Why are some people always reluctant to consider the feelings of others?

For the problem of feelings, you just need to be brave, strong, and most importantly, optimistic! Although I don't know who you are! But I hope you can be happy, don't be too difficult for yourself for emotional matters, and don't let yourself be wronged too much!

The love that is worth paying, you must not miss it! By the way, I'm going to tell you a little secret--- pat myself on the head and tell myself---I'm going to be strong!" I'll be brave!

yes, good! I'm sure you'll be happy and happy in 2008! Remember:

Even the best of love requires care"business"We tend to have preconceived notions because the other person is our lover! Assume! When we do some things, we always think that we are lovers, and some details are not paid much attention to!

I won't look too carefully to change the angle and think about it from his point of view. We're going to embarrass him if we do that! Rather, I take it for granted that [he will definitely forgive me!]

Because we're boyfriend and girlfriend! After a long time, there will naturally be more misunderstandings! The contradictions will become more and more prominent, and eventually lead to the coldness of the relationship!

So I think that between lovers, no matter in anything, in any detail, we should change the angle and consider more for the lover! Just a personal opinion I hope it will be helpful to you.

People don't kill for themselves, and not thinking about others is actually a characteristic of human beings, and if you want to monopolize for a little self-interest at some point, will you think of your friends? It is estimated that this is the case, and he can't be completely blamed, it can only be said that people are like this. Accept it.

Maybe they are more selfish, think more about their own things, and think about themselves first when they encounter things, and they may not empathize, or they can't put themselves in the shoes of others. More focused on your own feelings, more concerned about how you feel inside. So to treat others is to ignore and be dismissive.

A person who does not consider the feelings of others is a very selfish person who only thinks about his own interests, so he does not care about the feelings of others.

People who don't have the ability to empathize don't think about other people's feelings and only focus on their own feelings, or they are naturally selfish and don't want to think about others!

A person who never considers the feelings of others, only feels that he is the protagonist in life and in this society, never cares about the details of others, and does not care about anything about others, this kind of person will not even have a friend! A person who only thinks from his own point of view, will only think about himself, will never care about other people, will not care about what happens to others, this kind of selfish person will become more and more unreasonable, he thinks that he is the most important, no one can deny what he identifies, maybe his relatives will stay away from him! A person who only focuses on himself when he encounters things will only take himself as the focus of his affairs and love to be in the limelight!

He always thinks that he is the final winner, this kind of person will shirk his responsibility when he encounters bad things, and will definitely push his responsibility to the end! But in the end, it is still himself who is punished, and no matter how clever he says, it will be useless, because the eyes of the masses are bright! A person like this will not be cared for by anyone, and those who really love and care about him will not be able to stand his selfishness and leave him!

Because of selfishness, arrogance, self-centeredness in everything, only thinking about his own interests and his own feelings, never empathizing and considering the feelings of others, this kind of person is ultimately a lonely person, because he has no real friends, and even his relatives will not approve of him, he is a person who lacks emotional intelligence.

In this world, there are many, many selfish people, they only think about their own feelings, not about others, and only think about being happy, so they will treat others as they want, regardless of whether others will care or not. Such people often always feel good about themselves and have an inexplicable sense of superiority, but in the eyes of others, such people are very annoying, and no one wants to get along with such a group person. The main manifestation of this kind of stupidity is that he never considers the feelings of others when he speaks, only cares about himself, and says whatever he wants.

Some people feel that they don't consider the feelings of others when they speak because they have a direct personality and because they are upright, so they dare to say anything, and they feel that this will make others feel that they are not pretending and feel that they are very individual. In fact, in the hearts of others, they have already scolded you tens of thousands of times.

Many people will add a sentence before speaking, I speak very directly, if there is something offended, don't care. Then I want to ask, why do you have to say it when you know that you will offend others? It's not because you have a straight personality, it's because you have low emotional intelligence, you don't know how to speak, you only think about your own feelings, and don't care about what others think.