Socialize without drinking 15, how to socialize without smoking or drinking

Alas, I can only say that it is difficult to be a man!

If you don't want to drink it, unless you have enough money to meet your needs in the past. Then you can retire to the peach world!

If you are still tossing in the tide of making money for your livelihood, then you have to endure it any longer.

However, sometimes it can't be strong on the sprinkler field, which is not good for the body! For example, if you can drink a pound, you have to drink a pound and a half, do you say that you are a little bit of that!

Personal experience: can drink a catty, when you drink half a catty or eight taels, you want to move, the consumption of energy consumption, you can't drink as little as possible, when you should pretend to be drunk, you can't be vague, after all, the body is the capital of the revolution! We can't throw away our great future for the sake of temporary interests, right?

Of course, when you can't drink, you have to pretend to be able to drink anymore and some skills, this kind of thing is played on the spot, different occasions have different flexible needs, slowly accumulate experience! I'm sure you'll make it!

At the wine table, you can't say you don't want to drink, you just can't drink, no matter who you drink, it should be difficult to tell the truth! The key is to see if you can persevere! Men drink some alcohol, and I personally feel that sometimes it is still necessary!

You say that my health really doesn't allow me to drink alcohol, either drink or tea instead!?

Adults in the workplace are well aware of the importance of business dinners, and if they "eat well", they can not only achieve their own goals, but also have many unexpected gains. So here's the problem...

As a subordinate, how can you maintain decency and protect yourself in the drinking party?

Find your target customers.

The most prestigious person at the wine table is generally the one who is invited, and most of them are middle-aged and successful in their careers. The target of your boss or the party who treats him is him, and as for the other escorts, they are just foils. Your boss may be looking for you with the original intention of just a foil, but if you can have an unexpected effect, it will definitely be reused in the future.

If you drink with your guests, you can only be considered qualified at best, but if you drink with your target customers, that's what the boss wants.

Take the initiative to drink When you are at the wine table and others come to persuade you to drink, it is generally because your sense of presence is too weak or your performance is not up to standard. Since you have to drink it, it is better to drink it passively than to drink it actively. After the boss has finished toasting, you can drink directly with the target.

First, if you take the initiative, the other party must drink; Second, you take the initiative and have something to say first. For example, xx leader, I have been sick to my stomach recently, but you are here, I must drink this wine, but I can't drink too much, so I salute you first. In this way, I not only gave the leader enough face, but also told others that I would not drink much after today's glass of wine.

Many times I will chat, the leader will take people there, one is to accompany the wine, and the other is to hope to have a topic to talk about. This requires you to be able to talk very much, and you can talk about anything, the south and the north, astronomy and geography, real-time politics, gossip news, and parents, so that the wine table is lively. Generally speaking, when chatting like this, firstly, the leader is willing, and secondly, when he chats with you, the person next to him will not be uninteresting to persuade you to drink.

Infiltrate in advance. You can't drink this thing, in normal times slowly infiltrate the leader. The leader knows in his heart, and it is not difficult for you at the wine table, so when others talk about drinking every day, you interject "Eh! I just can't drink", everyone knows that if you can't drink, no one will be difficult for you, and there will be no occasion for drinking.