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1. Find a simple and down-to-earth, love you and love you, the first element. The so-called sense of responsibility.
It is a sense of responsibility to the family and society.
2. Have a sense of dedication, the cause is big and small, and you can't force everyone's life to live a vigorous and earth-shattering life. As big as the Founding Fathers.
As small as a small official, they are all working for their own careers. But no matter how big or small, being a man, especially being a "good man", you have to be ambitious.
3. Kindness & Tolerance.
A good man who is kind also has a forgiving heart. Women will always be careful, but men can't do that. Men have to learn to be tolerant.
4. Self-reliance. Whether it's **, sports or fishing, a man who can find his hobby in life will definitely give people a sense of vitality.
5 Romance. A good man should know a little bit about romance, because behind romance is real care. The mood is not only the smell of coffee, tobacco, and flowers, but also a little more surprise on a very mediocre and dull day, but just a little bit is enough to make a woman reminisce for a while.
6. Hold your lover in the palm of your hand.
Is he's such a good man for yours? Have you noticed that he will remember the name of the friend you mentioned? He will listen patiently as you speak; He will take the initiative to hand you a tissue when you are sad; He will hold you in the palm of his hand; When you are sick, he will ask you long and short questions before your bed; If you are bullied outside, he will be very distressed, full of comforting and considerate words; If you're doing housework, he won't sit on his feet and watch TV ......These are all silent declarations of his love for you, and you can almost tell yourself that he really likes you, that he is a rare good man who is kind and considerate to you.
7 pairs of strangers are also good.
In fact, everyone is a stranger to others. A good man should be good to his friends, his family, and his lover at the same time, and at the same time, he should also be good to strangers, which does not mean that he should give up his vigilance against strangers.
The first element of love and kindness. The so-called sense of responsibility is a sense of responsibility to the family and society.
2. Have a sense of dedication, the cause is big and small, and you can't force everyone's life to live a vigorous and earth-shattering life. From the founding fathers to the small officials, they are all working for their respective causes. But no matter how big or small, being a man, especially being a "good man", you have to be ambitious.
3. Kindness & Tolerance.
A good man who is kind also has a forgiving heart. Women will always be careful, but men can't do that. Men have to learn to be tolerant.
4. Self-reliance. Whether it's **, sports or fishing, a man who can find his hobby in life will definitely give people a sense of vitality.
5 Romance. A good man should know a little bit about romance, because behind romance is real care. The mood is not only the smell of coffee, tobacco, and flowers, but also a little more surprise on a very mediocre and dull day, but just a little bit is enough to make a woman reminisce for a while.
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If you have a house and a car, you can find a boyfriend who loves you, love you, be self-motivated, take care of your family, don't bother, don't fool around, kind men I think it's okay, no one is perfect, no one is perfect, it's almost there.
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As a girl, you have a car, a house, a stable job and income, so you can find someone with similar conditions to you.
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Hello, I have a house and a car, a stable job and a stable income, such a good condition should find a rich and handsome or rich second generation, and I must find a rich boyfriend.
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It is best to find someone who you love him and he also loves you, and marriage is true love.
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Do you work within the system?
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In fact, I think this question is very good, just like upstairs and downstairs they say, in fact, it is very common for girls to work hard, because girls can actually work harder than boys, because they can eat this bowl of rice more, so they have a house and a car is also the fruit of their labor, but why is it more difficult for him to find a partner? Because you're very simple, if they're looking for a partner, and he already has a house and a car, then he'll definitely find someone better than him. But most of the unpalatable words, because he spends more money, or his income is less, then he can't have a house and a car at the same time, so it is even more difficult for him to find a partner, because there are few such boys who have a house and a car in a boy, so they may have children at the age when they are already married.
Therefore, no matter how hard a girl works, it is difficult to meet a match, which is like this.
Because there are fewer and fewer boys who can match him, and his requirements are getting higher and higher, boys will gradually not be able to reach it, most boys can't reach it, I used to know a girl, she told me that she said so, he said that if he didn't meet the right object, then he would never get married, that's the kind of thing, so I think it's more difficult for him to find a partner. One of the reasons why he is looking for a partner is not that he has a house and a car, but that every boy he looks for must have a small head and bangs, just like a star, to be honest, if he really has a house and a car, will someone like a star marry her?
The ideal is very plump, the reality is very skinny, this is a sentence that many people are saying, and it is also a thing I think, in fact, if I am in real life, it is still fate, even if you are fate, even if he has no house or car, you will be with him. It's just life, that's it, life is very short, everyone hopes to meet a confidant and finish their life, but not everyone has such a fate, I have seen too many examples of breakups, and I have seen too many feelings. The experience is scattered, but I think one thing is very important, and that is that in fact, we want to find a suitable partner in our lives, but it takes time to reach out to a wider range of people, and I am afraid that there will always be results.
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In real life, in fact, I think girls work very hard, there are not a few people who have a house and a car, I used to know a girl when I was working, she is a typical person with a house and a car, but one of the reasons why it is difficult for him to find a partner is that he has everything, so if he wants to find a boy, he will be better than him, and if they are in this situation, he will be very difficult. But he won't make do to find a partner, I also know a girl, she said the same at the time, he said that if he can't find a suitable one, he will not get married in this life, is such a thing, in fact, I don't think this is anything, in fact, everyone's choice is the same, it is difficult to get married if such an excellent girl is, especially it is very difficult to find a suitable object, because uh if they have a house and a car like them, boys can rarely reach it, besides, if a boy is as old as him, Or if you get married, that's how it will be at that point, and you'll be going to do things, so I think for them, it's a bumpy life.
This may be the true meaning of life, but I think many girls in real life are very hard-working, in my opinion, there are not a few girls who have a house and a car, but in the end, in fact, the reason why it is difficult for him to find a partner is not that they have too high vision, and on the basis of this condition, few people can match each other, in fact, they have not met the right person, on the one hand, they are busy with work, it is difficult for them to meet the person they like. Because their contact area is too narrow, if you participate in some organizations, it may be possible, but most of the time, to be honest, people who are busy with work are hard to believe, even if you go on a blind date once a week, uh, once a week, then you can only believe four times a month, and all four times may not be satisfactory.
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Although the girl seems to have a car and a house, it is actually very likely that she bought it with a loan, and after the boy is with the other party, he will have to pay the mortgage and car loan together.
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Because such girls are more demanding, many boys are no longer worthy of themselves, so it is more difficult to find a partner.
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Because this girl is particularly strong and older, she is not suitable for marriage.
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If you have a car and a house with a monthly income of about 100,000 yuan, it is normal to still not find a suitable object.
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Because you feel that your conditions are so good, your vision is relatively high, and you also hope to find a very good girl in your heart, you don't want to waste time, let alone waste your feelings, so you can't find a suitable partner.
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Because the marriage has not yet arrived, you have not met someone who really loves you. Don't worry, I think as long as you live well, you will definitely encounter it.
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That's because you're too demanding, and with your conditions, you should have a lot of resources to find, lower your requirements appropriately, and don't pursue too perfection.
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That should be because you are too demanding of the other party, or you actually don't want to find a partner in your heart, and you don't pay attention to this matter, so you can't find a suitable partner.
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If you can't find it for a long time, then you should carefully consider whether you are asking too much of your partner. When you have time, you can go out more often, get to know different people of the opposite sex, and maybe you will find your partner quickly.
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With your condition, you should be considered a very good person, but if you still can't find a partner, you may need to self-examine to see if there is a flaw in your personality, so you can't find a partner.
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It may be that you are too demanding of your significant other, or that you have always felt that you have not met the right person to be with, so you have been looking for it. The first requires you to lower your requirements, and the second can only wait.
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Because your vision is too high, you look down on those girls with poor conditions, and girls with similar conditions to you have higher requirements for the other half and will not easily fall in love with someone, so you have not been able to find a partner.
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Now in this society, it is very realistic, the poor conditions of boys in all aspects bring difficulties to finding the right person, everyone wants to live a good life, of course, there is a car, a house, a deposit and a stable job, isn't this the marriage that those girls dream of?
Whether a girl's own conditions are good or not, she will definitely move towards this goal when she finds a boyfriend, and once the opportunity comes, she will bravely pursue this perfect life.
But one thing to pay attention to is that no matter how superior the boy's conditions are, the most important thing is to value his character.
Oh, yes! The girl chose this marriage, which is good in all aspects, but how can a man have a bad character, what is the use of asking for this?
You married him today, maybe he will go to the junior and junior tomorrow, so no matter how good the man's conditions are, the character should be considered first, and then the rest.
It must be easy for a man to find a girlfriend, after all, the man's conditions are more eye-catching.
But in this world of flowers, you must polish your eyes and find someone who only loves you all your life.
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It also depends on the man's character, if the character is not good, although the material is not worried, but the soul is wronged, it is better to find a person who does not have these conditions to be together! At least the soul has been comforted, and the material can slowly struggle together to give it to itself.
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It's easy to find, this condition is very suitable for the marriage of the partner.
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Boys who have a car, a house, a deposit and a stable job should find a girlfriend, and now girls want to have a sense of security, a stable job is a must, it is a guarantee of family life.
I can't say this, I should say that not all people are like this, it may be that you haven't met the right one, and you can't get lucky.
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