Is it lonely for a girl to go to class alone?

A girl who goes to class alone cannot be said to be withdrawn.

Encyclopedia explains the word withdrawn, used in personality, used to describe the psychological state of people who are lonely, unsociable, unable to maintain normal relationships with others, and often live in isolation, which belongs to a character trait.

Withdrawn people are usually very special, do not like to socialize with others, and often go alone, but a girl who goes to class alone does not mean that she is withdrawn.

When I was in the first year of junior high school, I lived on campus, but my roommates were all from other classes, so my dorm room was mixed and matched, and there were no classmates.

I often go to dinner with them, and after eating, I go my own way, and I just go to class by myself, not because I am lonely, but because I have no company.

The third year of junior high school moved to live outside the school, a dormitory just two people, me and a little girl in the next class, at first the two of us went to school together, but then she often asked for leave, over time, I went to class by myself gradually more, because there were no classmates in the accommodation, and it was still because there was no companion to go alone.

When I was in college, it was more common to go to class by myself, and the professional courses were fine, but the elective courses were not the same for everyone, so it was normal for some girls to find that they had no companions after taking a course.

In fact, I prefer to come and go alone, shopping can be two or three people, but not more, because the more people, the more you can't go shopping, shopping is to be happy, if a large group of people are chattering all the way and there is a contradiction, isn't it lost the meaning of shopping?

It's like a girl who goes to class alone, she may clean up a little faster, and she is anxious, she runs to class when she sees the time, and it's not that she can't find the class, what can she do if she goes to class by herself.

Some people are slow in nature, and naturally their companions don't like to wait, because two people will be late when they wait, and if one person is not late, the consequences will be smaller.

Going to school is not like going to work, and no one is willing to wait for you to clean up after work, and you will be deducted if you are late for work, because when you are alone, everyone is late, and then you are hated, so when you can't walk with others, it's good to go by yourself.

This is not necessarily all because of loneliness, some girls do this because they are withdrawn, they don't like to interact with other classmates, and they don't want to go to class with others, they have been like this since they were children, they are all alone, they don't know how to communicate with others, and they are afraid to communicate with others, their personality is like this, they don't want to change, they don't want to change, they always walk alone on the way to class.

Some girls are more independent, vigorous and resolute, they don't like to take classes with others, they feel like this mother-in-law, she usually has a very good popularity, especially charming, and has her own opinions on everything, she is also used to doing things alone, and she doesn't want anyone to delay her trip. Some girls are like this, because they have been in a bad mood recently, they want to be quiet, and they don't want others to disturb them. <>

It may be that she is out of love and doesn't want her good friends to see her like this, so she slowly adjusts by herself, and it is also possible that there is a situation in her family, and her relatives at home are sick, and she is very worried about him, but because she has to study, she can't ask for leave to go back to visit, and she is very uncomfortable. It is also possible that her academic performance has regressed recently, and she wants to squeeze time for studying, so she will discuss with her friends first and stop with them for the time being.

Some girls are born to be alone, don't like to go to class and have to wait for others, once don't wait for others, others will misunderstand, feel that you don't care about her, hate her, friends began to make trouble, she always feels that she is still free by herself, but she also communicates with other classmates, plays, just doesn't like to wait for people, you can do whatever you want, don't care about other people's eyes, just like it.

Of course, this situation is not considered to be withdrawn, because although he is alone in class, he may be more kind to communicate with people in private, and if he has more friends, it should not be counted.

Try to communicate with them, participate in more physical activities, do not feel inferior, be confident, cultivate some hobbies, and you can come together with people with the same hobbies, I wish you happiness!

Then go to QQ more QQ and chat with them on QQ first, and then what you see in your life will not be interesting, be brave, change yourself, and adopt it.

It's understandable that you don't get along with your roommate when you're a freshman, and if you don't get along well with a few people in the dormitory, that's not good.

Smile a lot, walk with your head up, see people say hello, is it so difficult, borrow something from your roommate, give your roommate something to eat, help someone get a seat when class is available, or ask someone to wait for a while, you're a very obvious social phobia, and try to overcome it yourself.

Be serious about it! Cultivate a good cultural connotation! Girls, you have to have a temperament!

A girl with temperament is what everyone seeks after and likes! Temperament, of course, is to present some cultural heritage! Smart girls, you should know everything!

Be a smart girl! If the flowers (you) are in full bloom, the butterflies will come!

Go to the entertainment venue for a while, and everything will be ......

Communicate with your classmates and don't feel shy or anything. Have faith in yourself and everything will change for the better.

Open your heart to others, don't guess, and you're not a child, how can you say bad things about others every day.

I'm a sophomore, and I'm pretty much like you, I don't know how to communicate with people, but luckily I still have roommates.

Try to build a good relationship with your roommates, as they may be your backs in the future.

Try to make yourself cheerful and lively.

Go to class and don't care what people say.

Adjust your mentality first, can you talk?

I'm like this as a boy, but why do others hate you, even if they hate me, it's nothing, after all, he hates me and I don't lose meat.

No, such a girl, unless she is pretty, a boy will not notice. Especially in universities, communication is mutual, we are already past the season of dreaming, and universities are sometimes realistic.

Boys have a strong desire to conquer, and the more you ignore them, the more they will want to get close to you. Or even unscrupulous efforts to attract your attention. So if they behave like bullying you, don't think it's a nuisance. They're just trying to get your attention.

It's good, I'm also a college freshman, and I like to be alone, but my popularity is still very good, boys and girls like me very much, and no one thinks I'm withdrawn, they know that I'm just afraid of trouble. And pretending to be friends with people you don't like is too hypocritical and too wronged yourself.

It's not good, after all, you are still facing a collective, you must cooperate, this is also the stage of assessing your interpersonal skills and dealing with interpersonal relationships, grasp it well, change, you are easy to be lonely alone!

Of course it's not good, even if people don't have intimate friends, sometimes they need someone to accompany them, you can find the kind of people you like together, and it's good slowly, after a long time, the ability to communicate with people will also decline.

Personality dictates, with what I love, don't go with the flow, you have your characteristics.

It's better to make some friends, it's too isolated to be alone.

I'm also withdrawn. I have all of these feelings. I'm also slowly changing myself.

Later I found out. It's really fun to talk to people. I'm now willing to chat with people of different professions and different age groups.

Some of them have helped me a lot. You may also be aware of your own problems. It's just that the courage to change is lacking.

Or so to speak. You've been in this state for too long. I'm used to it.

One thing you have to understand. We can't get someone else to change to adapt to us. It's that we change to fit others.

Or adapt to the environment we are in. And loneliness, not a disadvantage. Withdrawn people may have a more delicate heart and a richer spiritual world.

But. There is a problem with everything. If because of your personality it has affected your work and your interpersonal interactions.

Just try to make a little change. Try to say a few more words every day. Try to help others more.

You'll find out slowly. Discover a different landscape. You will find many joys that you never had.

I'm just like you, exactly the same. Two years out of college, I'm staying at home and trying to change all my problems.

A lot of this. Personality problems, but also family influences. My sister in the dormitory is withdrawn, arrogant, and has a bad temper.

The length is stylish, too. That's what she is. Lone ranger.

I do this sometimes, but I don't feel lonely, because I can't help it, I'm half an hour late for class, and the meal time is not the same as theirs. But shopping is all about pulling in a lot of people. I think there are two kinds, if it weren't for the fact that the people around her were so unfriendly.

Either too inferior, or too arrogant.

There are many factors, either it is poor communication with friends; Either you want a quiet environment, you can have enough time and environment to arrange everything quietly; Independence and self-improvement are also a factor. I just want to be the strongest version of myself. Maybe it's because I love to learn, and I don't ......... other people's schedulesMany, many factors.

It could be that this person is not very gregarious, and the woman is a bit withdrawn, or the woman's personality is a bit withdrawn.

Yes! One may be because her classmates have temporary things and can't eat and go to class together, and the other is that she has always been alone. The reason is that either she and other classmates don't have a common language, and the Tao is different. There is also an isolation because others don't like to be with her.

It may be that she's seducing you.,If you like to act quickly.,Get the moon first near the water.。。

Dear students, I think I am the most suitable to answer your question among these respondents. Because my personality was very similar to yours in the past, and I encountered the same problems at the same time, and I handled them in a similar way to you at that time. Instead, I made a lot of friends outside of the class.

But in any case, a vicious interpersonal field has been formed around it. People are social animals, especially if you are in school, it is difficult to choose what type of people to get along with, and escaping is not the way, which will have a negative impact on all aspects of yourself. I believe that you are seeking answers, and a large reason is because of dissatisfaction and confusion about the current situation.

Analysis: 1. You are very strong and know what you want, so although you are introverted on the surface and sensitive on the inside, you will still overcome your fears and strive for perfection and express yourself. 2. You don't know enough about others, don't understand the relationship between people, and lack the ability to grasp the overall situation (it's understandable now, because you haven't been out of high school for a long time, and you don't have much knowledge and experience, but I'm glad you like to go to the library.)

Sometimes it may be that the method of handling it is improper, which makes people misunderstand you, and makes the villain take advantage of it. 3. You are very kind, this is your most precious point and the most powerful ability, please keep this nature forever.

4. You have a lot of things on your mind, but you don't know how to express them, how to share them, how to integrate them appropriately into the current reality, and you are worried about the influence of others on it. You can't find a balance, or a solution, so you keep it deep in your heart or postpone it and put it off.

Tell you the solution: 1, "Read 10,000 books, travel 10,000 miles" is by no means a cliché. It solves all your problems.

That is to say, master enough knowledge according to your own situation, and put it into practice, apply what you have learned, and first solve your own problems before developing yourself. If you are not useful and strong enough, not only do others not need you to look down on you, but I believe that even you don't like yourself like this. 2. "Water is good for all things without fighting" "It is not self-generated, so it can live forever; It is not because of selflessness, but because of selfishness" This is the wisdom of life that you need to learn.

3. Even if you have a thousand knots in your heart, if you really want to be free, then the only way to learn is to be calm and peaceful.

You're lucky to have these problems in your freshman year. Stick to your pursuit and always be kind to others is to be kind to yourself. When this stage passes, you will be strong and wise.

I'd love to help you, but for the sake of time, I can only make generalizations from my personal point of view. If you need to communicate, please feel free to ask me

It's actually quite simple.

This girl is not bad-hearted, and she is kind.

Not materially selfish, very spiritually selfish.

And very egoistic.

I don't care much about other people's inner worlds.

It should also be rare to think about helping many people in the past.

Don't think about it.

Everyone is sensitive and vulnerable.

When you're struggling with whether to smile at others or not.

Others may have misunderstood.

And the heart has been hurt, subconsciously thinking that they are not recognized by you, everyone is vulnerable.

There are very few strong people.

Everyone longs for others to like themselves.

Longing for recognition and smiles from others.

When they find out that a person may not approve of themselves or like them, most of the time they choose to avoid them

Think less about yourself in everything.

Think more about others.

On the contrary, you will get a lot of warmth.