What is it like to mature too early?

Pampered and not surprised. Don't be complacent because of one or two good words from others, and don't worry or doubt because of one or two bad words from others. Be able to understand and face reality with a good attitude, always know your level and ability, know what you need, and what you can get.

Children from poor families, looking at their parents' daily hard work, also heard their parents say that their family's economic conditions are not good, and they experience the pressure of adults early, and also reduce some pressure for the family burden as early as possible.

Stable mentality. This is the basis for whether a person is psychologically mature or not. To achieve a stable state of mind, it is not actually about how much money you can make, but about facing things and having your own views and ways to deal with them.

I know that it is up to people to do things, and I know that sometimes it's just a matter of doing my best. Able to accurately see and understand changes in the outside world, and know how to deal with them. Don't compare with others, only with yourself.

When encountering any problem, he can analyze it comprehensively and thoroughly, his emotions do not fluctuate too much, he can immediately think of a variety of solutions, and he can deduce in his head what kind of results will be achieved with different methods.

I have an older brother who is three years older than me, and he is the kind of person who matures very early. When I was bullied again, the other party not only did not apologize, but also said that it was me who did it first. At this time, my brother will reason with the other party's parents, and he will talk to the truth, which is very reasonable, and finally let the other party's child apologize to me.

There is a difference between inside and outside. Whether it is work, family or social interaction, you can grasp a degree of difference between inside and outside. Know the relationship between the three and deal with it better.

At work, I can cope with it relatively well. In the family, they can take their due responsibilities and do their part well. In social interactions, there is a relatively stable circle of oneself, and the circle level corresponds to one's own economic status and social level.

Love and hate. The distinction here does not mean to show it directly, but to have its own critical standards in mind. You can be without arrogance, but you must be arrogant.

Know how to "repay grievances with virtue, how to repay virtue", and be able to know how to apply it at a critical time, so that you can be less hurt and protect yourself.

It will make people feel that this person is not like his peers, he will be very thoughtful in everything he does, and he will always be able to complete his own things before you. It's enviable.

There is such a person in the company, every time he has a meeting, he can always quickly know the meaning of what the boss says, and he can always explain the mystery of the boss's words in one sentence. The boss can be a person who has been in business for a long time, and he is just a college student who has just graduated. He matured psychologically too early, which is really enviable.

The goal is clear. A person should know what his strengths are, how he should develop next, what kind of person he should become, what role he should play for his family, parents, relatives and friends, and what he should do. Follow your goals and do your own thing every day.

It's okay if you mature too early, and your mind can't keep up.

There is no obstacle that people cannot overcome.

The most important thing is the environment. A friend of mine is the same, because she has lived with her grandmother since she was a child, and she has to do a lot of things by herself, so she has developed a very independent and responsible person, often like this, which makes her not very good at getting along with people, and such a person will be much more mature among the same age.

I think it's innate. But it is also possible that my brother was "independent" too early as a child.

IQ, EQ, life experience, self-cultivation.

It may be her character, or it may be about her physical appearance and psychological precociousness.

Child psychologists believe that precocious puberty in children can be divided into three types:

The first is the familiar physiological precocious puberty, that is, physiological development is faster than that of ordinary children, and secondary sexual characteristics appear earlier. For such children, first of all, we should consciously control the nutritional intake, pay attention to the balance and rationality of the dietary structure, and secondly, we should also care about their psychological development, carry out puberty knowledge education in a timely manner, and eliminate their nervousness caused by precocious physical puberty.

The second type is precocious intelligence, that is, "gifted" children who exhibit intelligence levels beyond normal children very early. Such children tend to exhibit special abilities in one area that surpass those of other children of the same age. The focus of this kind of child's education is to educate and cultivate according to his ability, characteristics and interests, rather than blindly asking the child to be better and better, and putting too much pressure on the child, which will erase his interest and is not conducive to the further development of intelligence.

The third type is social precociousness. Such children are more mature in terms of social or social skills, but more naïve in other areas. Some children have always been "small cadres" in school, with strong work ability, but they cannot do even the simplest housework in the family, and their self-care ability is poor.

Don't force anything, mature people will have these performances.

Either very stable or very independent. The eyes are very calm and not panicked.

No, then you will feel the stress of life too soon. It's not good for your future growth! Your mind will think of something that is useless, and it won't help you academically! In short, it's better not to be too precocious!

Relative. There are good and bad!

If you are sensible early and help the family share the burden, then of course it is good.

I'm just precocious, but what's not to like, it's better to understand the world better, and increase my experience. Hehe!

Don't take the opposite sex seriously, is this maturity? You wouldn't say that if you really know the importance of home.