Is it true that men want to get married more than women?

I think it should be.

In my case, many men I have met are in a hurry to get married more than women. I still remember my first blind date, when the man came directly to my house with his mother, sat for a while and then added a WeChat and left, after going back, he told me that he thought I was very suitable, and talked about marriage the next day, but I didn't plan to get married so soon for the time being, so there was no follow-up. There was another blind date, although the other party didn't bring his mother, but he was twenty-nine, and when chatting, he said that he wanted to get married before the age of thirty, but it was only a few months, and I felt too eager and refused.

Women may be more emotional, it's not that they don't want to get married, they just crave more beautiful love. Marriage is a reality, and it is too realistic, after a woman gets married, most of them do housework, have children, have to work, and even have to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, while men only need to do one thing well, that is, work. The burden imposed on women by this society is too heavy, it is not that we do not desire to get married, it is not that we do not desire to have a family, but we are more eager for people who can make us willing to pay for it than this real life.

The heroine played by Song Qian in the recently hit "Next Stop Happiness" said on a blind date that although she is thirty-two years old, she still wants to have a good relationship. That's what I think, and I think a lot of girls think that.

How to say it, this society is so realistic, so realistic that many women have to be single to put themselves in a safe zone. My parents have always thought that I am unmarried, but I am not, and I am also eager to fall in love and get married, but every time I am forced to go on a blind date, when I see the man so eager to talk about marriage, I will feel that it is too unfair to me, so I can only refuse again and again, and tell myself again and again that it is better to be single. Here, I really hope that men are sometimes not too realistic, put away those eager thoughts, and give some sincerity first.

There are more men than women, and the competition is fierce, so if there is a woman who loves each other, they will get married early.

It is true that there are many boys who want to get married more than girls, and they want to give girls a stable and comfortable family, which is why many boys work very hard.

It's not very clear, but as a man, I do have a stronger desire to get married than my partner, and I feel that only by getting married can I give him a reassuring home.

I think so, because a man feels that only when a married woman really belongs to him, then he will feel more secure.

It is normal for a man to marry a woman. Is there any truth to the statement that men want to get married more than women compared to women? I think there's some truth to that.

Because men are still relatively big in today's society and need women to take care of themselves, many men are urged to marry by their parents, hoping that they can find a woman who can take care of themselves as soon as possible. Traditionally, a man marries early to pass on the family lineage.

1. Men lack the skills to take care of themselves

We have discussed a topic together before, saying that in this current society, is it more necessary for leftover men to find a partner, or for leftover women to find a partner? We said that leftover men need to find a partner, and some netizens came out to refute it at that time, saying that men nowadays are very good at taking care of themselves and do not lack life skills. But I think that many men around me just lack some life skills, first of all, they can't cook, they can't do laundry, they can't take care of themselves.

So from this point of view, I think that men are more terrible not to get married, and even more terrible to not find a wife to take care of their own food and daily life. Because we often see a man with a family in life, always dressed neatly and red, because that is a sign of their happiness, because there is a woman by his side who is taking care of him. On the contrary, those single dogs are sloppy every day because of the lack of care from women around them, and no one cares about them at a glance.

2. Urged to marry by his parents, he must pass on the ancestry

Because our country is a traditional country, it has been like this for thousands of years, and the big husband has to start a family. As a man who is not married, has no family lineage, his parents, his family is to be laughed at by the outside world. So there is such a saying in our society, no matter how ugly a woman is, she will get married, but there are many very good men who are singles.

As a man, he may need a woman to take care of him in life, at least he can eat a hot meal, and his clothes can be washed by someone, this is the least happiness as a man, our life is nothing more than this!

Each of us is a very ordinary person, and we all want to live an ordinary life, and someone will take care of three meals a day. Someone washes us in the room, gives us children, and passes on our ancestry, so that men have more strength to fight outside, because the motive of your struggle is for your wife and your children. Isn't that correct?

I think ordinary people are such ordinary thoughts.

As the saying goes, "the son is the mother's guts, and the son is the father's might", so, in the past, a man's greatest willingness was to hope that he could have a group of wives and concubines, in addition to showing off that he was a successful man, the most fundamental reason was to hope to give birth to his own children, the more the better, representing his own strength.

Especially the strength of genes, will not be bullied by others, especially hope that their lives can be inherited by their sons forever, especially giving birth to more sons is the hope of men, this phenomenon can not be ignored even today, especially in Guangdong, Hainan, Hong Kong, Macao and other provinces and regions This phenomenon is still quite serious.

This is also the fundamental reason for the serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women in China, and it is the root cause of the more serious illegitimate children in these places, the richer the family, the more they want to have sons, although the children are their own descendants, but the sons represent the existence and reproduction of a family or clan in the traditional concept.

It is true that men are more afraid of loneliness than women, and they need someone to take care of the household chores for them before they can do their work with more peace of mind.

In fact, this statement is also incorrect, in fact, if the relationship between a man and a woman is quite mature, both of them want to get married, after all, creating a beautiful family together is the continuation of the emotions of two people, and it is also the best performance.

Therefore, the emotional dedication of men and women, when it is appropriate, the desire of two people to get married is very strong, so men want to get married more than women, this statement is not comprehensive, in fact, the love is deep, the willingness to marry is also the same, and they must reach a consensus with each other before they want to get married.

Men are anxious to get married, and many men want to eat hot tofu in one bite. But the woman's hot tofu always makes them feel uneasy, and it is better to cook rice quickly.

Because the current social situation is that the ratio of men and women is out of balance! There are several times more men than women, and men want to get married early because they are afraid that they won't be able to marry a wife!

<> "What is the difference between the idea of marriage between a man and a woman?"

It turns out that men and women have such different views on marriage, what is the difference between men and women's ideas of marriage? Ask a man casually, do you think marrying Gao Yuanyuan is the same as marrying Erhua from the next village? Actually, girls, you have to understand a truth, the person you like doesn't like you, and his underlying logic is that the person you like feels that he is with you, he loses, and he thinks you are not worthy of him.

So many boys feel that weighing the pros and cons is very stupid, and the RV and bride price have a basic price in their hearts, and if they exceed the price in their hearts, they will involuntarily think about whether this matter is worth it. Lap Sun.

The last thing they accept is to use love to kidnap substances. Your emotional control, spending habits, and dealings with others are also very important measures for them. Then don't blame the girl, you weigh the pros and cons, marriage is a two-way choice after an unexpected encounter, the encounter is emotional and random, and the choice is rational and inevitable.

The most terrifying point of men is that they can choose their love partners and marriage partners separately, and in the hearts of most men, falling in love and getting married are two things.

The man knows very well what kind of girl is suitable for falling in love with him, what kind of girl is suitable for marriage, the appearance is compatible, and the personality is what he wants, he will enter a long-term relationship, and in the long-term relationship, he will measure whether this girl is worth it for them to enter a more stable relationship.

However, girls have a different starting point, they can step into marriage for love. As soon as the novelty came and the love came up, many sisters didn't have time to take care of the boy's original family.

Don't think that what I like is him, and it's not marrying his family, this idea is too simple, after getting married, you will find that the influence of the original family is too great, not that the two of you can change it if you don't have a simple love, you can't change him. Marriage is the overlap of two families, the union of two people, and the union of soul and body.

I think if two people are together, it is a sublimation, he should not lower his quality of life and everything, he should go up, that is right, two people will get better and better, you must love yourself.

1. Marriage is to be able to be better together.

In the past, there was a very popular saying on the Internet that marriage is the grave of love, but this sentence is actually wrong. If two people really love each other, they must work very hard, and in order to be better together, they will consider getting married, and even various life matters after marriage.

Only after two people who love each other get married and become a family can they reflect Pi Crackgao's loyalty to love. Only a stable marriage can have a better love, marriage is the beginning of love, but also the best interpretation of love. 2. Marriage is to create a new home for each other's love.

When you have love, you are just love for each other. You also have to live under the care of your family, and you will also maintain your love under the various teachings of others. At this time, even if you live together, you will still have some mustard more or less, after all, you are not too firm about the future.

But when you get married, it means that you are a family, and you have a complete family of your own. In this family, you can do what you like each other, and you don't have to worry about all kinds of nagging from your elders, you have become independent from your elders. 3. Conquer you with action.

I remember seeing such a question, Yuanyuan girl will call the police when she hears her boyfriend say? A girl said that no matter how uncomfortable she was or how sick she was, the other party would let her drink more hot water. This kind of advice is the hardest, especially for people in long-distance relationships.

Everyone will say words of comfort, whether it is someone they care about or someone who cares about themselves, they will say words of comfort to comfort others when they are sad. But no amount of comfort can compare to a warm embrace, and every night he is awakened by a nightmare while sleeping in the middle of the night, it is not as good as the way he opens his eyes and complains that he is stupid. Love needs action, not advice.