How can I let go of my lover who has broken up, and I don t think about her in my heart.

First of all, tell yourself that if you can't accompany yourself through life, it's not the best and not suitable.

Second, tell yourself that you are strangers after you have broken up. From then on, there is no need to create intersections.

Again, there will definitely be a situation of seeing things and thinking about people, try to avoid seeing these things, it is best to deal with them cleanly, even if you see it, don't sit there stupidly in a daze, go back and remember, and stop is the best policy. Give up, it's a real renunciation, after all, it's the person you love, you have to think clearly about whether it's really going to end, the answer is yes, delete his **, QQ number, everything about him, completely cut off contact with him, don't pick up his ** or something, in case all your efforts are wasted.

I don't know if you've heard of selective amnesia? Hehe, there is really a saying in medicine that it is to protect yourself and not think about something. We can also force this to happen, when you don't consciously think about him, you force yourself not to think about him, and just like that, to do something else.

It should be a boy, hehe, don't use alcohol to kill your sorrows, love first, lovelorn and decadent to the end, you can occasionally talk to good friends, but most of the time you have to be positive, because love is not all, life still has to live, I wish you to get rid of the pain of breakup as soon as possible.

Time will dilute everything, don't let yourself think of him.

From finding someone, pin your feelings for him on someone else or something else, although it is painful, but slowly it will get better.

It's going to get better slowly, so it's okay to find one.

1.Find the love of your heart.

2.Hold on to your work and use tedious work to keep yourself from having time to think about these things.

3.Let it be, and everything will pass.

Summary. What I can't let go of is actually what I have paid for so long!

Hello! Rent your rejuvenating now, you can first think about the problems that arise in the relationship! People are often more emotional in love, and when there is a problem in the relationship, there will be thoughts of wanting to give up.

In fact, there will be some problems in every relationship to some extent, and the most important thing to do at this moment is not to choose to give up or persevere, but to find out the relationship problem and work hard to overcome it!

What's the reason you're afraid you'll want to give up on her!?

What made you want to give up on her!?

I understand your reluctance to let her go!

Every relationship is unforgettable!

You've given a lot to this relationship!

There are many situations that can't be put down, because they don't love it anymore, but they are still unwilling to pay so much, but they don't get the result of wanting it! <>

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What I can't let go of is actually what I have paid for so long!

I want to give myself an explanation!

It may also be true that he still loves her, but there is a problem in the relationship between the two people!

And neither of them can find a solution!

That's why you feel very tired to get along! <>

<> idea of giving up!

That's the situation for you!

If you can't let it go, don't force it, pretend to be him in your heart, and then do whatever you have to do, and slowly you will feel that he has faded a lot in your heart. Don't be too strong, don't be too hasty, take your time. You desperately want to let go, but you can't.

You don't even think about letting go and you can't let go, you'll slowly let go. The extremes of things must be opposed, and if there is no desire, it will be rigid.

There are too many beautiful things in the world, every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating. It is the regret that we can't have that makes us feel more retiring, and it is the sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night that make us feel more nostalgic. Love is a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.

Maybe a little regret, a little sadness, will make this answer more timeless and longer. For the beauty that we don't have, we have been yearning and pursuing. Busy for the sake of getting.

In fact, what you really need is often not understood until many years later, and you don't even know what to end up with.

But a person always has to take a strange road, see strange scenery, listen to strange songs, and then in a casual moment, you will find that the things that you originally tried your best to forget are really forgotten.

The boys and girls who broke up face to face, and the girls smiled and said, from now on, you go left and I go right, go forward persistently, and no one will look back. It's not so uncomfortable to be separated, in the opposite direction, you go forward, I go forward, and memories and the past will be left behind. The boy nodded.

But when they turned their heads, they all cried. Breaking up is very simple, just go your own way, but every step hurts, which is the uncomfortable part of breaking up.

At first, I will definitely feel that I can't let go, but after a while, it will be fine.

Since you have chosen to break up, you must be prepared for the breakup.

That's a hobby, don't regret it.

Because you love with your heart, so it's not so easy to forget, it's like a branding in your heart, even if time is lost, you can't forget, you only have to think about what kind of life you want now, and strive to be strong to dilute this lost love of judgment. Have you ever heard such a saying? "I can be happy for days to see you laugh once, but to see you cry once has made me sad for years"In fact, love and forgetting are linked, you can't forget, prove that you have loved deeply, at least you won't regret it, right?

Because you did your best. In fact, if you really can't let go of him (her), then don't let it go, after all, you have worked hard to love, and this relationship will not change all of a sudden, unless you immediately like someone else, but is it possible?

So, why do you have to forget everything and let go of everything. It only makes you more miserable, doesn't it, you can keep him or her quietly, and you can also go back to the sweetness you once had, and be happy, isn't it? It's going to be hard at first.

But, gradually, you will find that it was just that, if he or she doesn't care about you, then even if you go to the ends of the earth, even if you live a decadent life all day long, he still won't remember you (the sun still rises, the days still have to live, not old socks, without him - we still have a wonderful life).

ps I think it's still very good to have friends by your side After all, friendship is more valuable than love、、、 I hope you can take a look Thank you.

If there is no way to recover, you might as well look for a significant other!