupy the position of advantages!
If you feel that this person has shortcomings that you can endure, you can tolerate and live a good life, then OK! You love him, marry him!
If you can't bear him before marriage, or if he doesn't give you enough reasons to entrust yourself to him, then you won't be happy after marriage!
The choice is yours! Economically, when a man does not earn more than a woman, he will have many bad consequences because of low self-esteem, such as quarrels, he cannot dominate financially, and will dominate in other aspects! You have to be clear about that!
Good luck
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Women are loved.
If he is your dependence.
Gives you a sense of security.
The reason why you are scared and worried is because you are insecure.
Love and my life are two different things.
Love is longing.
Life is realistic.
Don't insist too much.
Be kind to yourself. Emotional matters can only be handled by yourself.
Someone else's is only indirect experience.
Not necessarily for you.
Direct experience is needed in the face of feelings.
Know what you want.
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Think about what you'll get later?
I'm also '89.
Many of my friends have been living together for a long time, aren't they tired?
Will your life be better in the future?
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Unknown flash people.
It's back again. Explain ha. He's not a good bird! It's true!
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I've been giving people advice to solve emotional problems all my life, and I ended up having an accident myself, grandma's!
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What a good girl, where can I find this kind of girl now?
I feel that what your parents want is a grandson, what you want is a love, and what you want is a wife, everyone has different needs! But marriage is a lifelong thing, if you follow that man, you will be happy, and love will be cultivated slowly, in fact, you don't hate him very much, right? Try to have a relationship Maybe something will happen that moves you one day Hehe, maybe he will love him to die and come back to life It's hard for a man to feel very careful, it's good, yes
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