What does it feel like to be nice to someone you don t like?

Maybe people who don't like it will be very difficult for them to accept because they don't know how to accept it, which is particularly embarrassing.

When I was in high school, I had a tablemate, and everyone else hated her, and a girl I especially liked to play with was very good to her, so the three of us played very well, but she was like a bond by our side, so the three of us played together every day, but the rest of the class also hated my tablemate, and I thought to myself that my tablemate was very good to me, and whatever delicious food was shared with me. I can't treat her badly like everyone else, so I'm trying to control my emotions.

Sometimes others hate her maybe because of some things she does, and another point is because she follows the trend, others don't know much about her, and others are so bad to her because they listen to others, in fact, as long as you unload those other people's opinions about her, you will find yourself in a different world.

In fact, sometimes if you don't like it, you have to know how to refuse, because no one will understand what you feel in your heart, and sometimes you have to tell others exactly what you think in your heart, and there is no need to force yourself.

Sometimes when others are very good to you, you have to learn to cherish, don't be dissatisfied, and don't become very bored at the end. A person will not always be good to you for no reason, when others show favor to you, it means that others are communicating with you with sincerity, don't waste other people's feelings.

People who don't like it are very good to themselves, as if I said I'm thirsty, but the other party gives a drink, although the taste of the drink is very good, very refreshing, but I will be thirsty when I drink it, only plain water can solve my own problems, in fact, if the person you don't like is very good to yourself, in fact, the people around you may think that you are very happy, people often don't cherish the people around them enough, and often don't realize what a stupid decision they made when they lose it.

Now there are not many people in society who are very good to themselves, take my own experience as an example, after going to college, the people who like me have slowly evolved from the beginning to the multiple, and from the freshman to the senior year, the object has not been broken, due to personality reasons, it may be liked, handsome guys also have, because I have seen more handsome guys, so the standard for my boyfriend has also begun to rise, so I will care a lot about their dress, I care about their image, Maybe the first criterion for me to find a boyfriend is to pass the test with good looks, but in fact, the most important thing is appearance.

I think most girls may have the standard for their boyfriends is that the first thing is to look good, and the second is the family conditions or something, this is not that this kind of girl is wrong, everyone's choice is different, but if you choose a good-looking person, you must be able to hold him, otherwise, you will be very hurt and will be very uncomfortable.

The handsome guys I chose before are all cold types, in fact, they are not cold, but he doesn't like you so much, so I think girls should learn to cherish the people around them who are good to them, because marriage and marriage are not like love, you can find what you like in love, but if you get married, you still have to choose to like yourself, because in this way he will spoil you, and feelings can be cultivated slowly, don't miss it.

If you just don't like this person and haven't risen to the point of hating or disgusting, then you will have a very unnatural feeling, always feel that even if the other person has done these good things for you, you still can't like the other person, you will feel a little guilty, and maybe you will gradually develop a good feeling. And if the person you don't like has some annoyance and doesn't want to contact at all, then you will feel very uncomfortable, no matter what the other party does, you will feel redundant, the person you like will feel good about the same thing, and the person you don't like will feel disgusting when you do it.

It is said that women chase men in the interlayer of yarn, and men chase women in the interlayer of mountains, but through their own experience and what happened around them, they obviously feel that this sentence is becoming more and more wrong now. What impressed people the most was that a certain boy liked such and such a girl, and what kind of method was used to pursue this girl, and now I can also hear a lot of girls pursuing boys. But when a person you don't like is kind to you, I think boys will feel stronger than girls, because in many cases before, girls agreed when they were chased.

But this thing will definitely not happen to the boy, because once the boy decides whether he likes it or not, it will not change, and if the girl does something good for him, the better one will persuade him with good words, and as soon as he is a friend, he will find other ways to return the things that the girl bought for herself and the things she did for herself, and she will almost lose her temper and end up unhappy. Therefore, depending on whether it is from the position of a boy or a girl, the unit thinks that first of all, no matter what gender is, there will be a feeling of discomfort, and as for the follow-up, it is a matter of everyone's feelings.

People who don't like it are very good to themselves, it should be a kind of sometimes feeling annoyed, and sometimes feeling very sorry for each other.

I know that every boy is better to you, or inexplicably good to you, will have other ideas, I don't think there are so many simple friendships, so everyone has his own personal reasons for paying, all his good times for you come out of wanting to have you, maybe she won't express what he means at first, but you can see through action, but each of us has someone we like, maybe the person who is good to you but you don't like it very much or hate some of his behavior, Although it is for your goodness, you are not willing to accept it. There was once a boy who appeared in my life for some reason. It's the kind of thing that talks to me every day and says a lot of things that care about me and so on, I know what he means, but it's the type I don't like very much, and it's also found out from getting along slowly.

He's a naïve character, and he has a lot of things to say and do. Although I don't really appreciate him, and I know that he is not the person I want, I don't want to live up to all the kindness she has done to me, so I do my best to repay him for his kindness to me. <>

Sometimes it's sad to think about. At the beginning, he has been silently paying for me, and I can't do much for him, so I can only be a spiritual companion a lot of times. I didn't want him to waste too much time on me, and I didn't want to hurt him, I told her not to come to me often, maybe I just gave up after trying hard for a long time without results, but that feeling was very sad.

Although I'm not a beauty, but I'm small, and white, there will be boys who like it, but among these boys, my deepest memory and most touching is the boy who liked me in high school for two and a half years, he was very shy and very good to me, but I didn't like him, no way, I would feel very happy in my heart, because he would always pay attention to himself, but I also felt guilty, after all, I couldn't return the same liking to him. <>

In the second half of the first year of high school, I chose science, and then came to a new class, and the new classmates got along for a while, and it was not bad, there were a few friends who could talk to, at that time the boy was in the back row of me, he was tall, thin, particularly literary and artistic, but also particularly shy, and smiled very sunny, I had a little good impression of him, but far from liking, I just felt that others were very good, and wanted to be good friends with him, and then some boys always matched us and made jokes about us. Later, I learned that he liked me, but he was so shy that he was embarrassed to confess, but he told me his thoughts from the action, he would send me delicious food every class, and he would ask about the gifts I liked, surprise me, and on my birthday he also gave me a gift that was not too cheap, at that time, I was very happy and excited, because someone cared about me and always paid attention to himself, but after thinking about it, I felt that I was very sorry for him, because he liked me so much, but I didn't like him, Didn't even sit down properly to talk to him.

Such days lasted until the college entrance examination, he always liked me, and did not bother me, just silently, treated me well, and hoped that I would be well fed and clothed. Later, we went to different universities and different cities, and I also had someone I liked, and slowly lost contact with him, but I always blessed him and hoped that he could get his own happiness.

Love is a very wonderful thing, two people must be in love with each other to become beautiful, if a person intentionally and unintentionally will lose this sweet feeling, but will feel a burden. In my own experience, if someone I don't like is kind to me, I don't feel happy, but I feel guilty and feel that it's not my fault, and this feeling is just as uncomfortable.

When I was in junior high school, I didn't know much about the relationship between men and women, and I didn't know what love was. And because girls at that age are more shy, I will take an evasive attitude towards boys who are good to me. What impresses me is that because I was too young at that time to understand the hurt of feelings, I accidentally hurt the heart of a simple boy, and until now I think back to it I feel that I was really stupid and excessive, and I shouldn't have done it or something, it was difficult to reconcile with myself, and I would scold myself when I thought about it.

At first, because I did well in school, everyone in the class liked to be friends with me, and the teachers valued me more and praised me often. At this time, a more naughty boy paid attention to me, and then he liked me without knowing why. So every day he would stuff a snack on my desk, occasionally give me some special little gifts, and speak to me very gently, not always as cool as everyone else.

However, because I am more traditional, I don't like boys like him very much, so I am particularly tired of some of the actions he does.

Finally, one day the teacher found out about the situation and came to ask me about it, so I directly put all the blame on the boy and told the teacher the boy's name. Later, he was criticized by his teachers and dropped out of school after calling his parents. I still feel guilty that he was so kind to me, but I couldn't repay his kindness.

That's a debt, it's a pity, I'm sorry I don't like you, I'm sorry you were good to me, I'm sorry.

Always show up whenever I need to, help me out of my difficulties, and then every time I confess to me, I will be rejected.

I really don't have a chance at all, do I? I really like you" "I'm sorry I really don't want to delay you, I don't like your type, you give up" just like that I blocked him, and again and again, he would add me again, and then say be good friends and never ask this question again.

I admit that I am really guilty, really regretful, how good it would be if I liked him too, then how happy I should be, but I don't want to compromise in front of my feelings, I don't want to hurt him in the end, and I hurt myself.

Everyone may have such an experience, there is a man who likes himself to the point that he can't extricate himself, and has been silently good to himself, but he doesn't feel it at all, but you can never stop him from being good to you, because he can always know your needs through many ways.

Pick you up from far away, receive gifts for some reason, or block under your dorm building to get you to eat.

To be honest, sometimes I feel very annoyed and annoyed, a person I don't like at all, has been interfering with my life, at first I was really sad, sad that I couldn't accept him, sad about my hypocrisy.

But later, I really feel that this is a kind of disturbance, and even murder him several times, but it really doesn't work at all.

I think it's really a kind of helplessness to be treated well by a person I don't like, maybe I will feel a little proud at first, that's my selfishness, in fact, now I hope he gives up sooner.

Because I don't want to delay someone who has always been good to me, I want him to be happy.

People's hearts are diverse, each has its own scheming, regardless of daily life, or workplace competition, although there is no harm to others, but the heart of defense is still reasonable, so mutual suspicion, the mentality of deception has arisen, and it is good to compete with each other, do not rule out the situation of you fighting for me, malicious harm, the key is to tolerate and communicate with each other, but reluctantly, not everyone is like-minded, regardless of the gains and losses of interests, the mentality is a little flat, and they are low-key in their own life and things, and flexibly adjust their mentality. The way of thinking and the skills of dealing with people, struggle is a must, otherwise bread and love are not guaranteed, gradually improve and enhance the competitive strength, always remind yourself to be calm and composed, do your best, opportunities will always appear, as for the trust of others, get along well or not, not subjective thoughts can change, so, everything is fate, not just divided, waiting for like-minded people to appear.