Do you think it s good for girls in junior high school to fall in love?

Junior high school is a special stage, during which both boys and girls have just entered puberty, and it is easy to develop a liking for each other and be easily attracted to each other. But this kind of affection is only temporary, as you get older, your requirements for the other half will change, and this is when you will find out what you want, so the early love in junior high school is really not very good.

First of all, because boys and girls are relatively young, they don't know much about emotional matters, so they often blindly decide to be together just because of their inner liking. In addition, junior high school should be a critical time for learning, and if you don't use your time reasonably, it is easy to cause your grades to decline. We all know that learning is linked to each other, and once the grades in junior high school are not good, it is difficult to be admitted to a key high school, let alone a university.

So the early love in junior high school is unacceptable.

Some students have no intention of continuing to study in high school after finishing junior high school, so they drop out of school and find a partner early. In the opinion of several of my classmates, deciding on a relationship too early in junior high school is not conducive to later life. Because you know each other well enough before you get married.

The emotional foundation is also good enough, but marriage and love are not the same. After getting married, you need to think about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and you need to think about your children, and there is very little romantic time left for you, so this causes people who get married so early to get tired of marriage, and because they are too young and their minds are not mature, they are very likely to not be able to live with it. Therefore, the early love of junior high school students will not last long.

Truth be told, the little girl in junior high school is too young to handle feelings well and not be able to choose the right person.

First of all, it is a normal phenomenon for children who enter puberty to become curious about the opposite sex and attract each other, both physically and psychologically. Don't be in a hurry to label your child as "puppy love", sometimes adolescent sexual initiation and puppy love are not necessarily the same thing, more of curiosity. What should we parents do?

First, at the level of knowledge: Parents should relax their minds, and their children can learn about this kind of knowledge through appropriate books or science and education films, and chat while watching. The purpose of this is to give children a sense of physiology and self-protection, and at the same time to satisfy children's curiosity about sexuality at this stage.

Through the understanding of knowledge, children feel that the opposite sex is not so mysterious, which is just the normal development of people, and everyone is a stage to go through.

The second is communication and guidance: parents can communicate more with their children and listen more to establish a good parent-child relationship. The parent-child model can allow children to let go of their defenses, and parents can get further information at any time to know what psychological stage their children are in, and parents can provide targeted guidance without panic and anxiety.

Can we talk to our child about what he really likes about each other. You can also use some "psychological tactics" tips, such as the mentality that adolescent children often want to prove that their ideas and ideas are right, and assign a task to the child. We can tell children that usually liking a person is blind, and if you want to prove that you are not blind, you can prove that you are objectively observing a person by finding several shortcomings of the other person, rather than blindly liking.

Then make an appointment to talk to your child about each other's shortcomings. This kind of small trick can make the child not blindly beautify the relationship, but will let the child focus on the other person's shortcomings at a certain stage. Even if you still like each other afterwards, you won't be overly obsessed and uncontrollable.

The third is attention: children can participate in more extracurricular activities or non-school organizational activities, so that children can have more contact with different peers. The so-called more knowledgeable children are naturally not easy to pay attention to a certain point.

Because of the differences between men and women, adolescent girls will fall in love with the opposite sex earlier than boys, which is a normal physiological and psychological development characteristic. Parents should be able to guide rather than suppress, the more they suppress and become more nervous, the more curious the child will be about early love, and the more he wants to try. It is not possible to restrict children from normal interactions with the opposite sex because of fear of "early love", and adopt an attitude of doubting everything and attacking everything, which is easy to promote the fact of early love.

Junior high school girls are still children, and they have not yet set foot in society, so they should not fall in love, but still focus on learning.

At that time, love couldn't be considered love, and I didn't know what love was, it was just playing house.

As long as you don't get pregnant......