What do you think about couple breakups?

It's normal to be sad, because you love him, you have him in your heart, I think, there is a reason why she proposed to break up, you think from his point of view, what is it that makes him say to break up. I think he still loves you, he says he's sorry to you, he doesn't want you to get hurt, he cares about you. You should ask him to give you a reason, if there is any misunderstanding, solve it, the world is so big, two people meet, it is not easy to fall in love, this is fate, and it should be cherished.

He still loves you, apart, both of you will have heartache, so, let's be together and cherish this relationship.

These are the only solutions to all broken loves:

One is to get busy and divert attention. Work hard, work hard, you will forget for a while, and it will fade after a long time.

The second is to fall in love with another person, as long as the other person replaces her, your life will soon become nourishing again.

If you want to open a little, time will dilute everything.

I'm also out of love... The deepest feeling of falling out of love for me is... Obviously I'm very hungry and I just can't eat... But now it's been a few years... She's married... I have a child·· But we're still in touch... Even sometimes heart-to-heart... But I rarely talk about the topic of inscription... It'll be fine after a while... It's almost half a month·· Or go to a friend's for a few days (the main purpose is not to see each other recently).

The road is straight, and you have to look ahead.

In real life, we will all find that the couples around us, after breaking up, some can be friends again; Some will never see each other, and they will be well; Some are gritted teeth. And for after falling in love, each other can make progress and grow together, most of them are the positive results of cultivation, because they have experienced too much, so they are unforgettable, and they go to the end hand in hand. For myself, although the end of my relationship is that we are separated from each other and do not disturb each other, we still learn to let go of the code, and in the end no one complains about anyone.

Because we have all made changes for each other, and worked hard together to make progress, there are no regrets on the way, or if there are regrets, it may be that the two of them can't go to the end. I was ignorant at the time, but I was willing to get rid of my bad problems for the sake of my beloved, and I was more brave to face the problems that I had been avoiding in the past, to explore solutions, and to make my heart strong enough to share each other's responsibilities with him.

Relationship is to make positive changes for the person you love, be willing to take on some things for this relationship, and have enough faith in each other's future yearning and longing. Although it is the most important thing for people to live in the present, but emotionally, each other should look forward to or desire for the future of the two, if you don't even dare to think about it, or haven't considered it at all, this relationship needs to be cautious. Love itself is a nourishing agent, which often makes us know how to be stupid and learn to cherish the person in front of us, and we can also build the standard of what kind of image we admire in our hearts.

Everyone has their own standards for getting along with the concept of love, and there is no absolute right or wrong, good or bad. But always keep in mind that falling in love is the process of mutual progress that should be observed together. This kind of emotional relationship is the longest relationship, and if you haven't experienced wind and rain, how can you know the preciousness of the rainbow.

It is said that love is beautiful, but the reality is often cruel, and many people end up breaking up for various reasons after falling in love. The sweetness of being in love is good, but many people don't cherish it. In fact, a relationship is like a long-distance run, there is no end, as long as two people can persevere, they can reach the end.

When two people come together, they can't have an ending that both parties are happy with like love, and the relationship will always become difficult to end. At the time of the breakup, some details can be seen. When you find out about these situations, it means that he is leaving you.

1.Begin to be indifferent to you.

In love, a woman always wants to prove her love, she will see the other person as the whole world, and she does not want either of her to leave her. When there is a problem in your relationship, the woman will be cold and ruthless to you and treat you like an enemy. A man who is indifferent to you will not really love you either.

When two people are just in love, both people will have a good attitude towards each other. When a person is about to leave you, he will become very cold to you and do not want to talk to you at all.

2.Refuse to chat with you before Jan Qian.

In love, only by constantly understanding each other's thoughts can we continue to cultivate tacit understanding and have a long-term love. When two people are together, a lot of interesting topics will arise, and when one day you suddenly find that you are not willing to talk to each other, it is likely to be a precursor to a breakup. Because he wants to leave you, he doesn't want to continue chatting with you.

He will find you boring, so he is reluctant to chat with you, and even if he chats, there will be some inexplicable coldness. He also wants to be alone, and he doesn't want to disturb you with a series of things like your studies and work. So at this time you have to pay attention, you start to get tired of the relationship.

3.Reluctant to share his affairs with you.

Men and women are actually two different worlds, one is very concerned about what others think of themselves, and the other is very concerned about what others think of themselves. So when you find that your boyfriend is unwilling to reveal to you about ruining him, you must pay attention. There is a kind of person who is a very big blow when he proposes to break up with you.

Because when you mention breaking up with him, you will find that he has never said the word breakup to you before. So when he loses interest in you, he won't tell you about his past, and even he thinks it's too boring to be with you, so he starts to distance himself from you. If he doesn't want to share his affairs with you, then you have to pay attention.

Like, he suddenly has no patience with you. I don't have the patience to listen to you, even if it's a joke, I don't have the patience to go out with you, I don't have the patience to listen to your little emotions, I don't have the patience to do anything for you, I don't have the patience to coax you.

Another example is disgust. Generally, no matter what happens, the average couple will be angry, and they will not have a sense of disgust, to put it bluntly, they will hate and be disgusting. It's a bit of a diaphragm to touch it, to see what he does not be satisfied, to feel that he is weak in all aspects, if anyone else is definitely better than him, doubt his ability, doubt his choice.

It's not far from breaking up.

Another example, regret. I regret choosing him, and keep asking myself why I chose him, if it wasn't for him, maybe he would be much better than now. At the same time, compared with other people's boyfriends, all kinds of food and clothing, all kinds of ups and downs, more and more regrets, more and more regrets, and finally my mind was full of regrets, and I couldn't think about his goodness.

This manifestation is also obvious, more pronounced than disgust. It is estimated that they will break up soon.

The above does not discriminate between men and women.

In the final analysis, one or both parties are unwilling. It may be because of the three views, it may be because of the economy, it may be the emergence of others.

But the fact is that whoever you are with will end up being light, don't think that it will be better to change someone because of a little thing, not necessarily. Do it and cherish it.

1. Behavior and habits are not the same.

If two people want to live together for a long time, they must take this into account, otherwise even if they have feelings, they will be slowly exhausted. For example, if two people live together, one person has a serious cleanliness habit, while the other person likes to make garbage at will and endure each other, the contradiction will inevitably accumulate deeper and deeper. Living under the same roof, all living habits will be magnified, and if the behavior habits of two people are obviously different, there will be many differences.

2. There is a large gap in family conditions.

Although there are some material things to say, the growth environment of the original family has a great impact on people, and the most direct embodiment is the concept of consumption. In addition, even if you can ignore the financial situation because of love, it will be extremely difficult for the two families to merge.

3. Lack of common hobbies.

Think about whether you often think of one thing when you are together, and you feel that you hit it off when you do anything, for example, two people like to travel, and often come to a trip that says go, instead of talking about travel, one person is full of yearning, and one person feels very tired. It is a very important thing to have the same hobbies, if two people have the same hobbies, there will be a lot of common topics, rather than the donkey's lips talking nonsense, avoiding a lot of embarrassment.

4. The three views are inconsistent.

People who do not agree with each other are also very prone to principled contradictions, and such contradictions are often difficult to reconcile. For example, when two people go out to play, the girl wants to stay in a better hotel, and the boy thinks that it is okay to be average, and the girl thinks it is a matter of principle, and the boy does not make a problem in his eyes, which is a concrete manifestation of the difference in values and money views.

Emotional disagreements can lead to deeper and deeper conflicts, which will eventually lead to breakups.

In these three cases, it is difficult for couples to "control" themselves, sooner or later.