Will you be happy by digging into the wall?

Do you think you'll be happy? Obviously, it is impossible to get happiness, after all, it is you who dig the wall, not your ......

I believe that the first half of my life has been ignited in the first half of my life, I believe that many people who like to chase dramas or hear about it have understood the plot, the TV series "The First Half of My Life" is based on the famous writer Yishu's name**, the plot tells the story of the housewife Zijun who indulges in a pampered life, and is not aware of the hidden marital crisis at all, until one day her husband suddenly filed for divorce.

For Zijun, who has been married for eight years, it is tantamount to a bolt from the blue. Zijun couldn't accept this cruel truth and wanted to save Junsheng, but Junsheng had already made up his mind. With the encouragement of his friends Tang Jing and He Han, Zijun faced his marriage problems.

Zijun saw how cunning and full of vitality the women at work were, and Ling Ling's old age and decrepit children could win Junsheng's righteousness, she finally saw the world clearly and worked very hard to achieve her own career. Ling Ling is indeed a patient and calm woman, however, her unhappy life often makes her feel uneasy, and she is uneasy about the unknown answer to the question of whether reaping marriage is the beginning of her happy life. And all the things she did later also made Chen Junsheng understand that he missed a good match Zijun and put himself in trouble......

Indeed, this plot is quite evocative, and they are all discussing the deserving of Jun Sheng and Ling Ling, in fact, there are a lot of such things in real life, the so-called junior is driving away the original match, but can you really get the so-called happiness by digging the wall? From ancient times to the present, whether it is sung by the drama or passed down by history, the current life has not received much praise for digging the foot of the wall, and there are many derogatory meanings. After all, if you think about it, for a man, he can abandon the original wretched wife for a little trick or appearance, maybe one day he will also abandon your old age and decrepitude, the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in life are different from your mutual liking, you have been erased your edges and delicate appearance in these trivial things of life, and he may come to a junior like you and him at the beginning and abandon you to choose a new love.

TV series and news are sometimes a microcosm of life, just like Junsheng likes Ling Ling and regrets it, some people are always born in happiness and don't know the blessings, even if you like a person who belongs, and then use all your scheming to get him, you can get someone else's so easily, then this person will not belong to you after all, even if you are together, after you are old, how can you be sure that he will not resent you in his heart?

After all, there are very few people who dig into the wall to get happiness, after all, if you get someone else's instead of your own, you will get a heart that is restless and afraid of losing all day long, which also makes the loss come earlier. We always have to believe that there is our own happiness in a certain corner of the world, and we don't need to fight or rob it, and it is completely our own.

Everyone has their own opinion on this issue! Some people will not hesitate to say that of course they will be happy, and some people will not be dismissive.

Digging the foot of the wall is a third party in layman's terms, so can the junior really get happiness? The answer can be obtained from the recent hit TV series "The First Half of My Life", and some viewers think that the third party Ling Ling has been happy, because she has to taste her wish to be with her loved one Chen Junsheng, living and working together every day. And Chen Junsheng is quite good to Ling Ling, including treating Ling Ling's son.

And Ling Ling was also recognized by Chen Junsheng's parents. So they think that although Ling Ling is digging the wall, she has been happy. Then some viewers thought that Ling Ling was not happy, because from the later plot development, Chen Junsheng's attitude towards Ling Ling was not good for a bad thing she did, and Ling Ling was heartbroken and cried bitterly.

This made many viewers very conflicted, one was very hateful for Lingling's digging into the wall, and the other was very heart-wrenching to see her end now.

Although this is just a TV series, it is also a phenomenon in life that can't help but be thought-provoking. Is it really happiness to dig into the wall? In layman's terms, can the junior really be happy in the end?

I think it's okay, if not, why are there so many juniors in society? As for whether you can be happy in the end, there is no guarantee. Whether it is or not, don't be a third party and dig into the wall.

After all, the moral bottom line has been touched. Even if you get happiness for a while, you can't guarantee happiness for a lifetime. In order for your children to grow up in a good environment, you still don't want to be a third party and dig into the corners of other people's homes.

First of all, you will not be blessed by the people around you, you will suffer all kinds of white eyes from the people around you.

Privately commenting on your whispers will also make people think that you are a person with moral problems. There is a real example around me, one of my aunts pried into another aunt's husband, and everyone knew that every time she went to work, someone whispered behind her back, and sometimes used this matter to mock her, and then she quit her job because she had no choice, and at the same time divorced her husband, and now she can only rent a house.

Second, you will hurt so many people, even if you pry into a corner, will you really be happy? Of course, the answer is no, first of all, your family will be ashamed of having a girl like you, and your family and friends will also look at your parents in a different light. There is also the fact that the other party's parents will also think that you are inappropriate and not a good woman.

Friends and the like will also alienate you, after all, it is possible that you will pry into their corners, you will be isolated, and if you are not favored, will you still be happy? It's like the article Yao Di.

and so on, it will only make your reputation more stinky.

Digging the foot of the wall is also a very proud thing, and you can get happiness.

If there is no affection between them, and she still likes you, then you should wait for them to break up, and the two of you can be together, otherwise even if you pry her out, she will still be easily pried away by others in the future.

No, because this method is not legitimately bright, there will always be some pimples in my heart.

I think if the two of you are together by digging corners, but the relationship between the two of you is better, and you really love each other, then you may also be happy.

If your mother is right, you will also get happiness, after all, two people are together by fate, and it depends on two people to trust each other and support each other, these things. As long as the two of you are suitable, you will be quite happy.