Stable job or unbridled youth, which one will you choose?

I think that people who grew up in relatively wealthy families should choose to have an unbridled youth, and if their family is not so good from a young age, they should want a stable job. It's not that everyone will have the same choices, people who live in different environments have different ways of thinking and seeing the world. It's like people in poverty, they see too many problems in their lives because of their livelihoods, and that's a kind of pressure, and they want to get a stable job to change that situation.

On the contrary, people with money do not have the pressure from life, they do not know the problems brought by livelihood, so they naturally want that kind of presumptuous youth to highlight their personality.

All personality is honed, when you have experienced the hardships of life then your heart will become a reality of the world, but when you have a stable job to live your life, you will feel that your youth is too ordinary, and you will feel a pity because of it. And when you make your life difficult in the future because of the flamboyance of your youth, you will naturally feel that if you can work hard at that time, it will not be the end now, and the beauty of youth is nothing compared to the happiness of the second half of your life. Human beings are animals with discontented desires, and what they can't get is always in turmoil.

And if I had to choose, I would be appropriate to indulge my youth without delaying my struggle for life, after all, youth can't be too boring, youth is only once, if you don't want to be old in your mind only yourself has been struggling for a living, then don't tie your youthful heart too tightly. Don't give up your future life because of your youth.

In our lives, we will be faced with different choices. Every choice is a matter of our own choice, but in the end, we don't regret it. When making a choice, follow your heart.

A stable job is something that many people dream of, don't worry about unemployment, don't let your parents worry about yourself, have a regular income**, and don't worry about an unknown tomorrow, a stable job is simply perfect. Especially now that the pressure of competition is so high. It's everyone's dream.

Unbridled youth is a period that everyone will have. However, because it is short-lived, it shows how precious it is. In the presumptuous youth, few people understand its preciousness, which leads to many people being wasted, and it has passed without remembering it well.

This time is the best time for each of us, many things that we dare not do and dare not think can be made in this presumptuous youth, it is so uninhibited. <>

Compared to the two, I would still choose the latter: unbridled youth. Because there is only one presumptuous youth, but there is always a chance to encounter a stable job, even if there is no stable job, there will be no regrets, but, if there is no presumptuous youth, it is a regret in life, after all, it is the best time in a lifetime, find love, find love, experience love, brave love!

Although, everyone's choice may be different. But I believe that most people will have the same choice as me, because we all know what unbridled youth means to ourselves, it is a memory that is cherished in the deepest part of our hearts, and each of us will cherish this time well.

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's not wrong to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

There is a saying that does not choose comfort when you are young, in fact, our youth and time are also costs, and it is also in line with economic concepts to exchange the lowest cost for the highest return. I used to think that comfort was very good, but later one of my classmates said that getting that little income a month is a waste of youth, and what is the difference between eating and waiting for death, and he woke me up.

The reasons to choose a high income are as follows:

1. Challenges make people grow

The most ferocious beasts are in the forest, and those in the zoo are no longer wild, and it is a dead end for them to return to the forest if they are pampered.

One, young people only put themselves in a challenging environment, in order to continue to tap their own potential, continue to surpass themselves, and finally continue to attack the ideal state, of course, hard work is not without returns, high returns allow you to get honor, so that you can get a sense of existence, but also to achieve the value of life in the struggle.

Stephen Chow once said that without dreams, what is the difference between people and salted fish?

Second, life is material

The quality of life supported by material conditions is not too high, many times you will find that all troubles are because of money, assuming that you have money, many problems will be solved, a simplest example, the mother is hospitalized, needs high medical expenses, the child goes to school, let him receive a better education, classmates buy a car, their own heart is unbalanced, these are all needed money to solve, so high income can definitely bring a higher psychological experience.

3. For the happy life of old age

Why do you want to choose a high-income job, there are many people who are still working hard when they are old, because they did not save up for themselves when they were young, they can't play in the mountains and rivers like other old people, if they have accumulated enough wealth through young hard work to make their later life more nourishing, then they can have more time to enjoy the joy of family.

A person's choice of a stable job or a high-paying job is determined by a variety of factors and cannot be generalized. Therefore, when you encounter such a problem, you must not be blind, and you must make a choice based on your actual situation.

Clause. 1. Personality factors.

1.Unwilling to be ordinary and content with the status quo. If you are a person with ideals, ambitions, and high aspirations, a stable job is not for you because it has certain limitations in terms of development potential and promotion space, so a high-paying job is more attractive to you.

If you are a person who is willing to be mediocre and content, then a stable job is a good choice for you, it does not require you to work hard, and there is not much pressure and competitiveness, relatively easy and comfortable.

2.Sociable and unverbal. If you are a person who can speak well and be good at observing words and feelings, then even if the high-income work environment is very complicated, you can easily handle all kinds of interpersonal relationships, and you can mix left and right at work.

If you are a stammering and unexpressive person, then you may be ostracized in complex relationships, which is not conducive to the smooth development of the job, and in the long run, you are in danger of being fired, so a stable job is more suitable for you.

Clause. 2. Family factors.

A person cannot decide their own birth, and for those whose family conditions are not good, finding a high-income job is an important way to improve their quality of life and even change their fate. They do not have the right to choose to live a comfortable life, so most of them will choose high-paying jobs, even if it is a little more hardship and more sin. And for those who are born with a golden key, they have more choices, whether it is a stable job or a high-income job, which will not have much impact on their lives.

Clause. 3. Capability factors. If you have a strong ability to work, then you will not stoop to a stable, non-stressful and competitive job, and only a high-paying job can reflect your ability.

If you have average ability, then you may not be qualified for a high-paying job, so a stable job is more suitable for you.

It depends on the individual's situation. If you have limited abilities, it is more appropriate to choose a stable job. It is possible that this stable job has a relatively low income, but your ability determines that it is the wisest choice.

If the individual is capable, he should choose a high-income job, even if the job is unstable, with his own ability, there is no need to worry about not having new employment opportunities.

Before choosing between stability and high income, have a proper understanding of yourself.

Personally, I think there are three aspects that should be considered:

a) Consider individual families.

First of all, you need to consider your family's circumstances, such as whether you are the main financial support** in the family, and whether a change in your job will lead to a significant decrease in your quality of life. Whether the individual is single, whether there is pressure to educate children or support the elderly, and whether the individual is in the struggle stage at his age are all prerequisites to consider.

2) Consider career development.

Secondly, you should judge from your personal career plan whether this job can play to your strengths and realize your self-worth. Choose a job based on your career orientation and development goals, not just the current stability and income of the job. Whether it's stability or high income, it may be temporary, and the improvement of your skills and experience in the workplace is even more valuable.

3) Consider industry trends.

Finally, you should consider the industry you are in, and if it is trending upward, it means that the platform may be getting wider and wider. Combined with the development prospects of the industry and the development trend of the business, you can also judge whether the selected job has good room for development. In particular, it is important to avoid choosing sunset industries or companies that are in a downturn, because direction is more important than effort.

But in the end, it's up to you to decide.

If you like a comfortable and relaxed life and don't compare yourself with others, then it is good to have a stable job and a low income to ensure basic living! If you look at other people's high income and good quality of life, stable low income will not achieve the same or better life as they want, income is directly proportional to investment, and sometimes income is far less than the investment paid. If you are more motivated and a little ambitious, it is still recommended to struggle under the challenge when you are young, young is capital, and there is no chance when you are old, make good use of this capital.

In fact, in addition to the state unit suitable for the elderly, there is really nothing in the workplace that can be done until the old, unless you find a job that is very satisfied with the company and formally sympathize with the old employees can retire, but rarely, there will be various reasons to change jobs or to a certain age, the company considers that you have no use value and introduces new people to replace, it is really a problem to change jobs at the age of one, no unit is recruiting people who are close to retirement, or some low-income positions at the grassroots level. Therefore, you can accumulate more while you are young, and when you are old, you can retire early and do what you want, such as opening a small book bar and living a leisurely life.

I would choose stability. Because I'm middle-aged, I feel at ease with a stable job. Practical.

If I were still in my twenties and thirties, I would choose a high income, try my best to work hard, challenge myself, and maybe a high income can become stable! After all, there can be several beats in life, and when it is time to fight, you can't just try to be comfortable and happy. But everyone has their own aspirations, and everyone's ideas are different, after all, sometimes they are also influenced by other aspects.