Am I still entitled to happiness if I rob others of their happiness?

If it is happiness that can be "snatched away", that "other person" is no longer happy, so there is no need to give yourself a moral judgment first, everyone's result is what they want, and what everyone gets is what they deserve. So don't feel that you don't deserve it, look at it from another angle, your happiness is "striving" for.

A good friend of mine, after the divorce, lived alone with children, but the boyfriend she fell in love with was a married man, and the other party told her very frankly that she was ready to divorce, and she had no children for ten years, and she had no feelings, and she was once very guilty and felt that she had robbed others of their happiness. But I didn't expect that when my boyfriend filed for divorce with his ex-wife, his ex-wife cried, made trouble and hanged herself on the one hand, and at the same time directly offered a divorce price.

My friend said that I felt sorry for her, but in this way, I felt relaxed. For so many years, she has never wanted to have children, because she is still a child and just wants to be taken care of, but how can a man always not want children, and finally the marriage is delayed.

Now the friend has married again, the two have their own children, and their lives are very happy.

Therefore, if you feel that you are "robbing" others of happiness and feel that you do not deserve to be happy, then even if you are with the person you love, you will not be really happy, because you will always be bound by this moral problem that you have set for yourself, and it is impossible to enjoy life and love at all.

If you can understand that everyone's ending is their own choice, you will understand that everything you have now is what you deserve, and you deserve such happiness, and then you can achieve true happiness. That is, what you believe, you will get. The words on the outside are nothing more than what you think in your heart.

Stealing someone else's happiness? Why would you want to rob someone else of their happiness? I don't know which aspect you want to ask? I don't know how and under what circumstances you steal the happiness of others? <>

I can only take the liberty of sharing my thoughts with you, if you know that someone else has a significant other, or someone else has a family, and then go to destroy, then I think this is a bit immoral and a bit excessive, and I don't believe that people who do wrong things use some excuses to quibble, the so-called love at first sight, what can't help it, everything has a premise, but maybe things don't develop as expected, and then there is an inevitable situation, what is your aspect? <>

Knowing the happiness of others, it's not good for you to intervene sideways, then you will not be happy, there will definitely be people who hate you, maybe someone will say you behind your back, what will your parents and your friends think of you, because you have hurt the other person, I don't know who you are who is the person who was robbed of your happiness, I don't want to analyze, but if you are unaware or someone deliberately conceals you, causing you to destroy other happiness, then you are still forgivable, but listen to your literal meaning is not like what I said, You use grabbing, it means that you know that you are wrong and have done the wrong thing, maybe at the beginning you think that as long as you are happy, as long as you get what you want, you will not think about the future, and you don't care about other people, but now you are hesitating in your heart, you regret it, or you will not ask this question, although I can't criticize you anything, but your conscience is actually condemning yourself, love is a very mysterious thing, no one can stop it, But please think carefully when you do anything, think about it in your shoes, how will you feel when this kind of thing you have done falls on you in the future, although I don't know you very well about the whole incident, I hope that if you do something wrong, you will have a heart of repentance, to make up for it, I hope it will not be too late, but in the end I still hope that you can be happy, real happiness, the kind of simple happiness without burden without the shadow in your heart!

Don't blame yourself too much, the happiness that can be snatched away proves that it is not her happiness! Even if you didn't grab it, there would be other reasons why she couldn't get that happiness in the end. In the past, I didn't believe in fate, but now I believe in fate.

If that happiness belongs to her, but no matter how much others rob it, they can't snatch it away, if that happiness doesn't belong to her, it means that fate has not arrived, and happiness is not here. So you don't have to blame yourself too much, everyone has the right to happiness, and you are no exception.

Many times we say that the mistress is not a good person, because the mistress destroys other people's feelings, but the feelings that can be destroyed, is their relationship really strong, the appearance of the mistress is just a test, if both parties love each other deeply, then there is no such thing as breaking up the mistress. In the final analysis, the two of them don't love each other deeply enough, and they can't complain about the junior.

Happiness is all to be won by yourself, if you don't strive for it yourself, then in the end you may also be robbed of happiness by others, and then you curse that person for not being happy. When did the mandarin ducks hug each other? The best way is to grasp the present, do it and cherish it, don't let the people who love you down, and don't let the people you love down, it's easy to get love, but if you want love to last forever, you need to manage it carefully.

Others are unhappy when they meet the right person at the wrong time, and since happiness comes to you, you must be qualified, just grasp it. Remember that the happiness of two people requires the joint efforts of two people, and it will not last long without one party, so I hope you can cherish each other and cherish your hard-won happiness.

I think people like you should not be qualified to be happy, because you have robbed others of their happiness, destroyed other people's originally good feelings, you don't know how painful others are, how sad, you will be retributed, there are some things, we should not rob them, if you want, you should fight for them with integrity, if it is not your own, don't worry about it, it should not be obtained by some despicable means.

What if you robbed someone else's boyfriend, or someone else's husband? What you snatch away is just the garbage that others don't want, the man who can be snatched, think about how much you can grasp him, how much he can love you? He can leave his original girlfriend or wife because of a word or two from you, or because of your seduction, so how long can he stay with you?

It is possible that after a while, there will be a woman who is more beautiful, more capable, and has stronger wrists than you, then this man will go away with another woman, and he will abandon you, and you will also fall into the person who loses happiness at that time, and what does not belong to you still does not belong to you after all.

And you robbed someone else's happiness, you will feel particularly sorry in your heart, and you will feel difficult to feel at ease, after all, this is not your thing, you snatched it, it is possible that after a while, the man you snatched away thinks that you are a woman, there is nothing to attract him, he has played enough, not as good as the original girlfriend, and went back to find his ex, you are just someone else's dewy relationship, and you are not qualified to harvest happiness.

I think you can still be happy, even if you may be sorry for others in the pursuit of love. But if the two of you can always love each other and care for each other, your marriage can still be very happy.

Don't get too obsessed. If you don't love you, you won't be able to play, no matter how good you are to him, you can only get her temporary favor for you, not love. Eventually, you will be hurt and your heart will die because of it. I've just experienced such an unforgettable false love!

It is better to love and be loved than to love each other. Love is to make each other's lives better, otherwise, it will be difficult for others and cheapen yourself. I wish you happiness.

It doesn't matter if he doesn't love you, the important thing is that you love her, you can pay for him silently, learn more about what she really likes, care about her, protect her, that's enough, there is nothing that can revoke your qualification to pursue happiness. Hope to adopt.

Everyone has the right to happiness, and it is not about qualifications, but about whether you feel that your happiness is something that only he or she can give you.

Why aren't you qualified? It's all people! What are you afraid of! Go ahead! Believe in yourself! Don't let you regret going in the future! Unafraid!

That's right, happiness is to fight for yourself, if you don't fight for it, you don't even have a chance, but sometimes you need two people to work together, love is a matter of two people, there is a lyric in "Courage", love really needs courage, as long as you look at it for sure, my love is meaningful, you love him, you pay a lot for him, little by little to impress, if he affirms your pay, affirms you, then your pay will not be in vain, at least you get. Happiness, what is happiness, depending on your own definition, you feel that you are with him, you are happy, love is respected, if your hard work is not rewarded, choose to give up! Don't be stupid, be willing to ......You want to work hard to be together, or you want to give ......upI just hope you don't be stupid and don't let yourself regret it?

It is better to find someone you love to live your life than to find someone who loves you for your life. Happiness is not necessarily that you find what you love, but that you have someone who loves you.

Make yourself excellent and make yourself strong in order to be qualified to fight, but she doesn't love you, if she doesn't love it, she doesn't love it, and the twisted melon is not sweet. As you become better, your mindset will change. *^

What are the qualifications? Your self-evaluation of me hehe, your own happiness has to be fought for, for people who don't love you? No, it's about trying to be a better version of yourself, OK?

It's not you who fight for it! It should be that person trying to stay away from you. Because people don't like you.

Don't be, remember that some things don't necessarily come to fruition, let love go for a way out.

To fight is to fight for what belongs to you! It's not for you to win over others.

Stalking. Since you don't have confidence, give it to others.

Give yourself a bottom line and give up as soon as you touch it.

That's why people want to say that you want to strive for your own happiness, don't you understand?

It's up to you, happiness is too far away, and there is hope for believing in yourself.

Since she doesn't love you, don't fight for it!

There's nothing wrong with going for it, but don't make a mistake either.

You don't have it with him, you will be the most favored person with others, I used to do a lot for a man, in his place, he didn't care about me at all, but when I completely let go of him, many people treated me well, and I also found a man who loved me like my life, and treated me very well, he said that I was happy with him, and we loved each other the same.

Happiness is not spoken, everyone has the right to pursue happiness, I wish you to find your happiness one day sooner.

Yes, everybody has it, it's just up to you to earn it yourself, happiness doesn't mean who has no qualifications, it's to create it yourself.

Yes. But you need to see it all. If it's in vain, let it go, don't do stupid things anymore.

Making mistakes is the price of growth, and if you learn to grow from making mistakes, especially in relationships, then your happiness really begins. Even if you don't get the happiness of two people, you can get the happiness of one.

And people who don't know that they grow up in making mistakes are mostly repeating the same mistakes, which is called reincarnation, or even reincarnation from generation to generation, and some people even begin to regard making mistakes as happiness.

The qualification for happiness is earned by oneself, not by others.

Yes, the stupid things you do can only show that you love that man very much, and it does not mean that you can't be happy.

Why don't you qualify for happiness? You're wrong to think so, happiness belongs to everyone, and no one has the right to take it away!

Yes. Have faith in yourself, the past is not equal to the future. Temporary setbacks and unsatisfactory situations do not mean anything. Good luck!

Yes, the pursuit of happiness is everyone's business.

I hope to meet a man who truly understands you.

Yes, be bold and pursue your happiness.

Everyone deserves to be happy, and it's up to you whether you can be happy or not.

There is always a reward for paying, not necessarily the return given to you by the man.

The scumbag was discovered by you. Leave him and live well.

Everybody is qualified, but don't do too much stupid things.

Happiness is something that everyone has to pursue.

The people who love you won't care about anything about you.

Yes, who does not make mistakes when they are young, does not make mistakes, is normal.

I just want to ask you if you're still there...

This question, I want to say from another angle, your best friend's boyfriend was snatched away, and what can be snatched away is not called happiness. I advise your girlfriend to be happy, I'm really glad that something like this happened, not in the future, and it's a good thing to leave such a man early.

Let's talk about whether that woman will be happy, don't think about it, don't care about it, the answer said that it won't last long, and it's also people's criticism of this kind of person, but they may also last for a long time, so don't care about them, it's important to be strong quickly and live a happier life.

I don't say this because I'm outside the bureau and I don't have a backache when I stand and talk, but because I really have to look away, there is no other way, I have already been hurt once, so don't continue to suffer.

It's a bit too much, and the answer is not what I'm asking, but it's also a feeling, don't be surprised if it's wrong.