Is it really necessary to be realistic about loving someone?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-22
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Some men care a lot about these things, but some men hate deception even more.

    I'm just a person who hates cheating, and sometimes it's okay for the other person to make mistakes.

    But you have to be honest and have to be honest, even if the two of you are having a hard time at the time.

    But at least when men think about it in the future, they will think that she is still honest.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There are some things that don't need to be too frank, and that's all in the past, and it's okay now, but if you say it, it will make the relationship have a scar, so let those bad things rot in the stomach, and if you say it, they may say that it's all in the past, and he won't mind, but he can't let go of it in his heart.

    Give yourself a chance to start over

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That's not necessarily, sometimes it takes a white lie. Both to protect themselves and to keep others. Why not.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Done a week of PR? It shouldn't be a big deal, maybe she just thinks it's fun, it's not enough, and if he's a feudal person, it's better not to say it, lest he think about it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's definitely not it, your friend's boyfriend will definitely blame him after a long time,

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    How well your friend knows her "him", if you think he doesn't care, you should confess, but if you think he cares a lot, and there is a possibility of breaking up, then don't say it.

    Actually, if I were replaced, a girl who confessed to me should be more worthy of love

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you love him, you will be less burdened to him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The premise of truly loving someone must be that you love yourself.

    If you don't love yourself enough, then you won't know how to love another person, just like you always want your parents to be happy and have their own lives, and not interfere too much in your private life. The principle is the same, you have your own life before you can know how to live with another person for the rest of your life.

    When you do your own thing, he and she do his own thing, and it is very harmonious, not conflicting, appreciate each other's things, truly appreciate each other from the heart, and you will not feel that what the other person does is starving for you. When the other person has troubles, you can really feel the feeling of rotten rush from your heart, and want to think about the problem from his perspective and solve the troubles. In the same way, if the other party can talk to you patiently when you have troubles, help you find a way, and help you solve your troubles, but you must not completely rely on the other party to help you solve the problem, the other party can patiently face the problem with you It is not easy to do so.

    In the end, you are an independent individual, do not be attached to anyone, and try to rely on others for progress.

    To love someone, you must not love in the right way you feel, but look at it from the position that the other person loves yourself, and in turn, how you love yourself, how you love each other. If you don't love yourself enough, then don't talk about how to love someone. The premise of truly loving someone must be that you love yourself.

    If you don't love yourself enough, then you won't know how to love another person, just like you always want your parents to be happy and have their own lives, and not interfere too much in your private life. The principle is the same, you have your own life before you can know how to live with another person for the rest of your life.

    When you do your own thing, he and she do his own thing, and it is very harmonious, not conflicting, appreciate each other's things, truly appreciate each other from the heart, and don't feel that what the other person does is something you despise. When the other person has troubles, you can really feel the same feeling from your heart, and want to think from his perspective and solve the problems. In the same way, if the other party can talk to you patiently when you have troubles, help you find a way, and help you solve your troubles, but you must not completely rely on the other party to help you solve the problem, the other party can patiently face the problem with you It is not easy to do so.

    In the end, you are an independent individual, do not be attached to anyone, and try to rely on others for progress.

    To love someone, you must not love in the right way you feel, but look at it from the position that the other person loves yourself, and in turn, how you love yourself, how you love each other. If you don't love yourself enough, then don't talk about how to love someone.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is pleasant, sad, intoxicated, emotional, brave, trusting, sincere, considerate, lovesick, nostalgic, sweet, alcoholic, sweet, intoxicated, happy, sacrificial, noble, dedicated, and responsible. What is Love? Love is when you think of this person, you will wish her happiness and peace, you will want to be with her forever, when you have to leave, what do you want to leave for her.

    Love is in the lonely night, thoughts come like a tide, holding a book in her hand but can't read it, thinking about whether she has dinner at this time, whether she thinks about herself as much as herself. Love is, on the weekend, use half a day to make a few good dishes by yourself, and watch her (her) eat them satisfactorily; It is to constantly refill her (her) coffee cup with hot water in the cold winter; Love is to see flowers, want to enjoy with her or her, love is to walk through the cliff and waterside, you will think with a little regret: if two people travel together, what a happy thing!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love, mainly depends on how you treat it, I think: plain love is true, when you fall in love with a person, don't care about the romance of love and a lot of love ways to stare at God, everyone has a different way of love, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because it is not done to protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, think that love will not last long!

    Love someone: trust each other, love someone to understand each other.

    Love someone: Be tolerant with a lot of heart.

    Love someone: Be open-minded.

    Love someone: Respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

    Love someone: Support him or her behind his or her back, not hinder him/her.

    Love someone: When he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm good and happy.

    Love someone: Hide the fragility and grievances in your heart, and don't let him (her) know.

    Love someone:...Too much love.

    Maybe it's hard, can't it be done? It's not that hard.

    The most important point is:

    Love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important thing!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Oh? Either do it or remove it, but the socks guess that it is love is a slap, I hope he and she are good, not a good attack, and get him, she Love is a person's thing, you love him, she has nothing to do with him, her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    To love someone is to be sincere to him, in fact, the heart is heart-to-heart. If he feels your sincerity, he will treat you like this. Is the thing mutual?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Just make the other person happy.

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