After getting married, what s different about the New Year?

After getting married, the expenses for the New Year have become larger, buying gifts for the elders, giving red envelopes to the younger generations, and worrying about more things.

There are quite a lot of different places, and the family is a lot more lively, and you need to go to the New Year in person, and you will send red envelopes to your juniors.

After getting married, I can't eat at my own house on the first day of the Lunar New Year, but I have to go to my husband's house to eat. I can only go back to my parents' house when I am in the second year of junior high school.

After getting married, the Chinese New Year is still different. For example, after getting married, the New Year is spent with another person, and maybe there will be children in a few years.

There will be a big difference, for example, if you want to go out to pay New Year's greetings, you don't have a lot of trivial things, and you have to be busy by yourself, which feels particularly troublesome.

After getting married, I became an adult in the real sense, so when I met a relative's child during the Chinese New Year, I had to give a red envelope, and I had to give a red envelope to the child during the first Spring Festival after marriage.

In China, getting married is the real way to become an adult. After getting married, you have to prepare New Year's goods, visit both parents, give the children New Year's money, and take responsibility.

After I got married, the Chinese New Year became completely different from when I was a child, and after I became a person with a family, I couldn't rest as much as I wanted like when I was a child.

During the Chinese New Year, you need to spend time with your husband's family, and you need to go to relatives and introduce yourself, and you also need to take your husband to your home to visit relatives and introduce your husband to your family and relatives and friends;

After marriage, I am really tired for the New Year, and I have to cook some food every day, or give some money to my children, and I have to do it every day.

is the idea that you need to take care of your wife, and you have to go back to your wife's maiden home to have a look at it on the first day of junior high school and pay a New Year's greeting to your mother-in-law.

When you get married, you are no longer a child, you are already an adult, and then you need to give money to others.

After getting married, the difference between the New Year and the New Year is that I went back to my own family for the New Year.

After the marriage, you have to give red envelopes to the children for the New Year, and you have to be busy with a lot of things after the marriage.

After getting married, I think I want to give red envelopes to others, so I feel very helpless.

There are no hard and fast requirements for this, but isn't it normal to be together when you get married? Not being together will make people feel like two people are in conflict or something.

After getting married, I went back to my own house for the New Year, and my wife and I went back to my parents' house for the New Year. Then I went back to my house for the New Year in the second year of junior high school. Going home is the taste of longing for me, that is, going home to accompany my parents and have a reunion dinner together.

Because there are people I miss there, and there is a warmth that will always belong to me.

The meaning of going home is to see the people you love and care about. Home is a safe haven for anyone, it can carry your inner anxiety and hesitation, and will dissolve the endless panic in your heart. What about children? I don't have it now, and I don't know.

But I know that the child is the center of the family, and he balances two people who love each other. In other words, he should represent the future of two people who love each other. Although it is very hard to raise children, we think about it, if our parents thought that we were a burden and would add a burden to the family, why didn't they give up raising us because of hard work.

Raising a child is difficult, this is a big journey, when the child grows up, understands everything in the world, and can bear all the time, at that moment, you are already old, and then you will understand what the child means to you.

Parents are the roots, and hometown is the roots. The roots are there, and even if there are thousands of mountains and rivers, they are also blocking the way for them to find their roots.

Home, the direction in which we will never get lost. Returning to the future, home is the place where we can sleep peacefully.

But now, with the development of society, the pure meaning of going home has gradually blurred. People go home to avoid the pressures of reality; Those who go home with frustration; There are those who are looking for a peace of mind and go home. Socialization diversifies the meaning of going home, and going home gradually becomes stereotyped.

Chinese New YearDuring the Chinese New Year, most people have enough vacation to return to their hometown, and the arrangement of life events is of course in front of them when they have enough time, so there are many people who choose to get married during the New Year.

Is it good to get married during the New Year?

1.The benefits of getting married during the Spring Festival.

If you get married during the Chinese New Year, most of your friends and family will take a holiday and can find time to attend the wedding. The more guests who attend the wedding, the more festive and lively the scene will be, and the better the atmosphere of the wedding will be. And the Spring Festival itself is a happy event, if you get married during the Spring Festival, it can be regarded as a double happiness.

2.The disadvantages of getting married during the Spring Festival.

In some places, there is a custom that you cannot marry during the Spring Festival, believing that getting married during the Spring Festival is not good for the elders. If there is such a custom in the local area, it is best not to choose to get married during the Spring Festival. If the couple gets married during the Spring Festival, they need to plan a wedding at the end of the year.

The end of the year is usually very busy, and the preparation is generally overwhelming, which can also lead to incomplete wedding preparations.

Is it okay to get married during the Spring Festival.

1.Local traditions.

In many areas of our country, there is the custom of "not marrying, not marrying", which means that you do not marry a wife in the first month, and you do not get engaged in the first month. If you get engaged or married at these two times, it will not be good for the man's parents and elders, and it will have a negative impact. If this custom is revered locally, it should be noted that it is not suitable for marriage during the Spring Festival.

2.Arrange your wedding in advance.

The Spring Festival is a traditional festival and a legal holiday, and most people have a holiday. Many people hold birthday banquets and class reunions around the Spring Festival, so it is difficult to determine the hotel. And during the Spring Festival, the hotel's main service is a reunion dinner, not a wedding banquet.

It is difficult to book a wedding hotel for the Spring Festival, so many people do not choose to get married during the Spring Festival.

3.Arrangements for the Spring Festival.

Spring Festival, that is, the first day of the lunar New Year, the first day of the first month, this day is very important. Most people will go back to their hometown to worship their ancestors on this day, and there is a special Spring Festival arrangement. If you get married on the first day of the Lunar New Year, friends and relatives will not have time to attend the wedding.

Moreover, it is very busy to buy New Year's goods and visit relatives before and after the Spring Festival, and most people are not free.

After getting married, I think it's okay to go back to your home for the New Year.

The premise is that the two need to negotiate first.

Many of our post-90s generations are only children, and there is only one child in the family. Many people will say "married a daughter and poured water". Because the girl is married, she must give priority to her husband's family in everything.

For example, when a married woman returns home for the New Year, she usually spends Chinese New Year's Eve at her in-law's house. Their families went round after round and did not return to their parents until the next day. However, this is unfair to the girl's parents.

They will celebrate the New Year alone in the Chinese New Year's Eve, and parents are very eager for their children. Usually everyone is busy with work, and parents are looking forward to reuniting with their children for a period of time during the Chinese New Year. Some girls who marry far away do not have holidays at all and can only give up and return to their parents.

A lot of data shows that many couples in marriages will quarrel over whose house they are going to for the Chinese New Year. A lot of arguments end because of the woman's compromise. Instead of quarreling for the New Year, it is better to go home to find your mother.

Although the Spring Festival is a traditional festival of reunion and joy, it is not possible to reunite many couples during the Spring Festival. It may be that one party sticks to work and the other goes home to spend time with their parents. It could also be that everyone went back to their own house to find their mother.

Both husband and wife need to be considerate of each other's needs. Now that you have decided to separate for the New Year, you should be considerate of each other. Don't be indignant and affect the relationship between husband and wife.

So. Which couples will go back to their respective homes for the New Year.

First, both spouses are only children, or one of them is an only child.

In order to prevent excessive population growth, the country's "one-child" policy is mainly aimed at children born in the post-80s and post-90s. Most of these children are only children, if not all, but they are still a minority. So, here's the problem.

Both husband and wife are only children. Which should I go to during the Chinese New Year? Both husband and wife must want to go back to see their parents, not to visit their parents-in-law.

Children can't bear to let their parents accompany them for the Spring Festival, and they want to accompany their parents more, which is out of filial piety and the source of contradictions. To solve the contradiction of an only child, you can only take turns to go back to your in-laws' house and your in-laws' house once a year, and no one suffers.

It is indeed a question of the century for couples to go back to whose house it is for the New Year. Nowadays, many families are single-person families, and it is really a headache to go back to their parents' house for the New Year after marriage. I recommend going home.

The man does not ask her husband to come home, and the woman does not ask the man to go home. Although they are married, they are all shouting for their parents. In fact, there is only one real parent, and no one wants to miss every New Year as much as they do.