Do you think people are getting cold blooded as they grow up, and why?

I don't think it's that people become cold-blooded as they grow up, but that when they become mature, they will know that they have come into this world as a person.

I think he must be more and more cold-blooded as he grows up, because the more things he has experienced and the more things he has seen, he must be more and more mature and cold-blooded.

I don't think people are necessarily cold-blooded as they grow up, and some children are born very cold-blooded and don't care about other people's feelings.

I think it's true that people get colder and colder as they grow older, because it's also a very normal thing, and we become more worldly as we get older.

Yes, the more I grow up, the more cold-blooded I become, and the more I want to grow up, the more I feel that society is too realistic, and I have experienced a lot of things, which has caused people to be cold-blooded now.

It's not because people get cold-blooded as they grow up, but because you have to be cold-blooded as you get older in this society.

I think people do grow up and become cold-blooded, because when they grow up, they will be very indifferent to the world.

I think so, I feel like that's what I am, because the older I get, the less I like to be around other people.

In fact, there is a bit of a partial generalization, some people will become more lively and cheerful when they grow up.

I think people are getting colder and colder as they grow up, because they make the right judgment about this cold society.

It must be because of the fact that there are more and more things that come into contact with it, so there will be such a big change.

Yes, if you hit a wall too much, the wall will grow in your heart. Is it really just a relationship of interest between people? Allow me to ask politely, I just don't think it's that simple.

Yes, the older you get, the more you know, the more responsibility you have, in order to protect your own interests.

1. Social factors

1) Accelerating economic growth, improving quality of life, and rapid development of the Internet have inevitably led to some criticisms, such as people's indifference and ruthlessness. In the current stage of rapid progress, each of us is striving to pursue our own ideals, and it seems that we are too busy to stop and enjoy the present slowly and love ourselves. Not to mention freeing up extra mood and energy to care about others and strangers.

2) In today's materialistic world, some people with ill intentions and evil intentions will illegally obtain their own benefits. For example, with the rapid development of the Internet, many people have seized and made good use of this tool, but there are also some malicious people who have also discovered this "business opportunity", so there have been endless telecom frauds, malicious praise, spreading rumors on the Internet, and so on. And the harm caused by this kind of stranger will continue to defeat the goodwill of passers-by, making people wary of strangers.

2. Family and living environment factors

Many people's character development has a lot to do with their family and living environment. Nowadays, the relationship between parents and children in many families is becoming more and more rigid, and parents push their children too hard, creating a lot of pressure on children, resulting in many children not wanting to communicate with their parents, having a lot of psychological problems, and not wanting to interact with others outside, and even due to the increase in divorce rate, domestic violence, fathers and brothers, etc., children's mental health problems are worse. Home is still a relatively warm harbor, but society is full of dangers.

It can only be like this at home, and how good can it be in society?

3. Cultural factors

Cultural invasion is a fact, and so is cultural oblivion. The influence of our traditional culture is constantly weakening, and our ideological concepts are constantly updated. In the past, people attached great importance to filial piety and affection, but now these have begun to fade away, and more and more negative cases have been seen on the Internet and in reality, children beat their parents, brothers turn against each other for property, neighbors no longer communicate, and others will not stand up when they are in danger.

Most of the time, our blood is warm and our hearts are warm. However, there are moments when we are forced and have to learn to be indifferent.

We are now living in a society that is becoming more and more indifferent, and when we see people going to help the elderly who fall down on the road, some people block vehicles for the disabled crossing the road, some people go to volunteer, and some people help sanitation workers pick up drink bottles, they will praise these people for being really good, with good education and character. This phenomenon reflects the indifference and selfishness of this society, which makes these insignificant behaviors get a lot of praise.

Why are people becoming more and more apathetic? Because in the original life, the doctor who saved the life was not recognized, but was injured by the patient's family; Not only do you not get rewarded for sponsoring poor students, but you also make those children think that what you are doing is to show your kindness, etc. The occurrence of these "role model" incidents has made those who were originally enthusiastic no longer dare to release their good deeds indiscriminately.

In this world, kind people are still kind people, and there are still a lot, but this society is full of survival competition, deception, trickery, treachery, and so on The dark things we say, so in order not to be hurt by these dark things, good people are like computers Open the firewall to prevent harm, that is, they become less enthusiastic and kind, but like I said, kind people are still kind, they will open another program antivirus software, that is, after learning bad things to understand, Prevent these bad things from destroying their personality, so as to get rid of them with antivirus software, and at the same time, it does not mean that they have no empathy, but they are afraid of being hurt in real life, so they are closed.

If (if), the news reports that there is a child who needs to donate blood and the medical expenses are insufficient, and he hopes that the kind people in the society will help him, then the next day of the news report, there will be a lot of kind people donating blood and money, of course, the premise is that the news report is true, including Wenchuan, which we all know, kind people donate money under the call of **, hehe, in fact, I also donate 1000 yuan, and then you will find that in just a few days, the number of money will skyrocket faster than **, This means that there are a lot of good people, but they have turned on various firewalls and anti-virus software to protect themselves, and in this way, over time, people have evolved to the situation you see now, so you have to protect yourself, and remember that good people are still kind, and there are many good people, but unfortunately the bad morals and other things in society make them afraid, so they have turned on the self-protection system.

With regard to the phenomenon of increasing apathy, we cannot evaluate these behaviors from a single perspective of knowledge and recognition.

A person becomes more and more cold-blooded, mostly related to what they have experienced and the environment they are in. Survival is about the jungle, and the fewer flaws and weaknesses that are exposed, the safer it is. Most celebrities are afraid of stains because they want others to see themselves as more perfect, and society is preferential and kind to a perfect person.

Cold-bloodedness is regardless of feelings, and feelings are sometimes a person's weakness and a kind of bond. The more you go through it, the more you will find that it is rational to judge a thing, and emotion will only affect your so-called success. There is a saying that if you have no desire, you are strong, to be realistic, cold-blooded is like a protective shell.

When you find that treating people with courtesy is often exchanged for all kinds of suppression, when you find that simple kindness is often exchanged for all kinds of humiliation, when you are approachable but in exchange for all kinds of ignorance, when you find that helpfulness is exchanged for all kinds of deception, people will no longer trust others so much, and they will begin to be cautious in their lives and things, no longer as used to please anyone, and become cold-blooded and ruthless, this cold-blooded ruthlessness is not to hurt anyone, but to be able to live and not find too much trouble for yourself.

So being apathetic is actually a form of self-preservation. I used to hear old people say don't always help others, I didn't understand before, but now I know that some people rely on you more and more when they help, and it's your fault if you don't help one day. There is also the problem of no one to help the old man when he falls, is no one willing to help him?

It's because of everyone's judgment in their hearts, the cost of lifting you up and sending you to the hospital is greater than the cost of doing it. Everyone is afraid of being wronged, the old man is hospitalized, and his children may mistakenly think that I hit me and make me lose money, and there may be no one to testify for me, and even the law may not be on my side, so why should I bother to bother? But in fact, then again, how can there be so many bad people, you can still believe that there are more good people than bad people in the world.

In fact, people are not indifferent, at least there are not many indifferent people around me, most of them are still full of positive energy to love life and create life.

It's a person, and it's all going to changeThere are reasons why people change and why they become "cold-blooded".

When enthusiastic people become indifferent, it is because their hearts are cold; When a sincere person becomes ruthless, it is because his heart is broken; When kind people become less warm-hearted, it is because their good intentions have been let down. Don't easily accuse someone of a change, because we don't know what they have been through and what has happened to them.

Obviously, with the better and better living conditions of society now, people have got rid of the original suffering days, but sometimes we will find thatIt's not often that we see people who are as simple and honest and hospitable as the people of the past。Why? In general, the economic conditions are good, and in the past, most people's living standards are very low, just to eat a bite of food, there is no time to think of other crooked ideas, and people are full of warmth.

And now, there are all kinds of chilling phenomena. Considering their own interests, they do not hesitate to slander and insult othersDeception, isolation, bullyingAnd so on such bad words appear more and more frequently in the eyes of the public, the reality is like this, there are still many sinister in society,Trust cannot be easily established between people, and the warmth in the world is becoming less and less, and it is reasonable for more and more people to become "cold-blooded".

I can feel that I'm slowly getting into this trendThe original gentle and quiet, like to help others, and think about others in advance is being rubbed off by this world little by little

That's the case, at the beginning I was a person who would not refuse, even if I was wronged again, I didn't give me anything in return for doing this, and I would eventually agree to other people's requests, so there are often such voices"You can help me take a look at this" "You can help me bring me some food tomorrow" "I asked you for help, you also messed me up, what do you say!" ”Almost every day, there are things like this, and sometimes I really wonder if I'm really useless, I can't help them with a favor, and I can't do them ...... satisfaction

When I graduated and got rid of that group of people, I realized how stupid I was before, why I was always good to others, and forgot the most important self, so in the rest of my lifeI slowly learned to say no, not with a smile on everyone's face, I get it, I'm human too,If people are not wood and stone, how can they not feel it

So, when you find that kindness and simplicity are exchanged for all kinds of insults; When you find that helpfulness comes all kinds of deception; When you find that politeness in exchange for all kinds of repression,Then you change, you don't trust people anymore, you become cautious, you don't want to please anyone anymore, and then you start to become cold-blooded and ruthless

Your cold-bloodedness is not hurting anyone, your cold-bloodedness is just to be able to live better.