Three men are pursuing me at the same time, what should I do?

Updated on healthy 2024-06-04
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The premise that the information is true, for the first, you have to learn to get along with his child, get the relationship between the child, this person will provide you with solid material security, will make your future life easy, the second, the personality is similar, it is easier to get along, but it depends on what kind of character, if the two are stubborn, the quarrel will be difficult to end, but not being able to have children is a good thing for your future life, you don't have to endure the pain of childbirth, and be good to your child, the third, don't want to get married, that's afraid of responsibility, There is no desire to struggle. You've been tricked, sweet talk, if he's willing to get married and work hard for you, then it's time to reconsider. And you have to see what bad habits they have.

    How faithful he is to you, how much he loves you. It's not about it, it's about watching.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you know that Italian netizen well enough, then in my opinion, choose the Italian one! After all, you've all been married and have a certain understanding of marriage! Divorced people who want to get married again are nothing more than wanting to live a good life and find someone to rely on for the rest of their lives!

    And he has the idea of opening a company in China! You don't have to worry about living in a foreign country...Actually, the Danish one is actually not bad, and he is infertile...You don't have to worry that after you have a child with him, he won't be so good to you and your ex-husband's child! Make your own children feel lonely....Forget about the German one.

    He's 10 years younger than you, and it wouldn't be a big deal if he was 10 years older than you, but you're a girl. I don't know what people think about this in foreign countries, but in China, the age difference between husband and wife is basically no more than 5 years. And it's usually the men who are bigger than the women....The above is purely a personal opinion, you still have to think about this yourself!

    Take control of your own happiness and don't let people sway you. See before you decide! Finally, I wish you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hehe, it's the first time I've seen such a sharp question

    Landlord, I think if they all love you, you can test them with some things, and judge who is your true son through test and time After all, this is not a relationship, and it can't be said that failure will come again.

    There is more than one chance, but it is really difficult to choose the one that truly belongs to you from the many fake opportunities.

    No matter what, just do what you think is right and be worthy of what you do

    In the end, I hope that the landlord can get his own happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Choose the material conditions that will give you superiority and love you. If you have a child, you should know that material things are still very important, and you can give your child a good education, not much to say, I think you understand.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The first. He has conditions. And you're alike. Nowadays, love is built on a material basis.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Choose what you like and it's that simple.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Think about who is the most important in your heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Our great ancients told you thousands of years ago that the three monks had no water to drink, and they had no water to drink.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Engineer is the right fit for you. Think about it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Close your eyes and think of who is the first thing you think, right is him, looking for a foreigner? The taste is strong enough.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Have you ever been in contact with that Italian person, in real life?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In this society, money is the last word.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Pretty good, what's wrong? id talk in detail.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    German bar. As long as you are in love, age is not a problem.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    At this stage of this information, the first is suitable for marriage, the second is suitable for being a confidant, and the third is suitable for being a lover.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Being pursued by three guys at the same time proves that you are very attractive, so you have to be more careful when choosing someone who truly loves you, but at the same time does not hurt the other two and those who don't have the courage to confess to you.

    People can't live only for themselves, they must first consider the thoughts of others. Whatever choice you make, don't hurt anyone else. Before you make a choice, you have to think of a tactful way to apologize to the other two and don't say it so desperately Confessing to someone is a thing that requires courage, they are all deliberate and finally have the courage to express their hearts to you, after a lot of struggles, you can't refuse their feelings to them without thinking about it You must not, you have to respond to their courage to confess to you desperately in a correct way.

    Now comes to the selection section. You have to look at how they behave, and see who is genuine about you and who's just having fun. It also depends on your own wishes, and if you don't have any feelings for them, don't waste other people's time and your own time, and express your heart as soon as possible.

    The most important thing is to see who you like more, give more opportunities to whoever you like, don't wander between the three of them at the same time, you must be focused, otherwise it will seem that you are very frivolous Pedal on three boats.

    You have to express your stance as soon as possible, don't let the three people feel uncomfortable at the same time, don't make too much ambiguity while contacting the person you like more, and observe whether this person is sincere or not Evaluate this person from his ordinary every move during the New Year, if you think it's good, establish a relationship, don't waste the rest of the people's efforts to chase you.

    If you want to fall in love for a longer time until you get to the step of marriage, you still have to choose a person who is suitable for your temperament and personality in all aspects, "suitability" is a very important factor, you must consider this carefully, otherwise you will be very tired when you are together, which will lead to a breakup.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Being pursued by three boys at the same time, then you are very lucky, you must know that there are many single dogs, and you don't want a boyfriend yet, but like you, it is also more sad, I believe that these three boys must have their own strengths, regardless of up and down, so it will make you so difficult to choose.

    Then there are hobbies, if you find someone who has the same interests as you, then there are endless words between you, you can discuss your interests and hobbies, and then talk all day, but if there is no overlap between your interests and hobbies, you want to talk to him about the TV series you are chasing, and he is not interested at all and has nothing to say, or he wants to talk to you about the machinery he likes, and you don't know anything, so embarrassing.

    And the most important thing is that who you are happiest with them is when you stay together, who knows you best, who can make you laugh when you are sad, who can always understand what you say immediately when chatting with you, who has the most tacit understanding with you in ordinary life, both of them don't need to speak, and they hit it off with a single eye contact.

    I hope what I said will help you when you really make a choice, and I hope you make the right choice.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, I think you must be a very good girl! Otherwise, why would three boys chase you at the same time? So I think you must be a girl who is very beautiful, has a very good look, and has her own charm.

    So when choosing a boyfriend, you must choose someone who can walk for a lifetime. First of all, the first point depends on which of the three boys is the best for you? Appearance is not so important though.

    But you must know who is the best for you, after all, if you get married in the future, you will marry someone who loves you. If a boy treats you badly, how can your parents trust you to him?

    The next day is all about personality. I think people with similar personalities can go a long way. If one of the two people is chronic and the other is acute, then when doing things, the two people will definitely have contradictions, and if there are many contradictions, they will definitely wear out the feelings between the two people.

    Therefore, when looking for a partner, you should find someone with a similar personality, so that there is a common topic between two people. Some of the talents they talk about are more interesting.

    The third point is that it is very pretending to be three views! As the saying goes, differences do not conspire with each other, we must see whether the outlook on life, values, and economy are the same. To take the simplest example, for the economic view, if you are a person who wants to spend money when he has a salary, and he is a person who wants to save when he has a salary, then the two of you will definitely have conflicts in life.

    Because it doesn't even fit into the most basic economic outlook. Moreover, more than 80% of the main contradictions in love welcome come from the economy, so people who do not meet the economic outlook should not consider it!

    The fourth point is the man's family background. One thing in particular should be noted, to see if this boy is a mom boy? The boy of the mom boy only listens to his mother, and it will be especially tiring to be with such a person.

    The rest of the figure, appearance, clothing and so on need to be slowly weighed and considered by yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Secondly, it depends on whether you and his three views are the same, two people get along with each other three views are very important, indicating whether you can be with each other for a lifetime, many people do not recognize this importance when they fall in love, and there will be all kinds of contradictions in married life, and different views on the problem can not be solved, so both parties will be very tired after marriage.

    Finally, it depends on his financial ability and personal ability. It is unrealistic not to talk about money in marriage, you will live together in the future, and share the pressure of the family, and it will be difficult to live without money, which will lead to conflicts between the two people. Therefore, it should be properly looked at his economic ability, even if he has nothing now, at least he should be a person with ideals and the ability to achieve them, so that he can have a future to look forward to.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I've always felt that spiritual prosperity is more important than material abundance when it comes to finding a boyfriend.

    When facing the pursuit of several boys at the same time, I think that girls should not be too anxious to make a decision, and the consequences of hasty will easily lead to girls choosing the wrong person, but at this time, if you want to regret it, you may have missed the right person.

    If it were me who was being pursued by three people at the same time, I would ask all three of them a question at the same time, let the three of them know about each other's existence at the same time, and then let them fight for themselves to see what they would do. If a boy only elevates his image by belittling the behavior of others, then I don't think such a boy is worth associating, because I don't like people who will do anything to achieve their goals.

    If the other party is just blindly expressing themselves, just hoping to add more points to their external image, then my attitude should be to be determined. When I join the other party, I will first ask me who the most favorable person is, and can respect my choice, then I will feel that such a boy is the most considerate of others.

    I think the deepest way to like a person is to be fulfilled. If there are boys who will put your choice first, then I think such people are more suitable for you to date, because such people, in the process of dating, will consider your feelings more, they will be reluctant to do things that hurt you because of their liking for you, and they will definitely do things for emotional single-mindedness.

    At the same time, we should also pay attention to the boy's plan for himself, I think the boyfriend should still look for a positive person, and it is easy to become negative when he is with someone who has nothing to do all day.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The first one is better.

    I've seen a lot of boys who have a good head, and this kind of boy generally has a lot of boyfriend power, and there will be no major problems with his character, and he speaks and does things neatly. And the first figure is at a normal level, just look at his hands, elbows, and Adam's apple to know his usual mental state, and his smile is relatively natural.

    The second boy should have long hair. The smile is also more**, and the appearance is also above the flat**. But this kind of man's general emotions are too delicate and more attentive, and they are unreliable at critical times.

    The third should be a "good man" in the general sense. His personality should be more shy, see if you can accept it, this kind of man, if the economic conditions are better, it is still a good choice.

    I'm a man, and I summarize and analyze the characteristics of many boys around me, and I suggest that the first one is better.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The first and second are more handsome, the third is a little fatter, but they look good, it depends on which one you like, it doesn't matter if others like it, it's important that you like it, after all, it's a person who wants to live a lifetime, choose the right partner, in order to be happy for a lifetime, get along with them, and see which one is compatible with you. Behold which one loves you more and good luck!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Even if three people are chasing you, you have to think clearly, who is sincere to you, the most important thing is who you feel the best about, who you are happy with, who you are not so tired with, don't just look at your appearance, mainly to see whether your requirements are high, for example, the man's unique money, that is, the character is not very good, this situation or the most important thing is to look at the character, mainly depends on how you feel about them, which one feels good, which one is suitable for you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Each of these three boys has its own strengths. They are all very good-looking, they are all very handsome, and they are all very sunny. Beauty depends on your eyes?

    I can see the appearance and don't know the character. People don't see things the same way. You have your thoughts, your vision.

    The beauty has to make up her mind. Choose one of the three. The third boy, ** is relatively white.

    It's also very handsome and good-looking. I suggest you just pick the third place

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