I feel like I m helpless, what does it mean to be helpless, what does it mean to be helpless

Don't be discouraged, no one is born a genius. Don't look at those geniuses on TV who are proud of their talents, and they are casual all day long, they are all lies, and in real life, I haven't heard of anyone who is idle and has risen to prominence. And I think you have some cowardice and dare not face the cruelty of life, be brave and strong!

It is recommended that you talk to a psychologist at your school.

I'm a heart teacher, and if you can't find someone to talk to, you can find me.

Don't think so, in fact, there will be a lot of good friends around you that you haven't noticed, and I sometimes feel like you, but if you think about it, you can find out what the problem is. It's up to you! Cheer up!

Why don't you go and become a monk, Amitabha.

Calm your mind and be confident in yourself, people always have strengths.

1. Hesitation and no assistance.

2. 尷徨 (pinyin páng huáng) is also known as "side emperor", a Chinese word.

It means wandering around, hesitating, not knowing which direction to go. It also indicates restlessness and uncertainty.

3. Helplessness: There is only one person or one side of pure distressed power, and there is no external assistance.

1. It's right to feel helpless, so that you can understand who your noble person is. It's right if you think you're confused, whose youth isn't confused. It's right for you to feel lonely, it's an opportunity for you to get to know yourself.

You feel right not to be understood, and that's an opportunity for you to recognize your friends. You think it's right to be dark, so you can tell what your light is.

2. Sometimes it is like being tightly surrounded by a thick fog, and only you can understand the confusion and helplessness. Although I am a little lonely, although I am confused and helpless, I still face it bravely, because this is my youth, not someone else's, only me.

3. Helplessness, grief, and despair should not be the expression of this world. In times when there is no peace, we who live in a peaceful country may appreciate this sentence together: peace is like air and sunshine, you don't realize it when you benefit it, and it is difficult to survive if you lose it.

4. When you are helpless, you find that there is no one who can shake hands; When I have insomnia, I find that there is no person who can chat; When you make a mistake, you find that the person who can understand does not; When I shed tears, I found that there was no one who could comfort me; When you are disappointed, you find that there is no one who can be encouraged; When I was confused, I realized that there was no one who could read!

5. When you are helpless, all you need is courage; When you wander like this, all you need is a kind of support. A person who understands you is better than thousands of passers-by; A word that understands you is more than countless comforts. The person who really understands you is the reason for your peace of mind, and the person who wants to help you will do everything to help you no matter how difficult it is!

6. The right foot is your life, and the left foot is your life in the eyes of others. So never envy someone else's life, even if that person seems happy and rich. Never judge someone else's happiness, even if that person seems lonely and helpless.

7. Dear girl, when you are hesitant, helpless, incomprehensible, desperate, full of anger, and bent on questioning, I hope you can be quiet. You have to understand that not all beautiful beginnings will have beautiful endings, and not all good things can be cultivated. Sometimes, we just don't know what's wrong, and that's life.

8. The strength of the heart is not that there is no compassion, and sometimes it is more helpless.

9. All successful people often have to go through a period of helplessness. Like the darkness before the dawn, when it is over, the sky is bright. The so-called Maxima is not necessarily the fastest runner, but Sensong must have the best endurance.

You can complain, but you have to be patient; You can be lonely, but you can't be silent. Only by enduring loneliness can we keep prosperity.

10. There is a difference between people's luck and prosperity, and people often seem at a loss and helpless when faced with an unknowable number of fate.

A person has a hundred years and a thousand years, and a thousand years of practice.

Human life is in the vast world or.

In just a moment, I shuddered slightly.

You can be lost, but you can't linger forever.

Everyone in the world looks for the future from the original self, and everyone finds the direction from the original future. Everyone thinks that everyone is an individual, we always think that we are different from others, disdain and disagree, we are young to call it personality, but we don't know that everyone has a personality, they will bring you hope and disappointment in your future life.

Today's young people will be confused, will hesitate, because they don't know what kind of life they need, even if they know what kind of life they need, but they don't pay for such a life to set goals, most of the time they will feel self-pity, feel that they don't have a blind idea about the future, living in the present is the only hope they have, watching the life that passes in panic, slowly being eroded by society, becoming the legacy of the bottom of the society's accusation against the world.

The confusion of young people comes from the lack of self-positioning, but also the lack of understanding of themselves, they are generally divided into two types:

The timid man never gets the chance of candy, he can only eat the rest of the bread.

People can't be a person who pretends to be asleep for a lifetime to spend the most important time in your life, you should enrich your life, confusion is a process that everyone will experience, it is a time for you to have time to enrich yourself and improve yourself, what you should do is not only to formulate your own direction and future, but more importantly, what kind of mentality to live, don't put all the focus on tangling, let alone put all the mentality on the choice.

You have to know that doing is equal to possibility, not doing is equal to not being, God will not give you all the success completely, your confusion comes from your determination to lose the battle against the water, and your hesitation comes from the determination that you have been ready to fight against the water, and you do not have the courage. Everyone has determination and courage, and what you need is what you have, so all you should do is do it, do it.

Indulging in hesitation and powerlessness every day doesn't really change anything about you. Never. All you can do is get up right away and change yourself. Remember, it's not too late to make amends, and even more so that you're not sinking now.

Go do something that interests you. And immerse yourself in it, you will feel a lot of different pleasures, this kind of fun can make you feel the meaning of life. That's how many great men have been accomplished.

If you like books, you read books, you write books, you like skateboarding, you practice, you like food, you cook, you like basketball and football, you go to sports. Gradually, you will feel the incomparable fun of life.

Read more books, Mr. Yang Jiang said that the reason why you have so many troubles is mostly because you read too few books and think too much. In fact, many questions about life suddenly became clear in the process of reading and reading. Many times, you will look back at your current self only to realize that the problems you are struggling with now seem to you to be a stupid waste of time at that time.

Instead of lingering in place, it's not too late to pack your bags and go. Complaining all day long here can't change anything, it's better to make your days and life more fulfilling. <>

I used to be like you, thinking about the meaning of life all day long, and I was also so hesitant and powerless, full of confusion, and I didn't know where to go. Then one day, I realized that the most sinful thing in life is such a waste, we just need to tell ourselves to go on step by step, and one day you will understand what you want.

Every day, if you feel hesitant and weak, is it not feeling well, so you are not in a good state, it is recommended that you first go to the doctor to see if you are sick. If you are sure that you are not sick, you are just mentally hesitant and powerless. I think you may be because you don't have a clear goal for yourself, all the days are more hesitant, confused, feel boring, powerless, don't know what to do, what kind of goal to work towards.

If it's just mental hesitation and powerlessness, I think you can take a good look at your current state first, and then think carefully about what kind of person you want to become and what kind of life you want to live in the future. Then set yourself a clear goal and work towards your goal step by step. I believe you won't feel hesitant and powerless every day like you are now.

When setting a goal for yourself, you must first choose a goal that is in line with your actual situation, and this goal can be achieved through your own efforts. Set a goal for yourself not too high and not too low, if the goal is too high, it is difficult to achieve and easy to get discouraged, and if the goal is too low, it is easy to achieve and easy to overestimate yourself. Of course, this goal must not be a hole, if the goal is a hole, you will also feel hesitant and powerless every day.

If there is no standard by which you can judge whether an empty goal has been achieved, then you don't know how to put in practical actions to achieve it.

In addition, you can read more books to recharge yourself and enrich your life during the holidays. Every day you feel hesitant and powerless, in fact, it also reflects that your life is relatively empty and unfulfilling, you don't know what to do, and you seem to have nothing to do every day.

So set yourself a clear goal to make your life fuller, and you won't feel hesitant and powerless every day.

Go do something meaningful, make your life a little more fulfilling, if you live such a purposeless life every day, then you will feel very bored day by day, and you don't even have any motivation. Be sure to find a goal for yourself, so that you can be fulfilled, and when you encounter hesitation and powerlessness, think about those who are better than yourself are still working hard, and you have no reason not to work hard.

Go and read more books, books are really spiritual food, you can take books as your friends, look at the stories of friends, you can learn a lot from books, read more books, you can find the most authentic self in books. Books can make an irritable person slowly calm down, and let a person who has no goal find the goal, so read more books to let yourself get inner improvement.

When you are hesitant, you can go to your good friends to chat for a while, divert your attention, sometimes find someone to talk to is very relieved of your emotions, because you are depressed, so you will feel very powerless every day, and even when you open your eyes every day, you are resistant, and you don't want to contact this too real world.

Go and see Chicken Soup for the Soul, look at other people's stories, and motivate yourself, Chicken Soup for the Soul can inspire others to a certain extent, even if it can't have a long-term impact, but the short-term impact is still okay. Find something that interests you to do, if you don't know what you're interested in, then try more, you will definitely find something you are interested in, so that you will not be so hesitant.

As long as you find something to do, then you won't wander every day, but when you are looking for something, don't do something meaningless, do something that can improve yourself, so that you will get spiritual satisfaction.

First of all, I think you should have your own dreams, because when a person has something in his heart, then every day of his life will be full of meaning, and he will continue to strive towards his dreams, so that his life will not feel hesitant. If you feel that the dream is too far away, then set a short-term goal for yourself, work hard for this short-term goal every day, when you achieve this goal, you will feel that life is full of meaning, and then set the next goal to complete, after he completes it again and again, you will find that it is not far from your dream, look back and look again, you will find how beautiful life is.

Secondly, I think you can also seek help from friends, because whenever you feel powerless, you will definitely feel very lonely, if you have friends by your side at this time, you will feel very gentle, plus friends enlighten you, show you the direction of life, as the so-called "a word to wake up the dreamer", help me at this time you will suddenly understand, life will not be so confused.

Of course, the most important thing is that I think you should still have a positive heart, because only when you are full of interest in life, you can be full of endless motivation and strive for your own happy life. Therefore, whatever you do is in your heart, and your heart is towards the light, waiting for life to be bright!

You can also go to someone you love, when you have love in your heart, you will feel that the world is full of beauty, and you will also work hard for your loved one, and live every day to the fullest, so that you will not feel powerless.

In my opinion, you feel hesitant and powerless every day because you have nothing to do every day, and as long as you make yourself full, you will not feel hesitant and powerless. Now, let me tell you how to do it.

One: Learn English. Although Chinese is the most used need in the world, but English is the most used in the world, you learn English, it will be much more convenient to go out and do anything in the future, anyway, you are fine, why not learn for a while?

English is difficult to learn, but as long as you learn a little bit every day, your English level will be very good in the long run, and you will become very confident when you go out, so that others will envy you.

Two: Make an appointment with your friends to travel. I think a person's travel is boring, boring, and will make you hesitant and powerless, so I suggest that you still call your friends to go on a cheerful trip together.

Having a companion can not only chat during the trip, but also share each other's experiences, and can enlighten you, make you happy, and no longer become hesitant and powerless.

Three: fitness. I believe that no one will feel that their body is the most perfect body in the world, even if there is such a person, but you are definitely not such a person, so since there is nothing to do, go to exercise, which can not only enhance your physical fitness, but also eliminate toxins in your body, and let you forget your hesitation and powerlessness.

Four: Play games. Playing games once in a while is beneficial, it can make you feel full, you can make yourself happy, and you can change your mindset.

I hope my advice can help you become less hesitant and powerless.