What it s like to play with a very scheming person

It's very tiring and tiring, because playing with a very scheming person, you are either suffering a loss, or you are on the way to a loss.

People with scheming roots can be very tired to play.

What is scheming, as the name suggests, is to have a plan in mind. Scheming people are often very deep in the city, and they will not easily expose their thoughts and intentions, and they seem to be good people, but in fact they have two skins. Scheming people are generally not right-hearted and like to calculate others behind their backs, so you have to be more attentive when dealing with them, otherwise you will fall into the trap laid by others.

How should you get along with it?

1.Still waters run deep.

When I just dated, I didn't know who could make deep friends with who was really scheming, so I smiled sincerely and faced everyone around me, as the saying goes, don't hit the smiling person, treat people sincerely, observe everyone, and find out that person can be deep friends in the later stage, which people can't.

2.We must do "only say three points when we meet people, and we can't throw away all of our hearts."

What this means is that we can't be stupid enough to say everything and don't tell each other what we think about it. Generally speaking, scheming people like to paraphrase other people's words and like to figure out what other people think. All we have to do is use our brains before we speak, and figure out what we can say.

When it comes to topics such as interests and privacy, we must learn to avoid talking about them.

3.Don't plot with them.

This is a mistake that many workplace novices often make, colleagues invite him to plan something together, either out of embarrassment to refuse, or there is indeed such a motive to go, and then he does it. But what the eyes see, what the eyes can't see, and when it will be sold, I don't know. Especially those who have scheming, they often think of a way out, and you may not be so lucky.

It is used as a bullet when it hits, and it is used as cannon fodder when it retreats.

4.Be on the embankment at all times.

If it is a department, a department, or a unit, there is no way to stay away, and there are still contacts in business, so you have to get along. Then I have to be careful with myself. As the saying goes, you can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people.

When you get along with scheming people, you have to remind yourself often. Because they are good at pushing and taking credit, if something goes wrong, the responsible family is the first to pick it out; With credit, people are the first to stand up.

Therefore, in the work, it is necessary to grasp the division between the inside and the outside, the responsibility is clear, and if there is a problem, it can be divided; I have merit and can reflect myself. Ay! Even if you are careful at all times, countless painful experiences will show you that you will still suffer compared to a mental monitor.

Summary: The relationship between people is very subtle and mundane. Everyone's circle is different.

What you like may be what others are tired of; What you can't tolerate may be what the other person is happy with. We can't control the joys and sorrows of others, but we have the right to deal with the purity of our world, and we have the power to clear the gloom of our life. Only in this way can we live with flowers in all seasons and pleasant scenery.

People who like to play tricks must have been benefited at some point, or achieved a certain goal, and are proud of it, but there will always be a time when it is debunked, and the loss that needs to be borne at that time is far greater than that snack machine.

People who like to play tricks often think that they are very smart, others are stupider than themselves, and others will be deceived by playing tricks on their own dim sum machines.

You will only suffer everywhere when you associate with this kind of person, and the other party will not feel that you are any good, they will only treat you as a fool, not to mention any friendship with you, and what you are asked to do is to take advantage of you, and to get benefits is to lie to you, so ah, to be a man, stay away from this kind of scheming person. Those scheming people are like stones in their hearts, no matter how good you are to her, he will feel that you are like a joke, and whether he interacts with you or not will always depend on whether you are still useful to him. Get along with this kind of person, the first thing they think of when they encounter trouble is to get some benefits, as long as he encounters an opportunity, he will start to calculate, if you often associate with scheming people, sooner or later you will be calculated.