Is it necessary to continue a loveless marriage?

Updated on society 2024-06-03
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    A marriage without love is a crime. Personally, I think it's better to leave early and get rid of each other, because your divorce from each other also gives each other a space, not only you, but also let each other find the love you want, even if you have children, you don't delay, although you no longer love each other, but you love your children and have obligations. Isn't there an old saying, love is precious, and freedom is more expensive.

    So go for what you want.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In my eyes, there is no need for a loveless marriage. A person only has this short life, why not pursue their own happiness. Since two people have no love, there is no need to force them together.

    Choosing to let go and find their own happiness is the best solution for both parties.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It depends on the situation, if you can't go on, there is no need to continue, if the other party is good to you, then there is no difference whether there is love or not, marriage is not just to find someone who is good to you, someone you can accept, and live together for a lifetime? If you have to find someone you love, you can't help it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, in real life, many couples may not have a good relationship, but after having children, they will continue to live together because of the children. Because after all, the child is innocent, and it will cause a lot of harm to the child if two people are really separated. But personally, I will not insist on a loveless marriage.

    After all, two people live in the same space every day, there is no love, two people are like strangers, and I can't accept that kind of life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In the past, we all liked vigorous love, but after many people got married, two people slowly lived for the sake of rice, oil and salt, from love to family affection, and became relatives who loved each other, and both of them were used to each other.

    If there is really no love, then divorce, I think two people entered the palace of marriage together for love and spent a good life together. Even more uncomfortable than dying alone is dying with someone who makes you feel lonely.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then the question arises again, since you don't have love, why do you want to get married?

    So, you must think carefully before getting married, if the two of you are not in love and want to get married, then you need to think about what you will do in the future? After you have a child, there are some conflicts between two people and you want to divorce, so how can you? It's so unfair to the child.

    So I think if you don't have a loving marriage, if you don't have children, if you don't have children, if you have children, then go ahead.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If a loveless marriage is divorced immediately, I think most people in China are single. Marriage needs to be managed, even if two people don't feel heartbeat, they can become relatives. We should work hard to adapt to each other for the sake of our children and give them a complete home.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In my opinion, there is no need to continue, life is very short, of course, you have to be with the person you like, if there is no love, then what is the point of such a marriage, I hope we can all marry love, not marry reality, marry love is worthy of your short life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The first thing to understand is whether there is really no love, or whether life has diluted the feelings. If there is really no love, divorce is necessary. However, before divorcing, it is necessary to do a good job of ideological work for the children and both parents, and explain the reasons.

    There is no love between the two parties, and if they live together, it is just a waste of each other's time and energy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you are still young, there is still a long way to go before marriage, and you love the person who can't give you marriage in front of you now, you can try to continue this inconclusive love, on the contrary, you have reached the age of talking about marriage, you can no longer be irrational, love without marriage is destined to be broken, it is only a matter of time, and the longer it is, the deeper the damage to each other. So, if you really love the man you are getting along with now, end it, for his happiness, and for your happiness, we don't have too much youth to waste, if you can't give others happiness and commitment, give others a chance to love him well. What do you think?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You are simply contradictory to ask such a question. If you say there is no love, then why do you have to ask a boring question? Do you want to continue since you asked?

    I know that you must still love her. Maybe you feel tired of love now, and want to give up your relationship, you are a man, take out your broad shoulders generously and let your woman lean on.

    Not good? When you feel tired, won't your woman feel tired? If you really don't have love, I support you to break up, since you love, please be responsible for your love!

    I believe that while you sincerely give, you will also get a sincere return from the other party. Then if everyone has an attitude of just having fun, since you can say this kind of unloved, then I can say it too. Sometimes it's really impatient to think about this kind of face problem.

    Whether you still can't sleep or still care about each other in the dead of night, that is also clear in your own hearts. If you are thinking about this question in your heart, it proves that you still love her, please continue to love. Have faith in your love.

    Love is giving, not possession, tired, let your mood relax, your love please continue to persevere. Love is created by two people working together, believing in yourself and not getting lost. Unless you change your mind, still.

    There's a new hunting target! Hehe, just kidding. I'm sure you're not this kind of person, it's just a temporary hesitation!

    Here's wishing you all a happy and sweet day! Remember, no two in-laws will never have conflicts or quarrels, haven't you heard of a fight at the head of the bed and a fight at the end of the bed? Cherish it!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't love each other and find it very painful to live with them, then you can choose to divorce. After many people have been together for many years, love will slowly disappear, replaced by a kind of family affection, a kind of mutual support and mutual dependence. Love is not the whole story of marriage, there is also responsibility and gratitude.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Answer: First of all, ask why you feel that there is no love, no matter what the men and women say, they are irresponsible people, I don't know if there are any descendants, when they can come together, they still have feelings, and they have lived together for a long time, if there are no principled issues, there should be more love and love, unless now both parties, or one party has a new love, it is difficult to say, as for.

    Should the marriage continue, I think it's better to continue because the original match is the foundation, just say that there is no love for so many years, family affection is still there, don't give up, give up and regret it in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No matter what happens, marriage is not child's play, since you have entrusted the next life to him, learn to tolerate, but when you can't see hope behind him, separate it.

    He looks towards his parents and doesn't consider your feelings, it's not filial piety, it's a bit selfish. It's your thing, I'm just suggesting. Such a man, you'd better discuss it with him, and if it doesn't work, just separate.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Some people get married for love, and some people get married for the sake of getting married, which may be related to the problems of the two families, marriage is a big deal, so it is best to follow your heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When a woman became a lady, she liked a ruffian man, and when she came back and said to her husband that she had no love, you said whether you wanted to let it go, her husband loved her very much, even if she was a lady, she loved her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think a loving marriage should continue any longer.

    I met my ex-husband in the fifth grade of elementary school, and he started to have a crush on me in junior high school and started writing me love letters in high school. I went to college, fell in love, had a boyfriend, and he continued to write to me and hit **. When I graduated from college, I chose to be with him in '05.

    We got married in '09, had children in '11, and divorced in '18. From '05 to '18, we have been living apart.

    Later, when I got married, many friends envied me and said that I was married to love. But in fact, love is really easy to die in the trivial things of life. Especially after a long period of separation, the two people's contributions to the family are not equal, the two people lack effective communication, and they do not understand and understand each other's ......Not to mention the process, anyway, the two of them have become dissatisfied in this relationship, very aggrieved, and angry.

    In the end, two people have nothing to say at all, they don't like each other, and any small thing will cause a quarrel. On the day of the divorce, I felt like I was finally free.

    I believe in love, but I also believe that love dies. Feelings need to be maintained and operated. And it has to be a joint effort on both sides, and it has to be balanced.

    Anyway, if any relationship fails, both parties will be at fault, and it can't be the fault of one person. I'm 37 years old now, and I still have hope and I still believe in love. I'm also afraid of getting hurt.

    But there is hope.

    Loveless marriage is a pain in itself, and it is also a kind of torture for children, and during the two years when I was struggling with whether to divorce, I went to marriage counseling classes and read all kinds of psychological books......But emotional matters are really not something that can be worked on alone. In those two years, I was really miserable, like a trapped beast. Until you make up your mind to divorce.

    Life is so long, you shouldn't trap yourself in a cage. First, you have to get out. Then you should believe in love and be brave enough to love.

    You can also choose to talk to the other person, and if the other person also thinks that your marriage is completely loveless and has turned life into a torment, then separation is also a good choice. Whether the two are together or separated, feeling happier is the goal.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Loveless marriages should not continue. Because being together like this will only make it more uncomfortable for two people to be together, and it is also a waste of each other's time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think we should continue to talk about loveless marriages. I think that the front belt is wasting his life and wasting time Qi Feng in the waves. And everyone only has one life, and I feel like I have to live my own life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It depends on the situation, there is no love, but if both parties respect each other, it can still continue, and after a long time, family affection may arise.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If it is said that it is financially inseparable from each other, then it needs to continue, and if it can be independent, then a loveless marriage should not continue.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you have children, you should continue, and if you don't have children, I don't think there is any need for such a marriage to continue.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think there is any need to continue a marriage without affection. If the feelings of two people are slowly exhausted in the process of getting along, this proves that the two sides are not suitable to do a front, if they are forced to stay together, it will only cause more contradictions, after all, feelings are the basis for two people to live, without feelings, two people may be strangers in life, so it is also a better choice for two people to choose to give up and leave early.

    Marriage requires mutual respect and understanding. If two people are no longer in love, then this marriage will also become a bondage for two people, the reason why we get married, the reason is that two people love each other, and hope to live happily for a lifetime in the future, when the feelings of two people slowly fade at this time the husband and wife must learn to maintain together, rather than let the relationship gradually break down, in daily life, to learn to share good things with each other, but also to assume their own responsibilities, so that the relationship between two people will become more solid.

    Nowadays, the divorce rate in the country is getting higher and higher, and the reason for this is that many marriages lack affection. Get along together, often because of some trivial matters and care, we can imagine a pure reunion, if two people do not love each other, but have to live for a lifetime, what a painful and uncomfortable thing, so we must not impulsively get married in life, we must meet our own suitable person and the object of love, so that the marriage can last for a long time.

    Many people think that once two people get married, even if there is no emotion, they can live for a long time, I think this is a wrong concept, marriage must bring happiness and happiness to two people, rather than bring pain and confusion, when two people do have no feelings, don't hold each other tightly, but try to find or burn to find the person they really love, after all, the world is so big, we will continue to meet many people, rather than struggling to maintain an emotionless marriage.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There are three types of marriages without love, one should not be concluded in the first place, the cost of living is much greater than the cost of divorce, and the cost of living after divorce is much higher than the cost of living in marriage.

    The first type is loveless from the beginning, and marriage is nothing more than a choice for profit and survival.

    Life is very realistic, but our hearts are more practical, loveless marriage is the wrong choice from the beginning, how can it last. This kind of marriage is good to leave early, otherwise it is harmful to others and oneself, the second type has love at the beginning, but there is no love after living, such a relationship, love, repentance, hard work, through these, the cost of living is much greater than the cost of divorce, letting go is the greatest love for each other. The marriage of many people in the third category is such an intersection, in order to be together, two people worked hard to move towards each other, but after they were really together, they gradually drifted apart, ignoring each other's common growth.

    In fact, there is a foundation for this relationship, and there is a better way out than divorce.

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