Growing up so big, what kind of hardships have you endured?

The hardest time was when I just started looking for something to do with my friends, and I found a good restaurant but I couldn't do it for a day, and then two people walked around for a few days and didn't dare to go home, so I bought a cool skin to eat a day, and looked for a place to see my friends at night** can sleep and take a bath, at that time, friends just came out to do things and lived in the collective dormitory, and it was not good to go to her to sleep every day, and I couldn't sleep so many people, at that time, I didn't come out alone, and I didn't want many places, The back friend also recruited people to go to work, the month after work was also so bitter, the boss carved 12 hours a day, did two months to give 800 yuan of wages, said that it was 1200 a month, the result was given 800, and then I didn't do it there, now think about it at that time was really hard, how did I persevere.

The biggest pain is that there is no one around you who can open your mouth to speak your mind. No time to remember, no longer to spend in torment. When you think about him, your heart hurts so much, and when you don't want to, a person seems to be quiet again, do you think it's so bitter?

Maybe for people who are accurate in terms of human feelings, this is just an account, but if you are not so good at expressing it, and you crave a little warmth, you don't dare to act rashly, and you don't dare to hang your head. Is it hard to be afraid? Is heartache bitter?

Is the abyss of the unknown counted? I don't know what suffering is, but it's always beckoning to me from a distance from me. He's giggling, but you're leaving.

Work hard, don't tell anyone, the construction site owes hundreds of thousands of dollars in the most difficult time, one of the two children has a car accident, and the other has a serious illness. The most unfortunate thing is that these three things happened in the same year, and no one helped you. But despite this, my husband and I never gave up and survived, this process has six years, and only those who have experienced it understand the taste of it, but it doesn't matter, the important thing is that we survived, and we are not afraid in the future.

In high school, in the winter of the Northeast, the stove in the dormitory broke, wash my hair with cold water, and then in order to dry my hair quickly, I ran outside to let my wet hair freeze into ice, and then combed the ice off with a comb, and it really dried quickly.

When I gave birth to my second child, I didn't finish the confinement, my mother-in-law went back to her hometown to break corn, and no one took care of the confinement child, so she cooked by herself, washed diapers by herself, and took care of her young children and elementary school sons independently.

The mother's family is financially rich, the mother-in-law's family is nervous, and the economy of the mother-in-law's family is more difficult after marriage.

The most impressive thing is that when I was 17 years old, I loaded the fence truck in the summer, and another worker and I loaded the rice in the fence car, and we didn't eat lunch for 6 hours. At that time, the monthly salary was 1,000 yuan, in Foshan.

Because there is no empathy in the world, even if you say it, others will not be able to understand it, and you will even transmit negative energy to the other party.

Because the older you get, the fewer friends you have, and you have to take responsibility for some things, and no one can help you.

Because I grew up to understand the pressure and hardships of society, but when I told my parents, I didn't want them to worry too much, just reported good news and not bad news. In addition, I have become stronger and stronger as I grow up, so I don't want people to know that I am vulnerable.

We will all experience difficult days, including the moment will also feel particularly uncomfortable, in the day may not be arranged well, resulting in their own thinking that the days are not satisfactory, this similar feeling we will experience all the time, but looking back, we will find that the only one who really solves the problem is ourselves, we have to thank ourselves, and we also have to believe that we can solve all this through our own efforts.

01 Don't give up, the hard days are really uncomfortable, the physical devastation If you have sports experience, friends will know that there will be a critical point in the running process, that point is really very uncomfortable, and in the psychological torment, what I want most is to give up, don't think too much about giving up, and don't have to be so uncomfortable, but we should think that we will gain more if we stick to it.

02 turn setbacks into their own driving force, it is precisely because of setbacks that we know the importance of cherishing ability, through continuous struggle, so that our experience is richer, we will become stronger, this society will never be easy to get, to see setbacks as our stepping stones, through setbacks we will become better.

03 Don't casually confide in others about your suffering, there will never be anyone in this world who can always be relied on, if you have a strong enough ability now, then quickly let yourself solve problems independently, if not, then quickly make yourself strong, and when you are really powerless in the future, the helplessness at that time is probably the most powerless.

04 Arrange your life and work well, the days of suffering will always pass, we arrange our lives well, and change little by little through continuous actions, then one day we can harvest a better life, because we firmly believe that our future self will be better, and all of this is our own slow growth, and we will eventually thank our past self.

05 Hurry up and take action to make yourself stronger, the world ultimately relies on yourself, your own strength is the real ability, if you want to rely on anything in the future, it will always be just yourself, how tormented you are now, it is caused by our past self, hurry up and make yourself stronger, in order to better meet the future.

Hehe, don't think about how to get through! If you want to think about your own strengths, you can see if your muscles have increased and your physical fitness has risen again every day! Learn something and meet some people by the way! Wait for the salary to be paid, and relax yourself!

A person has to go through some tough times.

Pain makes you precocious, and suffering makes you strong.

Loneliness makes you self-reliant, and experience makes you gentle.

All the things that overwhelm you have taught you the way to survive in life, the more people who have experienced difficulties, the more they understand the preciousness of kindness, the more people who have experienced lonely and difficult days, the more they know how to cherish the preciousness of the people around them.

Each of us may experience some things in our lives to some extent, and when some things happen to others, you may think, if it were on me, I would definitely not be able to stand it. But one day when it really happened to you, you still learned to accept it.

To grow up is to accept, to accept that life is no longer comfortable, to accept the fact that not everything can go according to one's wishes, to accept sudden changes, and to accept the worries and loneliness that are getting heavier day by day.

When you accept this, you will be stronger, and you will be able to deal with anything calmly and without panic.

All the difficult days are just a gritted tooth of persistence, and whoever persists to the end will win.

Like a wasted person, I don't brush my teeth, I don't wash my face, I cry every day, I really scrapped it completely, and then I suddenly figured it out, thought of my son, and then went crazy and started working, just to let the people I love not suffer.

With his parents and family in his heart, he got through it with a grit of his teeth, although it was very painful.

I'm going through the most difficult days now, how to get through it quickly, others think I'm delicate, only I know what kind of mental journey this is, it's enough to die a few times.

The hardest day is after the start of school... The school is about to meet the college entrance examination and sever the relationship with electronics, EMMM should be used to it, and there is nothing bitter?

There is no unbearable suffering, only unattainable blessings.

I thought to myself: perseverance is hope.

I just got through it, don't ask me why, it's just that I still have to get by.

It's not the most bitter, it's just a relatively rare timeWhen I just graduated and came out to look for a job, I had no goals, no ideas, I took one step at a time, I was pushed one step at a time, I interviewed three or four companies a day, and each family said that they would reply to me, but there was no reply.

At that time, not only did I have to keep submitting my resume, I was restless in my heart, I had to say that it was very good when I talked to my relatives, and I had a good interview recently, sometimes I only had one interview a day, and after the interview, I would keep riding the subway back and forth, looking at other people's schedules, playing with my mobile phone, and not wanting to talk.

Later, after finding a job, I was dealing with a group of cute children, but I finally lost the job due to my personal reasons, and I couldn't hold back crying after leaving the company, and my parents hit **Mom was in a hurry, according to her later said that she was distressed and anxious, but there was no way, I could only play with my relatives** hoping to persuade me, and I couldn't find a place to vent at that time, so I sat on the bus and looked back and forth at the scenery. The driver's uncle didn't ask me for it, maybe it looked really bad at the time.

So I lost my first job, I kept looking for a job in this endless loop, was rejected, looked for a job again, went to a lot of places in the city, watched others in and out of high-rise buildings sitting in the office, was undoubtedly very envious, and then slowly doubted myself, until one day after interviewing a company that was more than two hours away from where I lived, I mustered up the courage to give the last interview company a ** inquiry result, and it just so happened that the person they interviewed did not go, and I just returned at this time ** So I was chosen, and you see, luck is still slowly turning.

Then I started customer service, from nine o'clock in the morning to six o'clock in the morning, from six o'clock in the evening to one o'clock in the morning, I stayed up and stayed up as an after-sales service, and I became an assistant after dealing with it, and I got a new job, and now I am also an office worker with two days off, I am really glad that I still boiled it at that time, otherwise it is estimated that I am still in my hometown with a salary of more than 2,000 yuan, doing a four-day shift a month, and I am afraid of the big city and the future.

It is recommended to give yourself more space to relax, don't suppress yourself, sleep when you're tired, cry when you're bitter, it's no big deal, just do it again, what's it, the world is so big, you can always live.

I used to carry it myself, but now I have my other half to help me.

When it's time to bring children! There are some things that no one can help with, and you can survive with the baby's smile.

When I first got married, I didn't have much money, but I spent a lot of money, and the two of us would pass with one heart.

The main thing is not to give up hope, otherwise it will be over.

I get up at five o'clock in the morning every day, go to work until twelve o'clock, run takeout at noon until more than one and a half in the afternoon, go home and charge until four o'clock in the afternoon and continue to run until eight o'clock in the evening. In the evening, it is generally half an hour to eat and eat including the content conceived from **, and start to create after eating, usually until half past eleven in the evening, and then wash up and sleep. And so on and on, every day.

Although I sometimes feel wronged and uncomfortable, the debt is owed by Chi Feng, and I have nothing else except to do my best to earn money. <>

I only have to endure loneliness, emptiness and grievances, and one day I will stand up again.

The sooner a person experiences setbacks, the sooner they can understand the true meaning of life. When you have experienced strong winds and waves, you will no longer be afraid of the so-called small worries and troubles in your future life. Even if the several factions do not have bronze teeth and iron arms, and do not have armor**, they can rebuild the light from the dark.

The only thing you can do is to face it calmly, Nietzsche once said: "A person who knows what he lives for can endure any kind of life". Life is not self-contained, and there are many opportunities for you to step out of this limitation and achieve another way of life.

Although the process was lonely, as long as we survived and returned to Bifan, we were able to grow. <>

When you are at your lowest and most helpless, remember to give yourself a chance to get out of the land, even if everyone is against you, you are still yourself. You're so bad, how bad can you go? It's all good to be the worst, come on, give yourself one more chance, you will be the best one, because only people with dreams will realize that they are not good, and people without dreams will not care whether they are good or bad, they should eat, sleep, sleep and sell.

You can realize that you are still good now, and you have to believe that you are definitely about to turn over.

The most difficult time is to see the darkness, but often the darkest time can stimulate people's potential, only then do you really know how capable you really are, after this period you will be surprised that you are so powerful. Never make a decision when you are impulsive, this is the second sentence I want to say, really, the decision made when the most impulsive is high, although it may be the most correct at that time, but I often regret it later, I also tried to stand on the top of the seventeenth floor, but when I really got to the side, I didn't have the courage, thinking back to what I had experienced in life, what would have come to this, my life was still so long.