My once best friend now treats me like air, it s inexplicable, I m very uncomfortable, what should I

In fact, I don't think feelings are measured by distance, my good friend and I are lovesick thousands of miles away, let alone such an example. Maybe she doesn't treat you as a good friend, she just sits together and has a closer relationship. Maybe you've got it wrong from start to finish.

It's a possibility.

The second possibility: Maybe she doesn't know that she hurt you, but the relationship between girls and girls should be better.

The third possibility: she may also be running away from you, and she should have her own reasons (I can't say what the reason is, you need to communicate and understand it yourself).

Detached from your question, I want to say that you care about her so much, does it include some other feelings, then you have to be your true feelings for yourself (but it may also be my own misestimation).

I hope you can study hard in the first year of high school, and don't have too many worries, high school itself is more difficult, and you have to use other energy to ponder these troubles).

Hope mine is helpful to you. Glad to help you o( o v

In adolescence, girls will be much more sensitive than boys, maybe he doesn't care about things, but you care, maybe you inadvertently did something that made him sad, he was angry with you! Maybe he likes you, but he doesn't know how to do it, run away,,, when a long time has passed, looking back, it is a good memory of your life!

You're xx and there's nothing else, Men don't pay attention to you, don't chase you, you're not happy, you feel worthless, and then you go behind your back and say bad things about it, pretend to be pitiful, and get the sympathy of others everywhere Women like you suck Lao Tzu has seen a lot and you're lonely???

Freshman year of high school is a good start, but it's also a time of fascination because you start to pay attention to the opposite sex and want to learn about his world. But you can't think of any other way to deal with him, he has his own business, you can help him when he is lonely, comfort him when he is sad, but you can't hurt him because of his business, this will only make him angry with you, as long as you can learn to care, he may be yours.

It's normal, that's what you should go through, you're in school now, and there are people like this in society in the future, and there's nothing wrong with you going through these early.

He doesn't make you a friend.

You still care what he does.

Friends only. Unless you have other ideas.

Hehe, there's no need to hit her, actually, I used to have a friend who was similar to him, and he was very similar to a little wordy, don't be surprised!

In the past, he borrowed my *** and mobile phone, but it turned out, and he fooled me, saying that he would return me in a hurry.

My mother-in-law came, a few months have passed, and I haven't paid it back, I was very depressed and decided to ignore him. But then I got it to the point where I didn't care, friends, and it was over joking with each other.

Now I don't still have a good time with him (but he still fools me sometimes, I don't think it's a big deal, I have very few friends, I don't want to lose him, and I don't bother with him. ）

In fact, in the future, you just need to pay attention and don't cheat on her, and in addition, you'd better apologize to him and make it clear.

If you really don't want to lose her, I suggest buying a new one and giving it back to her.

Good luck, money is easy to get, confidants are hard to find, don't give up if you find good friends, maybe you will be good friends in a few decades, and you will laugh about it then.

In fact, you are both at fault, why do you have to do things too stiffly, in fact, what she is angry with you is, you did not keep your promise to her, she is also at fault, the fault is for a small thing, and let your two-year friendship be broken like this! Actually, you don't have to be too sad, as long as you two talk about it, it's ok! You have to take the initiative yourself, you go to her first to apologize, she doesn't need to be angry with you anymore, for the sake of friendship, cheer yourself!!

go go go !!

Just talk to him directly! ~

Hehe, there have been times when I have been so conflicted, and this kind of friendship can only be temporarily slowed down like this. It's not easy to bother, in fact, when he says something like this, it shows that he doesn't like you, some things, or fate, because I used to be the same as you, don't take the initiative to find him, this will only make him feel that you care about him very much, and you still like him, and he seems very. That's very dragging, a little bit of a very foreign feeling, I think you don't take the initiative to pay attention to him, when you think about the holiday, send him a text message, don't remember it, you don't need to send it, so that he will feel like you're pestering him, if he really wants to be a friend with you in the past, he should understand in his heart, occasionally he will take the initiative to chat with you, maybe this is after the breakup.

Target. Stranger it.

The biggest difficulty in life is that you have to face it most of the time. No one walked along.

What does it mean to ask a former good friend that he has always been a classmate now, but he is not a friend anymore, and he doesn't care about you anymore.

After playing for three years, the relationship is so broken, does she care at all?

It's easy to guess the psychology of others, especially girls, otherwise you'll lose.

But we talked for two nights, and we talked a lot, and the last angry sentence who wants to be friends with you dispersed, she played with her new friend, and felt that the old friend was unnecessary.

If it's angry, you have to think about whether the other person has any hope for you and what you haven't done.

It's the kind of hatred that iron doesn't make steel.

Question: We used to have a very good relationship, since she made a new friend some time ago, our relationship is not inseparable, she doesn't take the initiative to find me, I take the initiative to find him, but I don't want to take the initiative now, I don't think there is hope, she has a new friend, and I don't care about this old friend anymore.

I took the initiative to reconcile with her, and if I didn't take the initiative to find her, she wouldn't come to me, and we never spoke again.

After all, to be dignified, time changes everything, and so do people. Slowly it changed.

Except for yourself, everyone else is a passerby, there are some people who accompany you for half a lifetime, and some people are just in an instant.

We must always be ready to meet the best person with the best version of ourselves.

Ask questions but I just can't let go of this matter, three years of friendship I broke up so much, we are at the same table again, sitting together is particularly embarrassing, my best friend also helped me find her, I feel very faceless, I have taken the initiative to find her twice, I mentioned reconciliation, she also thinks that she can be reconciled, but I ignore her and he ignores me, I don't look for her and she doesn't look for me, I don't understand, why are we willing to reconcile in the end or break up, does she still care about me, if she cares about me, she calls me and we can reconcile, She just didn't look for me, maybe she didn't think it was necessary.

If you are at the same table, you are still reading, listen well in class, and focus on studying. What is embarrassing, as long as you are not embarrassed, the embarrassment is someone else.

School is a small society, and in the future, there will be a lot of people coming and going, so you should leave your energy to the right people.

Break up friends, not do that.

She didn't treat you as a friend when she blamed her on you, so try to treat her as a stranger when she was working.

Although I also know that we used to be friends after all.

It's always awkward when you're face-to-face.

But keep it the way you are.

What to do.

Don't interfere with your work, the most important thing is ha.

Call it out, the two of you have a good talk, maybe there is some misunderstanding, or maybe you did something to hurt her, and you don't know it.

Let's talk about it frankly and unfairly, if not, then it means that there may be some problems between you, if not, then don't force it too much, because we are human beings, not gods, and we can't change the hearts of others.

Well, I have also had your experience, I can feel it, if so, don't think about it, decisively give up this so-called friend, the person who will betray you is not worth befriending, and I hate this kind of person the most.

Don't do it, don't want that kind of friend.

Ask yourself what you've done to be sorry for others.

Why do you see you as an enemy, analyze the reasons, and try to solve them!

Maybe he deceived you, or hurt you, and I feel that way, too, but for them, the well water does not interfere with the river water.

Hehe, there are few real friends, and I am the best friend.

People like you dare to love and hate, and the difference between love and hate is too clear. You, very well, however, are socially equal in pros and cons.

Then she must have been the one who hurt you or betrayed you, then this person must have done it.

Love turns into hate when it is extreme.

It's a bit difficult to get back to your original friend, you want to try your best to ask her out, and then tell you what you have done badly, and express that you cherish your friendship when you say it, and I hope to give you the opportunity to forgive you.

This is very difficult to do, but it is not impossible, in fact, you don't have to say anything, just do it, do it for her, you can only say that time is your only helper.

Give the other person a little more time to digest, some things are difficult to digest in the heart of a short time, maybe after a long time, when you talk to him again, it will disappear.

There is no way, as long as the current society hurts women, it can't be repaired, otherwise you will grasp the weakness of women and serve the food.

Use your previous method. Persistence is the key to success. It will definitely move her.

You can try to persevere and move her with sincerity.

How can I say yes, I used to do the same, introducing my best friend to another friend, but they ignored me. Hehehe, all I can say is that maybe I'm looking away. They were together every day, and I was like a stranger they didn't know.

It's really disappointing to see this, how can I know such a person! I didn't go with them anymore.

Play with them! Sometimes it's because I'm too careful! Both are friends! There's no need to stay away, multiple friends and multiple roads!

It's normal. Like me, I don't know how to intersect, and in three years, there are only 2 good relationships. I introduced those two to each other.

In the end, she finished very well, and I was probably the same as a concoctor among them.

Because their personalities belong to the out-of-the-box, outgoing, and direct. I'm quieter and more reserved. In each circle of friends, everyone has to take on a different role.

For example, I am responsible for mediating the relationship when she quarrels, and when I find that the topic is going to bring someone's sore spot, we are responsible for moving to another place.

Am I not working? No, I'm critical too.

They all said that I was gentle and that there was no pressure to talk to me. In fact, I take into account their reasons in everything I say.

I've also met them, and then they got very close, and then I gradually became strangers to them, whether it's love or friendship, it's the same, she doesn't care, you don't want to play with you, do you have to stick your face on it.

This may be something in your heart,,, you have to integrate with you, don't think they are okay and snub you, and let go of your heart to get along with them.

It's not good to be jealous between friends, but don't stay away, after all, you also said that you are best friends, take the initiative, join them often, find a topic to talk about, and it will be okay slowly.

There is no need to stay away from ordinary friends! Boyfriends and girlfriends are a different story!

Start a meetup. Let's hang out together. That's it. Don't be psychologically burdened.

With them, don't give up.

Girls are like this, so you don't need to stay away.

is not a confidant, there is no more than her, and there is no less than her