I love my boyfriend, but he s too grumpy

Well, I'm afraid I can't help it all of a sudden.

The personality is still quite difficult to change, otherwise he would have changed it after so many years.

But the heart will still become less impulsive as you get older, which is also related to the subtle influence of the people around you.

It's not easy to find someone you love, don't break up at every turn, and don't be blindly confident that this is your killer feature, "breaking up" is very hurtful. Maybe it becomes real when you talk about it.

You objectively think about what is good about him, do you think you can easily leave him and forget him, and find a better person to love you like him? Many couples in the world have discord, and they can only be reconciled by tolerance.

When he's angry, let him and follow him. When he is good-tempered, persuade him and wake him up. He'll be ashamed.

When you are short-tempered, it is his impulsiveness at that time, and you can't think calmly, so you have a calmer mind (say to yourself that I'm not angry, I'm not angry) and be more considerate of him. I believe that as long as you continue to complement each other, you will run in more, and you can also extinguish his irritable furnace.

I wish you all happiness!

Grumpy people are really depressing, if you can accept it, be with him, change him, if you can't accept it, then break up, you can't die sad for a lifetime.

Have a good talk with him: If you are so grumpy, will you be happy after marriage? If you break up like this, forget it.

You talk to her about it, and you say: a good man will not let his woman get hurt in the slightest.

Have a good talk with him, immature boy.

If you are grumpy, you will make him irritable, and if you are done making trouble, you will not make trouble

All of these examples you give show that he cares about you.

Since he says that he loves you very much and treats you very well, then give him advice, as long as the people who care about you will correct their mistakes and show their best in front of you. Tell him what is bad about him, what is his temper. And then I asked him to make changes and threatened him with a few points, such as if you don't change, then I will be angry.

Or a more severe punishment. Let him realize his mistakes. If he doesn't want to change or doesn't, then basically he doesn't love you.

You don't have as much of a role to him as he has. There wasn't much place in his heart.

The second way is not to let him lose his temper and do things that make him impeccable, so that he can't find fault in everything. Do everything to the best of your ability.

This is the second method, but I suggest the first method, which may be more efficient. If he changes, it means that he will love you more.

Your boyfriend loves you very much and treats you very well.

If you can put up with his temper, you continue to associate with him.

It's better to stay away early, after all, love is not a short-term thing, and if it's good for you, your boyfriend shouldn't let you feel his bad temper.

It depends on whether you can accept your boyfriend's temper, if you can't accept it, then even if he treats you well, you can say that you will be separated early, after all, you two will have to live a lifetime.

Leave this situation quickly, consider his personality, now it is like this, and in the future family life, it is easier to have conflicts.

You can talk to him well and let him restrain his temper.

As long as your boyfriend loves you very much, that's enough, and you should tolerate your boyfriend's shortcomings for other things, after all, everyone has shortcomings, as long as your boyfriend is very good to you, I think you should go to be with your boyfriend.

Category: Annoyances >> in love.

Problem description: Describe my boyfriend: kind, upright, caring, bad-tempered, and temperamental, cautious, and impulsive. But he loved me and loved me very much.

But the way he started his temper was really unbearable, and even for a little thing, the words he said were particularly hurtful, and they could really make you angry at that time. And he beat me too. But I love him, and I know he's a good guy at heart.

What am I going to do.

Analysis: Landlord, your situation is similar to me, my boyfriend is also very bad, especially when he is angry, he will always say something very bad to me, I love him very much, so every time I quarrel, I will endure it, but sometimes I will think about whether he really loves me? Why do you always say such ugly things to me, so that I myself am in a state of confusion now.

It's forgivable for a man to say angry words when he's angry, but it's very wrong to hit the landlord (you) a woman who really loves her, I'm personally very against violence, don't make yourself unhappy and don't let yourself be wronged, if you really love him, you can talk to him calmly and see what he says, if he makes a mistake again, I think you should think about whether this man is worth paying for him so much.

I wish you happiness...