How the gap between people and people is widened

Everyone should compare themselves with themselves, choose their own best path, and strive to be better than their previous selves. Other people's experiences are worth learning from, but you have to follow your own path. Just like the success of a country, it must be based on national conditions, rather than blindly copying foreign models.

The United States has the advantages of the United States, Russia has the specific conditions of Russia, and China has China's national conditions. Only by basing ourselves on ourselves, giving full play to our own advantages, and learning from advanced experience, can we achieve real strength.

Power, control all the relationships around you, it's hard for you not to pull away!

Time, that's a critical issue!

Time can dilute all ......

Time deepens all ......

The main thing is that the poor, the rich, the rich, the poor look down on the poor, the poor, and the confidence is gone.

Whether you have ideals, dreams, or aspirations. Differences in character and personality. The size of the concentration.

The people you come into contact with, the environment in which you live, and the knowledge you absorb are all different.

The distance between money, consumption concept, circle of friends, and heart is the most difficult to control.

The gap between people is the level of education, and the degree to which changes in social forms require each individual.

The gap between people and people is that there will be different gaps in different ideological values, which leads to a distance, and different words and deeds will be different.

Individual opportunities are different. Originally, everyone is on the same level, but when someone encounters a leader who can promote him, has resources, and power, he will quickly rise up and leave you far behind. There is also an opportunity, which is a new opportunity created through one's own efforts, learning, and communication.

The difference in making friends. After graduating from university, we will meet different people, and at the same time, it will bring different developments. The so-called "read 10,000 books and make friends all over the world".

"Making friends in the world" allows you to judge your level by the level of your friends. It has been said that the average ability of your five closest friends is your ability. Therefore, when we associate with more capable people, our abilities will naturally improve faster than other students.

Especially when there are people with friends who are rich in social resources, network resources, and entrepreneurial resources, if you follow them to do things, your improvement speed will be faster. Therefore, the difference in making friends will also be the direct reason for us to widen the gap with other classmates after graduating from university.

When I was in school, no matter what kind of family I came from, most of my classmates still lived in the same dormitory, ate the same cafeteria dishes, and wore uniform uniforms. Although some students may have more living expenses and more elaborate material details, these "differences" are mostly masked by the "same". We thought that the gap between families was limited to this, but after graduation, we found that some families can easily arrange a good job for their children, some families can provide their children with overseas education to continue their studies, some families can give their children the resources to start their careers, some families can give advice to their children, some families can only ensure that their children do not go to work for a while and have a bite to eat, and some families urgently need their children to earn money immediately.

The first time the gap widened was when I entered elementary school, then I took the college entrance examination, and then I graduated from university.

A person has the courage to work hard, loves to learn, and keeps pace with the times. The other person is not enterprising and idle, and the gap naturally arises.

The words of a high school teacher still remember that any choice you make is more important than the effort you put in. The liberal arts and sciences in high school is the most important thing in our entire high school life, a student spends most of his time studying science but his science grades have always been mediocre, and the relatively unvalued liberal arts has excellent grades despite his or her efforts are less.

How do you choose between a science major that you like and a liberal arts major that you are good at? Do you believe that you will eventually get into your dream university with hard work, or do you choose a liberal arts program that you have the energy to be better at? Either option is correct, but there are two different outcomes.

Therefore, the right choice may help you avoid many detours and reach the other side earlier.

The gap between people and people lies in the gap in thinking, thinking determines thinking, and thinking determines the ability to solve problems.

The gap between people and people is opened up when others are working hard and you are still playing the game.

The distance is drawn by the surrounding environment and the character of each person.

In my opinion, personal habits often reflect personal character, and character determines fate. A and B are in the same company, A is used to going to the work unit early every day to clean up the work desk, arrange and sort out the tasks that need to be completed that day, and make a summary after the work; B gets stuck at work every day, has no idea or logic about the tasks he needs to complete, thinks of where to do it, and has no habit of summarizing and reflecting after a job is over. Over time, there will be a gap between the two people, and A will become more and more handy in the job, and the promotion is also expected.

Insight contains all the accumulated knowledge, experience, thinking, etc. in the process of a person's growth, and finally forms a person's pattern. The accumulation of all the early stage determines the future direction of the individual in the later stage. The gap between people is not easy to see in the short term, but over time, those who have these traits will slowly distance themselves from those who do not.

Therefore, the easiest and most effective way is to be good at learning the strengths and strengths of the people around you and shorten the gap.

The job position is different. For example, some students are employed in private companies, some students are employed in state-owned enterprises, some students are employed in research institutes, and some students stay at universities to become teachers. The requirements of each job are different, and if one job position challenges our abilities, then we will improve faster than other students.

The gap between people and people lies in the pursuit of life, the desire for dreams, everyone's heart is different, it causes the gap after growing up, in this society, the standard of living, spiritual pursuit, wealth is more or less a measure of the gap between people, so at the material and spiritual levels, people's pursuit is not the same, and the gap is not the same, so we continue to strive to move forward at the same time, do not be arrogant, the gap is for others to catch up, not to show off?

Everyone's starting point is different, there is a gap at birth, so we can't complain about the size of the gap, this world is very fair, people who work hard generally don't have bad results, we go forward to narrow the gap between people, and how many people are willing to admit this gap, so we just keep our hearts and move forward bravely is the best pursuit of life.

In school, the quality of grades distinguishes the gap between people, but this superficial gap can really determine whether a person is excellent or not, I don't think so, I think he should be more manifested in spiritual pursuit, and for the reality of life, this is only a short-term gap, a meaningless gap.

While we admit the gap, we pursue a high-quality life taste, unremittingly pursue the realization of our dreams, don't greet our friends this year, don't go too fast so that there is no one behind us, we will sigh, what our gap makes us lose and gain.

In the process of walking, the gap between people will become more and more prominent, and this gap should not blindly pursue the material level, the gap is due to the different nature of people's hearts, the pursuit of different, 365 lines, good out of the champion, we only do our best!

First of all, the starting point between people is different, and secondly, there is no gap between people and people's innate qualities, and there is a difference in the degree of effort of each person, which determines that the gap between people will become bigger and bigger.

<> "People! How exactly are people disconnected? After reading these three points, you will know.

Of course, it is not excluded that there are a few outliers who have awakened early.

Some people are still with their classmates every day, and they go out to play after work.

But some people have learned to integrate into the work, and go to help the master who leads him to do more things.

Slowly integrated into the circle of work.

Slowly, accumulate experience and accumulate value.

will gradually soar to a bigger opportunity, however.

What are others doing?

2. Time allocation.

When someone has a small success, they feel that life should be rich and warm and rich, find a girlfriend, talk about a sweet love, separate work and life time, I can handle it.

Friend! During your high-speed growth period, even the time to sleep is wasted!

At this time, I actually went to talk about a sweet love, to distract my energy, distract my attention, and distract my time.

Then there was a quarrel in the process of falling in love, and he said to the boss:

Boss, I'm sorry, because I fell in love recently, I encountered something, and my state was not very good"

Since then, the boss has felt that you have poor work toughness and ability.

The result was a skyrocketing affair, and you hit the brakes yourself and spilled oil halfway through, causing you to travel slower.

My friend, please always remember one thing.

You're not the only smart person, and you're not the only smart person working hard.

Everyone is rushing in the same direction with different resources! Your competitors are not at all close to your company!

It's that in this industry, you don't know which corner might kill this person!

At this time, the only way to stay in shape and rush at full speed!

This is the opportunity to become the leader of the industry at this stage, as ordinary people.

There is a slight chance to break this fixed class.

Three: Breaking the circle mentality.

What is Circle Breaking?

In short, it is to take the resources of your own circle.

I went to make friends with the big guys who might have a relationship with me in the future, shared resources with each other, and saw if we could make a new combination.

Don't stay in your own circle all the time!

Although it is comfortable and comfortable, it can make people die slowly!

Times are changing really fast.

Breaking the circle of learning is the opportunity to always keep yourself active on the battlefield.

Because you are waging war, not dealing with war, your sense of security and your ability to learn are completely different from the starting point.

You are not passively beaten and rebelled, you have your advantages, and then combine the advantages of others in the circle.

In designing something new to make it more effective to solve the problem and the gap between people, this is how it opens.

Perception of oneself. There are many people who think that they will definitely become a successful person, and they will keep moving towards their goals, and such people are easy to succeed. Some people think that they are ordinary people, and they feel very happy when they live an ordinary life every day, and such people are destined to be ordinary.

The fantasy of one's own future will widen the gap between the two people. Each of us had a so-called dream when we were young, and our dream may be to be a scientist, a police officer, or a teacher, and at that time we were full of fantasies about the future. But as we continue to grow older, some people's dreams become smaller and smaller, we become afraid to fantasize about our future, many people forget their dreams, the only dream is to make money.

After we lose our dreams, we have no goal in life, we are like a shell, repeating our daily days, earning enough money for our lives, every day is boring, often these people who have no dreams, life is very ordinary.

There are also some people who have not forgotten their dreams. There are still some people who have not been defeated after growing up, and have been fighting for their dreams, such a life is very exciting, maybe their dreams have not been realized in the end, but at least they have been wonderful in this process, at least they have no regrets after they are old and reminiscing. These people who have struggled for their dreams have a lot of experience.

Each of us will give ourselves a position in our hearts, which directly determines what kind of people we will become in the future, and our lives will continue to change with this positioning. I always thought in my heart that I would be a boss, so I have been working hard, trying to learn all kinds of knowledge, trying to make money and succeed as soon as possible. I have a friend who thinks that he is an ordinary person, so he sits at a very ordinary job, and he knows how to play in his spare time, he thinks that this kind of life is very suitable for him, and he does not need to struggle, so what is his perception of himself directly determines who we will be in the future.

What kind of pattern you are, what kind of choices you will make, and your level is determined by your pattern.

Probably it's still a matter of trust, many people are now less and less trusting others, especially, in the era when everyone is chasing profits, many people have a lack of feelings, and there are too many ** in this era, the so-called rat feces destroy a pot of soup.