Why is the poorer the more generous?

The poorer the more generous, it is for the individual, I think the poor are not willing to be so generous, like those of us, the money we earn every year is just enough to take care of our living expenses, how can we have spare money to be generous.

The richer the more saved, the more it is not a rich person if it is not saved, the rich person is calculated by a penny, and the person who has no money feels that he has no money anyway, and he uses a little bit and does not want to save money. Rich people think about 10 million if they are million, and 100 million if they are 100 million, so they are stingy.

Poor, generous is to see open! Rich and generous is to see more openly! Stinginess is a way of life, it doesn't mean anything else, no one owes you, so the word stinginess basically doesn't exist in me!

Because the visitor is a guest, and the guest is the guest, do not impose your filthy ideas on the poor.

This is true for the poor, and so it is for the poor ......

Because rich people know that making money is not easy.

I am poor and I am not treacherous, I treat others very seriously, and the rich only let go in their own favor.

<>———The poorer you are, the more generous you are, which is a psychological problem of lack of self-confidence.

There are two reasons for this problem, one is the lack of social experience, and the other is the purpose of pretending.

Some people are poor and generous in order to achieve a certain goal, and sometimes it is necessary to be generous in order to make up for the psychological imbalance in the face of people with high status or more advantages than themselves.

In many cases, "poor and generous" is a kind of unconfident psychology that is at fault. Make up for the psychological deficiencies by pretending to be generous, and raise the psychology to an equal position with the other partySo that you don't fall behind in the momentum

Among the poor and generous, there are some people who have a distorted perception of society.

All their perceptions of society are based on money, and for them money is everything! If you have money, you have everything, and pretending to be generous is to appear "very rich" in front of others. Improve your status by pretending to be rich in front of others.

At least in his heart, he gets the satisfaction of this "virtual promotion" of status。Thus using this method to numb the ego and indulge in it.

Of course, they are not just paralyzed, butIn reality, the effect of bluffing is also achieved！That is, to strengthen one's confidence by borrowing "momentum".

Poor generosity comes from the influence of face, and people are more sad when they are poor, for fear that others will look down on them as poor. I want to cover the essence of poverty with generosity. When you go to a rich house to eat and drink, you will find that many poor people are sitting there, but in fact, they are not relatives but acquaintances, so why go to the party?

It is also a kind of honor to think of the rich man's friend in his heart.

The poor love face, and the poorer the person, the stronger their vanity, and they are more inclined to pretend to be broad.

Poor people always like to make a bird when they encounter things, and problems arise. The rod beats the first bird, so that the poor have a little enough to live because of the problem of vanity. The poor are also generous because they act in an emotional way, are extremely irrational and prone to emotional impulsiveness, and thus do things that harm their own interests.

In the final analysis, it is their character that makes them poorer and more generous, and they are already poor。But if you are poor and donate what little money you have left, you are destined to get poorer and poorer in this life. Because then the poor will become more unable to make ends meet, and they will not be rewarded for their efforts.

It's like a funnel leaking, and this water can never be filled.

If the poor are stingy and continue to be looked down upon, they may be bullied and suppressed. And the poor, although poor, be generous, in a small way, can be liked and respected by others, and in the long run, this"Poor"Finally there may be a chance to run at times, because the poor are willing to give.

The poorer and more generous, it may be because of low self-esteem, strong self-esteem, revenge consumption, saving face, and so on.

Inferiority. After a person has experienced a period of particularly poor time, especially when he is a child, then he is likely to have an inferiority complex in his heart and feel that he is inferior to others. When he is a little rich, then it is likely that in order to reduce this inferiority complex, he will spend lavishly, which gives us the illusion of generosity.

I used to have a friend whose family conditions were not very good, and then he made some money later, and he began to invite guests to dinner, which seems to be very generous, but this may be due to his inferiority complex.

Strong self-esteem. If a person has a strong self-esteem, he cares a lot about his image in the eyes of others, and in order to establish a good image in the eyes of others, he is likely to behave generously, even if he is not financially wealthy. This can also be seen as a manifestation of saving face.

When they see the success of others, they only see the appearance of others in the spotlight, and they only feel that others are so beautiful all the time, and they also want to be like this scenery and be able to have such enjoyment.

Revenge spending.

When a person has experienced a long period of economic tension, it is likely to have a kind of revenge consumption mentality, such as buying a lot of things that have not been eaten before, using a lot of items that have not been used before, and so on. This kind of psychology is very common, but we must overcome this kind of psychology, stay rational, and not fall into the trap of consumption, let alone produce the psychology and habit of advanced consumption.

Lack of social experience.

The poorer and more generous, there is also a possibility that the social experience is insufficient, and simply think that the more generous you are, the more you can be respected. But the reality is not the case, and if we really want to be respected in society, we need to obtain it through our actual ability, and we need to achieve it through our achievements.

In daily life, we often find such a strange phenomenon, the richer the more picky, the poorer the more they spend money, the more extravagant they spend, and it seems very casual. Why do some people become poorer and more generous? This seemingly abnormal phenomenon is what we often call "poor and generous", that is, Mencius said that "those who have no permanent property have no perseverance", so there is a strange phenomenon of "big money and small flowers, small money and big flowers".

I think there are a number of reasons for this: