What is the future of my son? 20

It is more suitable to engage in research, and have a strong desire to explore unknown things. At the same time, immersing oneself in research has largely avoided interpersonal disputes, but judging from your description, this child is a bit different, and he usually needs to strengthen the study and cultivation of interpersonal relationships to avoid losses. If you still want to take the route of technology at work, you must invigorate and refine a certain technology, have technology as a guarantee, and slowly cultivate interpersonal relationships, which is a good choice!

The safest way is to change a good environment, have a good leader to take care of, personality can only be slowly affected, basically can not change, the tree is dead, the person is alive!

Decisiveness is not suitable for scientific research, the most important thing in scientific research is to calm down. It's really difficult to see that your child's communication skills and handling skills are not very good, and I feel that it is more suitable to do technology at present. And since he likes new things, he is also a little clever and so on, so that he can explore more opportunities and do some small business, you can help him get ideas, let him find the direction, if there is no one for a while, just pay more attention.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world...

In addition to the advice of other friends, it is recommended that you mobilize your relatives and friends around you to find local career guidance institutions and teachers, introduce them to your son, and under their systematic guidance, let him understand what he expects his future life, career, and marriage to be, and then formulate corresponding actions to find the most suitable one.

This process is not arranged by parents, but a process of guidance and guidance, after all, in the face of the future of society, sons must face it themselves.

All the best!

Is your daughter-in-law something wrong with someone else?

Ask who you? You know it yourself!

A 16-year-old boy who is a good freshman in high school seriously falls in love with a girl in his class, and the boy's father and son have a conversation that belongs to two men.

Father: Son, do you think she's the best girl you can be?

Zi: I think she's the cutest girl I know.

Father: Dad believes in your vision. However, you're only in your first year of high school, how many girls do you know?

Zi: I only have her in my heart.

Father: You said you were going to university, and you were going to go abroad in the future to further your studies, and you wanted to become a lawyer or a financier. Do you know how many good girls you will meet in the future?

Dad doesn't object to you talking about girlfriends now, but what Dad hates the most is seeing things different. This girlfriend is the best girl you've ever known, but you'll have more opportunities in the future, what will you do then? Will you regret it?

Son: But now that I'm leaving her, I'm miserable.

Father: What about the "Walkman" you bought when you were in junior high school?

Son: Two days ago, you bought me a high-end one, and I thought the sound quality was better than the original one, so I gave it to people.

Father: This is called a mountain higher than a mountain. If you grasp every opportunity that belongs to you, your future achievements can only be greater than today, the world you face will only be wider than today, and your choice will only be better and more suitable for you than today.

If you really have that love for this girl now, how good it would be to let it blossom and bear fruit then. Son, it is impossible for a person not to do something that he regrets in his life, but there are only a few major events in life, and if you regret it, you will regret it for life.

Son: Dad, I understand ......

From then on, the boy buried his special feelings for the girl like a seed in his heart, but the music of life played more cheerfully. He understands that even if the seed of love sprouts, it has not yet grown into a towering tree, let alone a sweet fruit. Before that, he could only be a farmer who worked silently, waiting for the crops to ripen.

The boy was undoubtedly lucky. First of all, there is trust between father and son—trust like a friend, so that the boy dares to tell his father the secret hidden in his heart; Secondly, after the father found out, he did not reprimand, did not condescend to "educate", but told his son's love affair eloquently, understanding, inspiring, and implied persuasion metaphors, and finally convinced his son.

Every child who is just starting out will inevitably encounter emotional problems, but not every child can be fortunate enough to get a friend-style exchange and communication with their parents.

Puppy love also has benefits, such as:

1. It can make boys and girls grow quickly into men and women.

2. Release excess energy.

3. Make good memories.

4. Promote consumption to stimulate domestic demand.

5. Break the shyness between men and women. More contact is conducive to improving the standard of mate selection in the future.

6. Tell your parents that avoiding emotional knowledge is not the way to go.

7. Improve IQ. Improve emotional intelligence.

8. If you are lucky, the two childhood sweethearts will still live together in the future, and the relationship between husband and wife will be more stable than that of couples who get married after work.

It's fine, as long as you don't delay your studies, maybe it will make him more responsible.

It is normal for spring hearts to sprout, and proper education and talking more are the best methods.

Don't think too much, after all, it's your own parents, there may be a lot of ideological gaps, but you shouldn't think that money is more important than your own children!

Instead of thinking about this and that here, it's better to settle down for yourself, there are many people around me who are slowly moving up step by step from part-time jobs, and there is no reason why you have to have something from your parents to make a living.

Your parents may be too worried about you now, so they are in a hurry to say something that makes you feel bad, but they still care about you, if you really don't care about you, it doesn't matter if you die?!

You don't have to keep thinking about whether your parents should give you something, it should be your last thing that will come to you, now, it should be the time for you to work alone, self-made is the most capable! Don't think too much, waste your mind in this kind of place, it's better to find a job as soon as possible, even if it is a job that can barely afford three meals now, save money and persevere, there will still be a day when you can get ahead!

When you get ahead, do you still need to care about that? In order to make the people who look down on you admire you, work hard!

But in good conscience, no matter what, family affection is still inseparable, people have been drifting outside for a long time, there must be a harbor to stop, that is, listening to some seemingly unpleasant nagging, is also the greatest enjoyment

To give you a search idea, can you support yourself now? If you can, and you are willing to endure hardships yourself, then I suggest that you go far away and never contact your family from now on. If you can't, you go back to them.

Take their money and squander it, and if you don't give it, you take it out and sell it for money. However, I recommend that you learn the former. Knowledge can be learned as you go to work.

Going to school is just a diploma. It doesn't work in the end.

Maybe you have met wolf-hearted parents, I suggest you live your own life and show them, it's not that you can't live without them, go to your own sky, success is in front of you, under your feet!

When they are old, you do the same to them, at most give them living expenses, parents like this sound angry, they don't plan to let you support them in the future, they can live on their own.

You can explain the problem to them, they should be smart people, they should understand. If they are still like this, you can only fight a lawsuit with them, unless you are willing to let them bully.

People have to rely on themselves, for parents like you. You have to be self-reliant.

Don't rely on your parents for everything...Live it out and let them see.

Lucky color: yellow

A perfect person with strong planning skills and practical spirit!

Basic personality: Honest rare animal, very mature in thinking about things, striving for perfection in doing things, 100% focused, rational but also has an emotional side, very coordinated, empathetic, careful, rarely worry about interpersonal relationships. The best thing to do is to help people resolve disputes.

Excellent planning ability is your greatest characteristic, super intelligence analysis ability and romantic personality, can stimulate your creativity. It's your job to please everyone, and observe things before you do them, otherwise you'll be whispered.

Potential: You're a talented leader! Hold on to all the big and small things! You can hone your planning skills!

Tips for overcoming weaknesses:

Because if you want to do things to the fullest, it's easy to care about what others think. In fact, you don't need to please everyone, as long as you can maintain an optimistic attitude to plan everything, everyone will gladly accept it, and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Just get the basics done first!

Lucky item: When you care about the comments around you, hurry up and buy a can of your favorite drink to comfort yourself!

Gregorian calendar: March 9, 2008 at 4 o'clock.

Dry manufacturing: Wuzi Yimao Wushen Jiayin.

Universiade: 9-year-old Bingchen Ding Si Wuwu Jiwei Gengshen Xin You Bazi was born thin and small, and he had more problems when he was a child. He is anxious for people, he does things repeatedly, and he travels all his life, but there are happy events such as travel, transfer, or going abroad.

There is a fate of the sky and the moon and the two virtues, and the evil turns into auspiciousness, and there is salvation in distress, and the officials see the nobles. Use God for Wenchang, and the school will have a high degree of education.

The eight characters are composed of the year, month and day of the birth of the Lord of the Day, and are called the eight characters. The merits of the fate can only be judged by the five elements. Just like a newborn baby, what are the advantages (disadvantages) of being born with a quilt?

Excellent congenital development: can be engaged in a variety of industries, development prospects. Inferior Congenital dysplasia:

If you don't have good physical fitness and can't do manual labor, your choice of industry is limited. One life and two luck, the next thing is to look at luck, with innate excellence, good luck will go straight to the clouds, rich and rich. Bad luck, no matter how good you are, it's useless, if you were investigated and imprisoned when you first became Shangguan Chunfeng.

Good luck can also be in danger. In short, from the information of the eight characters and the acquired fortune, it can be judged that the fate of a person's life is to be rich and noble, fame and fortune, poverty, or a life full of disasters and difficulties. If you need a professional, you can find me, but it's paid.

A 2-year-old child begins to accept everything in this world that interests him. But at this time, it is still too early to talk about planning his future! Because, this should be the child's academic success when they grow up, and it is up to them to plan their own future and life!

What you need to do now is to cultivate children's interest in learning and their keen observation and thinking skills. Prepare yourself mentally for school in the future. Because, as long as the child's interest in learning is strong, his grades will inevitably rise steadily!

Now is the era of knowledge. A child without culture will not be able to accept anything new in the future! It means that he will not have a good future!

In addition, it is also very important to cultivate children from an early age to have a good ideological character, because people who do not have good ideological and moral character will inevitably be eliminated by the advancing society! He will have no future!

What a two-year-old child plans to do, see what he likes, as long as it is not a bad habit to pick it up, just let him do it. It's not good for children to put too much pressure when they are too young, and childhood still has to be like childhood. This lack of interest is the best teacher.

Well, but character is important. It should be said that it is the most important thing, and this should be taught well from an early age.

Because he doesn't have much interest in reading?

Actually, he doesn't want you.

The more he was asked to read, the less interested he became.

There are some things that don't just talk about the problem.

You ask him what he's willing to do.

As long as there is a development, I will support him.

Let him do something about that.

If it really doesn't work, let him go to work directly.

In the future, if you don't raise him, you will quarrel and earn your own money.

Let him grind directly in society.

Slowly, he will become arrogant and will know the importance of reading.

Don't hurt the child too much, spoil the child too much, and it will ruin him.

The road to nothing is his own.

Believe that he is endurable to hail.

Forehead. Reluctance to read. In these years, if you want to gain a foothold, you can only keep learning.

Feng Nalu The people I have met since I worked, whether they are company managers, or security officers, or technical workers, or even security guards, need to keep learning new things Maybe social gangsters don't need to study. But even if you become the boss of the black 5 society, it is not called a future How old is the child? If it's not too big, strengthen guidance and stimulate interest.

If you are already very big and don't take your future seriously, then it is really troublesome.

People who don't want to read must have other strengths, pay attention to discover.