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Once you've thought it through, decide for yourself! But your family is for your good, you have to understand that.
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The starting point of your parents is to let you have a good future, the key is here, work is dead, but people are alive, courses are dead, but the brain is alive. You can take some time to learn what you like, share some experience to search for a job you like, and when you accumulate to a certain extent, I believe that the new job you are looking for will be better than the current one, and then your family will not be able to oppose it too strongly. But there will definitely be opposition to you changing jobs, because postal work is not sustainable, and it is the most optimistic position of the fathers, and then you have to find something realistic to explain how much you will lose if you don't move.
For example, (FYI), you can have a good talk about the partner, and after both families have accepted it, the reason is that the woman requires that she be self-reliant and have a certain financial strength (this is not an exaggeration).
It may take a little longer, but it's better than sitting back and taking the path in front of you seriously, and you will always find that way out.
I wish you always a happy !!
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When I was impatient, sometimes we were all faced with no choice. In fact, I regard this job as an experience in my life, or as a social experience. When you really have the ability, you can choose other jobs. Come on.
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Don't be stupid, you can do it if you have a job. Let me tell you, my dream since I was a child is to be a people's teacher, and I have not changed this original intention until now, but the cruel reality has been obtained from more than 20 years of hard work. What's more, there is an economic crisis this year, and the coming year will be even more severe than this year's employment.
Since you are working, use the money from your job to learn what you like, but don't quit your job. I don't have a job now, and I feel like I'm about to have something wrong with it, even KFC McDonald's refuses to ask me, but I am also a graduate of a normal university directly under the Ministry of Education. From my personal experience, I tell you that contentment is always happy.
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I hate repetitive work very much.
1. Calm down and accept the status quo from the level of subjective consciousness.
Simply talking about repetitive work, because of its "Zen nature", determines that it is bound to be boring and tasteless.
In this case, the first thing we need to do is to try to make our hearts accept this reality calmly, calm our minds from the level of subjective consciousness, and slowly accept it.
So how to do it? I think it can be achieved in 3 ways:
a) Find out the cause and make adjustments to the cause.
Find out the reasons why you think simple and repetitive work is "disgusting" and "annoying", and make adaptive changes to these reasons.
For example, your job is to pick up ** every day, and in this process, you don't like to hear the voice of others complaining, so you try to put the ** earpiece farther away so that the voice of complaint is farther away from you.
b) Transform your interests into your own pleasure.
Confucius said: "Those who know are not as good as those who are good, and those who are good are not as good as those who are happy." ”
Interest refers to people's special cognitive tendencies towards things.
If we regularly do what we love, we will naturally feel a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction.
However, if you have a very boring job, learn to convert your interests.
I suggest that you can start from the three aspects of work responsibility, information communication, and work methods, and "play" the boring work out of your own rhythm.
Determine the division of work responsibilities, do what you should do well, and try not to meddle in solving the things you shouldn't do;
Reasonable ditch He Xianzhoutong, and their upstream and downstream colleagues, do a good job of receiving information and feedback, so that they have the energy to think about the fun of work;
Change the way of working, achieve a combination of work and rest, so that you can have a "sense of gain" from your work, rather than a "sense of loss".
c) Divert your attention, empty your brain, and think more about "sunny" things.
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First of all, I want to admit that I often get stuck in the trouble of still working after work. Sometimes, the pressure of work and the accumulation of tasks make it difficult for me to relax, and even when I get home from work, my mind is still full of work. This prevents me from really enjoying my own rest and family time.
In order to solve this problem, I tried a few methods in the hope of effectively cutting the boundary between work and rest. First of all, I set a clear end time and strictly followed it. No matter how the work progresses, as soon as it's time to leave work, I stop working and separate the work scene from the home environment.
Doing so helps me tell myself that it's my time off and that I need to relax and recharge. He Sheng replied.
Second, I realized that I needed to give myself a buffer time to transition from work mode to relaxation mode. In the last few minutes before work, I do some simple physical activities like walking, doing yoga, or taking deep breaths. This helps me release work stress, relax and get into a better state of rest.
In addition, I have found that communicating with family, friends, or partners is also an effective way. Sometimes, we get too focused on work issues and ignore the people around us and the environment around us. Communicating with family or friends and sharing each other's experiences and feelings can help me take a break from my work and pay attention to the people and things around me.
Not only does this kind of communication create a pleasant atmosphere, but it also reminds me of important things and values outside of work.
In addition, in order to completely cut off the work status, I try to avoid continuing to work after work. This means that I try to avoid checking or replying to work emails and getting involved in work discussions or solving problems. Instead, I'll look for some relaxing and enjoyable activities to fill my after-work hours.
This could be watching a movie, reading a book, catching up on a drama, doing chores, or doing some hobby that you enjoy. Doing so allows me to focus on my hobbies, free my mind from work, and gradually enter a state of relaxation and rest.
Finally, I realized that self-management is the key to solving the problem of being still at work after hours. I need to learn to organize my time wisely and give myself plenty of time for rest and recreation. At the same time, learn to let go of work matters, believe in your own abilities, and have time to deal with them tomorrow.
Work is important, but we also need to make room for our physical and mental health and family life.
Overall, solving the problem of still being at work after work requires us to recognize the boundaries between work and rest and take some steps to cut off the work state. This includes setting clear off-hours, transitioning activities, communicating with others, avoiding work-related matters, and finding activities that are relaxing and enjoyable. At the same time, good work habits, relaxation techniques, and self-management are also key to helping us achieve work-life balance.
Let's try to balance work and life, and enjoy our own rest and happy time.
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Don't think too much, everything has its own ending! No one can change it!
It may be that the ever-accelerating pace of work or life has brought you great mental pressure, feeling psychological troubles, and need to be adjusted.
Adjust the time of work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, take a break often, relax the tense nerves, and you will forget your worries.
How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?
Stress relief: Roar loudly when you get home.
minutes to vent the resentment in the heart; Then sit on the sofa and listen quietly to the light**.
minutes, and you'll feel much more comfortable after that. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved. Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy.
You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.
You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure. Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly.
You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in people from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.
Have a good mood!
Be happy
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Friend. Hello.
Invisible troubles are brought about by life and society.
It's like you're seeing something.
There are annoyances when you think of anything.
The solution to this problem is to enrich yourself happily every day.
And every day you have to keep doing things to accomplish yourself.
This solves the troubles of your life in the first place.
And the troubles in society should often participate in meaningful activities to mark reputations.
Make yourself feel like you're not alone.
Let this society accept itself.
And help everyone around you to live like this.
You also have to set your dreams and goals from time to time.
Build your career and studies.
Find a little more interesting things and objects.
Regulates your own sensitive nerves and your own brain.
There should also be enough time to rest.
Do some exercises that make sense of the brain.
Change your perspective on the world.
Treat the right outlook on life.
Social outlook. Worldview.
Here's wishing you a happy day.
Be happy every day.
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