Is it necessary to have an unblessed marriage?

Originally, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a commonplace problem, after listening to your story, I feel that if your sacrifice is cherished by your boyfriend, it is worth it, I wish you happiness; If not, according to my character, I would rather lack than excess, and the twisted melon is not sweet. But the days are yours, and you two have to have one heart and plan well. I have nothing but blessings

Seriously, in my opinion, if the two of you can really break up, it's better to break up. My previous marriage, similar to your situation, my mother-in-law's family didn't like me at all, I also worked hard, but I still didn't do a good job as their daughter-in-law, and finally it was an eight-year marriage, left, the family was scattered, and everything I earned became his family, and I also returned to the original, alone, but with one more daughter who couldn't rest assured. Now, I have found a mother-in-law's family, and the family is also poor, but the family is good to me, but now I never take out my money to spend, my own salary is my own, I don't care what he wants to do at home, how much a woman can earn.

I earn everything by myself, and I'm really tired. Otherwise, you pretend to be with your boyfriend for a year and a half, and if your boyfriend can't find someone else, maybe they will know how important you are.

Hey, I'm so tired now, and it's hard to talk about it when I get married, so think about it and ask your heart.

Why do you want to toss yourself like this?

Make yourself happy.

It mainly depends on whether the two people will be in love.

If two people know that God will fall in love at first sight or a long-term relationship, in fact, everyone does not bless them, they can still be long, as long as they don't care about other people's eyes, it is okay, especially the parents and parents may not support you for some reasons at first, but after a period of time, if you can really live a very happy life, and it is a happy pair in the eyes of others, then your parents will bless you very much, because parents are to make us very happy, very good, Even if it wasn't supported at first for some reason, there must be a reason. Maybe you think that you won't be a good match, but in fact, the so-called marriage that is not supported by the man's family will not last long, and that is the real problem between you. If your marriage really won't last long, it can only mean that the man's family is right, that he sees that you will definitely not last long, there must be a problem, so you will not be happy for a long time, it can only prove that they are right, if you can be happy for a long time, then it proves that you are right, so time determines everything.

If you will really be happy all the time, and you will have the crystallization of the love of two people, that is, your children, and then you will be very happy, your parents will definitely support you, even if there is still some mustard in your heart, but you will definitely sincerely bless you and help you watch your children, which is a very normal thing.

After all, whether it is in love or marriage, it is only a matter of two people, not a matter of two families, and now the times have changed, they are all free to fall in love and marry freely, if you can really last a long time, why not do it? Parents are just for our good, if you can't grow up happily, it can only prove that the man's parents are right. So you must prove it to them, everyone will definitely bless you for a long time, even if the Fang family does not bless, there will be many, many people who think you are very happy, and there will be many, many people to bless you, so not necessarily.

It doesn't have to be someone's blessing, and it's really good only if everyone feels good.

So I think if you really like each other, it doesn't matter who supports each other or not, the important thing is that you love each other, like each other, and are very determined to go to the end with each other, what if that's the case? It's also very good, and it's also good for a long time. It is very likely that you will be blessed by everyone, even if you are not blessed by others, you can still make it to the end.

That's all for me, I hope it can help you. In short, it depends on the actual situation. It's important to do what you're supposed to do. Be honest with each other. Don't bother with it so much. It is especially important to show self-worth. The above content is for reference only.

Marriages that are not blessed are often unhappy. In fact, this is true in many examples, because this kind of marriage not only inherently lacks many resources, including the resources of the human heart, the resources of social relations, the resources of money and wealth, etc., and more deadly, there are all kinds of shadows of disharmony in the hearts of both husband and wife, which will quietly affect all aspects of later life, consciously or unconsciously leading to the direction of unhappiness.

However, it has also been proven that this kind of marriage can be completely changed!

Guan Zi will not be sold, and will go directly to the countermeasures.

1. Maintain a certain objective and psychological distance from your elders. This is not only not only not boring, but also to create a sense of mystery for them, especially the distance between the heart is very necessary, not to let them understand everything clearly, so that they can be dissatisfied with all kinds of dissatisfaction, there is no place to settle.

Second, and most importantly, husband and wife must be of one heart and one mind, take care of each other, and strive to ensure that there is no quarrel, no one is blocked, never sulking, and happy with each other, which is also a manifestation of respect for their own marriage, respect for their own choices, and respect for their own intelligence and personality.

As for making a living, it's best to open a mom-and-pop shop, and it's not a big deal (because this kind of marriage is often not something that children like Jack Ma can encounter). Try not to work to form a sense of independence, and avoid being ambitious, eager for quick success, and comparing with others. Take care of your business with a good deal of business, accumulate wealth, accumulate popularity, raise children, create, harvest and enjoy the joy of love.

3. Be considerate of the elders, speak and act in accordance with the rules, do not complain, do not flaunt, do not raise the bar, and do not create reasons to make the elderly sad and worried.

When these potato stalls arrive, the marriage will become a blessed marriage, which not only beautifies themselves, but also beautifies everyone, as well as those babies who were born and those who were not born.

I won't talk about the rest of the matter, the old husband and wife will plan very skillfully.

Everyone's marriage will be blessed by my heart! May all marriages be complete and happy, and families be harmonious!!

In fact, I think this should be a problem that many people will encounter, but whether you want to go on or not depends on yourself. It all depends on whether you are strong enough in your love for each other, confident enough in your future, and confident enough in your parents. First of all, we should move on.

According to the routine of many romantic dramas, we should continue to insist on this feeling, because we love each other, and love can overcome everything.

If our parents are against us being together, we can have a good discussion with them. If we can be sure that the other person loves us, we will have a good marriage and a happy future with each other, then you can be with each other, desperately in love, desperately in love. should not be together.

Of course, after all, real life is different from idol dramas. In real life, we always have the trouble of cooking, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and there are always some fireworks. Each of us is not a god, nor is it a god, and everyone cannot escape the restrictions of fireworks in the world.

For many people, parental advice is actually very accurate and necessary. If we don't listen to our parents, as the folk saying goes, "If we don't listen to the elderly, we will suffer in front of us."

In fact, your parents are always very wise with their affection and love for you, and any decision they make is for our good. So, when your parents are completely against you being together, I think we need to think carefully about whether the relationship can really last. Do we really want to hide in the mountains and stay with animals and plants?

As children, parents are their closest relatives and most loved ones. If you don't get the blessing and love of your parents, this marriage must be a pity. But in this world, the only thing that makes you cry the most is love.

In the face of love, any love is great, but love is humble. Is it true? Is that really the case?

Even if the earth is not of the source of the wheel, it is a curve that connects the head and tail. Living in a crowd, there are too many rules and regulations. The more you love each other, the more your heart hurts.

Even if you take another step, it will be full of tears. Too many people use their love to stop your love, but these loves are the most exhausting, and the saddest ones are the real loves. Everyone who loves you feels like they're doing it because they love you so much that they have to make your love painful.

It's a pity that they don't know and forget how their love passed. Love is always easy to forget, isn't it?

For a marriage that is not approved by my family and friends, I have become less confident. I am a person who is not resolute enough, and I will care more about the opinions of my friends, and I hope that Huai Tsai will definitely be able to get everyone's blessings.

If you don't fall in love with someone impulsively and can't get the blessing of others, then I think you should think carefully about renting, after all, everyone doesn't approve of your marriage, maybe the boy's personality is not very good, you Shanye think about it carefully and then make a decision.

It should not be insisted on, and if the two people are not blessed, then in this case, they should also stay away from each other as soon as possible, so as to ensure that there will not be too many problems with each other.

Personally, I feel that such a marriage should not be continued, because such a marriage is not blessed, and it is easy to break down, and it is also unhappy.

I don't think this is the time to stick to it. Because it is pointless to persevere, and it is unhappiness if you are not blessed.

I don't think this kind of marriage will be happy, and both husband and wife will carry a big mountain in their hearts. Everyone is looking forward to the arrival of a beautiful love, and they also hope to enter the palace of marriage with their loved one. On the day when two people hold hands and enter the marriage, there are the blessings of their parents, the laughter of friends, and the two people hold hands to face everything in the future.

A marriage without the blessings of both parents is really stressful. For both parties in this marriage, there is a huge psychological pressure in their hearts. Both parties felt that they had given too much for the relationship, and even made the relationship with their parents very stiff.

However, this effort does not necessarily lead to a happy marriage. After all, we live in a real society, and every marriage will directly face this pressure.

Buying a car, buying a house, or even having children in the future, it is really difficult for two people to live without the help of their parents. Not every young couple has the ability to fight for everything they have, and not everyone can do it at that time. In a person's life circle, the unbelief of parents often represents the unbelief of the entire circle.

Everyone has their own circle of life, and parents, relatives, and friends are the main components of it. When both parents do not approve a marriage, the marriage is rejected by friends and family. This means that after you marry this person, you need to give up most of your life circle and rebuild.

This is a tedious and energy-consuming affair, and in the process, the person can easily get tired and have a mental breakdown. From the perspective of both spiritual and material pressures, I am not optimistic about a marriage that is blessed by both parents. But this does not mean that such a marriage will be unhappy, it mainly depends on the future life of the two people.

Happiness is earned, not achieved overnight! Not passively, but actively! I wish you more and more happiness in the days to come, and if you both truly love each other, prove it to his friends.

Let them know that your love is free of impurities, noble and enviable. Let his friends know that he is happy with you. Your happiness is good, and if one day he treats you badly, you have to remember that there is one more place you can come at any time, and that is that my arms are always open for you.

Blessed are you not good enough. Keep up the good work! Sometimes you don't have to care about other people's feelings, it's your own feelings!

The so-called love without regrets should be like this, it doesn't have to be perfect, it doesn't have to have a good result, but after many years, you suddenly look up in the crowd and see her independent as a rock in the distance, you suddenly feel scared, suddenly tremble, and cry loudly, so the little cat can't say that it's almost to hate or die of anger. Marriage is when a married bride and groom live together. Of course, if there are blessings, their daily life in the future will be much smoother and more convenient.

If you don't get the blessing, you can get happiness and longevity.

I think that you should stick to a marriage that is not blessed, after all, if you are not blessed by anyone, you should live your own way and impress others.

Even if you don't get the blessing, it's nothing, as long as you live the life of the two of you, life is a matter for the two of you, and it's not for others to see, so you don't have to worry so much.