Is scheming a necessary skill in life?

Personally, I feel that there are essential skills for life.

At least in my opinion, it's hard to move without scheming, and the people around me are very scheming, and although they don't necessarily work for me, I need to have them. Because you don't know when you're going to be stumbling over by those scheming people. At that time, I was too scheming and believed in people's suffering.

I am the secretary of the Youth League in the class, and I have a good relationship with the school committee in the class, but the relationship with the class leader is not very good.

Once I remember that the supervisor asked me to take a few people in the class to clean up the laboratory for him, and I happened to meet the squad leader (how can there be so many coincidences, I also knew afterwards that the squad leader met me on purpose), and then the squad leader said to me, "You came just in time, the secretary is looking for someone to carry things for him" I said at the time, "The instructor is looking for someone to clean up the laboratory, you take a few people away, I am afraid that there will be not enough manpower." As a result, the squad leader told me, "I said hello to the instructor, and if the instructor asks you afterwards, you will say that I took the person away" and then he also told me that the autumn side will be over soon, and when the time comes, he will bring the person back, and I didn't think much about it, because I didn't expect him to be so scheming, deliberately yin me, after this happened. The two of us just tore our faces.

When I got to the instructor, the instructor asked me why there were only a few of them, and I said to the instructor, "I'll be here in a while" (I was stupid and ridiculous at the time). I didn't dare to say to the instructor that it was a secretary, after all, the secretary's position was bigger than the instructor, and I seemed to be a bit oppressive with power when I said it, so I didn't dare to talk too much. Later, due to lack of manpower, we spent three hours cleaning up for the instructor, just in time for the instructor to have something to do, and the time was too long for him to be a little upset.

After cleaning up, the instructor left me behind and criticized me, saying that I didn't estimate the number of people and delayed time. At that time, I didn't know how to justify myself, so I listened stupidly.

I found out afterwards that the secretary was indeed looking for someone to help, but when the squad leader took people away from me at that time, the secretary had already found enough people. After I learned about this, I went to reason with the squad leader, but he said with an innocent face, "I also knew that there were enough people when I arrived, and since a few people in our class came with me, I didn't take them away." I just hehe, and I said, "What about bringing people back when you're done?"

Therefore, you must have scheming, you don't need to, but when others are yin against you, you must at least have the power to fight back.

This kind of scheming is wrong. There are many kinds of scheming, such as white lies, sincerity, and so on. If we know what kind of scheming is in line with society, then we should work hard to accomplish it.

On the contrary, if it is wrong, we should put an end to it. Scheming is divided into scheming and unscheming. In the face of white lies, we should help others so that they have a happy ending.

Of course, if it's the wrong scheming, then we don't have to try to complete them. We should contribute to society. Country, country, how can we have a home without a country, and how can we have our current life without a home.

There's no need! Being able to guard against other people's scheming is a necessary skill in life.

No. A scheming person is very tired, and others have to guard against him. It's better to keep it simple...

As long as you don't hurt people.

Right! I'm the most scheming! I'm insidious and cunning! Do no evil! Cheating! The heart is like a femme fatale! They are the simplest and kindest!

If I could, I think it would be simple, I don't want a nice face, I want a normal face, and a down-to-earth effort to treat my parents well.

I'm not having a good time.

<> "5 essential scheming for walking in society.

1. Make friends must first observe carefully, because only by being careful can you observe people, in order to see through the essence of a person is good or bad, if you see through, don't say it thoroughly, if you can't see through, don't make friends.

2. We must learn to deal with things tactfully, between people, there is no need to do some things to say, give each other a step down, leave a way back for yourself, 30 years in Hedong, 30 years in Hexi, no one knows what the future of others will become.

3. Kindness must have a bottom line, and you must not have a good temper, because when you endure and endure again, others will think that you are cheap. The more you put up with it, the more he bullies you.

4. For the villain, we must not debunk it if we find it, and at the same time do not take the initiative to associate with him from now on, but do not refuse to interact, because this kind of person has a more prejudiced personality, once it is exposed, it will be crazy to retaliate against you, and it is impossible to prevent it.

5. Get along with anyone, you must remember one point, don't reveal all your hole cards, you can show a little bit, so that he doesn't dare to underestimate you, but don't easily reveal your hole cards.

Because once others think that you are useless, turning your face will be faster than turning a book, and maintaining a certain mystery is to protect yourself.

Usually we don't advocate scheming in people's interactions with people and in life, but sometimes the heart of harming others is indispensable, and the heart of preventing others is indispensable, which is really the case. We don't have the idea of harming others, but we can't stop someone from having this idea, and it's important to learn to protect yourself. <>

It is very important not to directly reject each other in the interaction between people, because adults have a good face, if you directly reject the other party in person, then the other party may feel very uncomfortable, and form this beam, and if there is contact with the other party in the future, the other party will try their best to criticize you, which will also make you uncomfortable. Because now netizens say in a word, even if you have been drenched in the rain, you have to remove other people's umbrellas, we can't let others get drenched in the rain and give others a step down, this is very important, because the result is the same, you rejected him. But if you put it another way, it will be easier for the other party to accept it, and it is enough for both parties to understand this matter first.

Friends who have financial dealings and some colleagues at work, who should have a sense of prevention evidence, this is a very broad, but really useful thing. If it is a business friend who is financially contacted, then the other party usually doesn't call you your full name, and now you suddenly call Lahe's full name, and also mentioned some economic matters in the process of your relationship, then you should be careful, the other party may be recording, if there are some things among colleagues that involve the assignment of work, you transfer this task to the other party, don't face to face, be sure to leave effective evidence through social software and work software to prove that you did transfer this matter to the other party, Otherwise, in the end, the other party will throw the pot on you, and it will be very passive. <>

In fact, sometimes to give others a face, to give others a step, is to leave a way back for yourself, only children's thoughts are called black and white always emphasize what is right, right I must insist, wrong I must oppose, we can maintain our own view, but we have to change a form, as long as a change of way can achieve the goal, there is no need to use a fierce confrontation to achieve. This kind of flexible and sleek wisdom is very worthy of many young people who have just entered the society to learn from Li Mo, and they will find this very useful in the future.

In fact, I have my own ideas in life, that is, I have my own opinions and opinions on certain things, and then I have a new understanding of something. <>

As we all know, in the workplace, I'm sure we find that sometimes we have to say a few words against our will to make the leader happy. If we say the wrong thing, it will affect our development in the workplace. If we see our female leader with a new nail, she will be happy to come and ask if her nails look good.

Even though our hearts think this nail is really ugly, it looks dark and the style is old-fashioned.

A woman starts a relationship at the age of 20, and as she grows older, she gradually opens her heart, and the saying that she is 30 years old like a wolf and 40 years old like a tiger comes into being, if your wife is in good health, has not gone through menopause, and is willing to accompany you, congratulations. His pure desire, nowhere to be found, finally found the foundation. You will enjoy your old life, and if your wife's menopause is over and she is too lazy to satisfy her tiny residual desires, then you can only hold on, and in any case, you can't hold on for a few years, and people in their fifties and sixties will become weaker and weaker.

There's no need to tell someone the secret of communication you can't tell someone about. As far as real life is concerned, the world of prudence is prudence, blank space, and loving someone requires prudence. For example, when it rained, he once said that he wanted someone to accompany him, but it turned out to be successful.

It is important for him to know the difference between good and bad, as a means of communication, with the most cautious thinking. For example, when the gift came to the stage, I had hoped for a long distance, but now I have to fulfill my wish. Careful thinking is a rhythmic sense of mutual silent pleasure.

Only those who know how to be content can live happily, and those who can endure can live a peaceful life.

We must always pay attention to our own image, we must constantly improve our own age, we must have independent economic ability, and in the process of being nowhere to deal with others, we must also know how to deal with people, to deal with people, to be particularly tactful, and to know how to speak.